proud to say i love them

My thoughts to love yourself

Who am i kidding that teaser screamed INU and Run era stuff which was cool and everything BACK THEN but Wings literally blew our minds with creative energy from all members and we really began looking at them as individual artists with valid and worthy and proud melodies to sing along to- more than just a band. 

BigHit do mass market research, I think it’s time to remind everyone that if you’re over 17 and a BTS fan you’re a minority when it comes to their mass fan base. My 12 year old cousin loves them, but obviously not for the same reasons that I do. In Korea being a fan of BTS isn’t something your 21 year old would say, so their not going to swerve to a minority market when the bulk of their fan base is probably between 12-17 and then anyone above counts as an older fan minority. Complex stories made me a fan of BTS in the first place, but in all honesty this teaser and project has reminded me of things that have been done and done again. 

I didn’t expect BTS to do a copy of the Fault in Our stars or that Nicholas Sparks movie with the girl who has cancer. Jungkook reminded me of that. 

I didn’t expect them to take inspiration from K-dramas. 

I don’t know why they did this, unless BigHit felt they needed to give closure to one story before beginning or continuing another? 

I feel as if this is one of those projects where BTS don’t have creative energy coming from them like they did for Wings, it’s BigHit catering to a Korean market audience that they have extensively done research for. 

I mean, I think the teaser and project are cool and everything- but I’m just disappointed. One thing I really did like was showing them with girls. I think it’s healthy for some ARMY’S as well to see them with girls, it normalises their interactions with females which is so important. 

I think it’s unhelpful as the world looks at BTS now. They made it live in Hollywood because they told individual stories and got named as Kpop’s social conscience. This teaser, for people who don’t know are going to think this is their new theme or something and literally all the cliche’s play in here, in a way that reduces the individual members into a kpop collective. I just hope this is closure to the INU and Run era. 

The other option is that it’s going to show stages of a relationship, the beginning being the first glance, the middle being the good times and the end being the period of realisation that you need to love yourself. It makes sense. In order to realise that you should love yourself, there must firstly be a necessity to realise you have to because no one will love yourself quite like you do. I’m not putting my bets on it though because when the teaser images were released we all thought it was about something else much more intricate- when BigHit may have just made it into the most reductive story ever that’s been done SO many times?

Jungkook’s is already bloody problematic, he looks like he’s trying to run and is already type cast by focusing on his disability? 

I need to cry. 

anonymous asked:

snsd is more than just a group. they are powerful women who did the unexpected. and like you said, they've helped many sones through their most difficult times. snsd will always be more than just a group and that's why we love them and why so many sones are upset sending love to you ❤❤❤

SNSD is so much more than a group. They are the first girl group to win a Golden Disk Daesang and still are the only ones to. They have one of the biggest and most powerful fandoms in the industry, which is amazing for a girl group! I’m saying that because this industry is predominantly male. I’m so proud of what they have achieved :c Their 10th anniversary should have been about the celebration of those things and for us to create more beautiful memories but these people are ruining it T - T  Thank you for understanding though sweetheart ;~;

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my younger sister and i are at each other’s throats constantly, disagree on almost everything, shit talk each other, and really can’t spend extended periods of time together without ending up in a fight. despite that, i love her and would kill for her and am proud of her etc etc. sisterly relationships (esp young sisters) do not have to be sweet for them to love and value each other. they’re complicated and they can be resentful but that doesn’t mean they’re full of hate

i’m close with my sister but only because we live apart we both need our own space or we bicker like crazy

soo many people w/ sisters say this about their relationship like it’s really normal but because girls aren’t apparently allowed to have deep relationships with each pother they get this shallow reading that they clearly hate each other

anonymous asked:

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for every ‘@’ sent (anon or not) I WILL mention and post some positivity about a fellow tumblr user

@moonlitmyth​  —   obviously first and foremost i must talk about mari (aka hector’s literal wifey) because 90% of the things i do on this blog are with her. she’s such a sweet and genuine person, and breathes so much life into this character that we know so little about !!  she’s just an overall wonderful writer and i love every single thread i have with her and can never really say  NO,  which is why we have so many 

@properpoppet   —   now i’ve never  really  spoken to them ooc, but the few times that i have they’ve been nothing but sweet!! overall they just seem like a really welcoming kind of person, and their elizabeth is absolutely  on point  and that’s definitely something to be proud of 

@doodleborg   —   i haven’t had the chance to write with them on their rp blog, nor have i really had a chance to chat with them ooc  BUT THEIR ART IS SO GOOD THAT IT DESERVES A HUGE SHOUT OUT !!!!  honestly i love every thing that i’ve seen them do  ( especially that happy barbossa family au which tore out my heart because we could have had it aaaaaalllllll )

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Here we have Cole giving his bro the jade blade and saying that he “should have bowed out long ago”.

This is the second time I watched this episode, and this time I noticed something - Cole doesn’t say “it’s yours”, he says “she’s yours”. I can’t believe I missed that before. I’d known the scene was the turning point of the love triangle but I hadn’t realized that they were talking about it rather than the jade blade. They put the dispute to rest pretty firmly.

I’m proud of them.

Unfortunately for Jay, Nya is pretty stubborn.

a fun fact about parenting is that if your child is lgbt+, no amount of “i love you"s or “i’m proud of you"s will take away your child’s fear of coming out to you.

i have great parents. they tell me they love me every damn day, and i’ve always had their support. but coming out to them was bar none the most terrifying thing i’ve ever done in my life because they were very, very heteronormative. all the while they were saying they loved me, they never seemed to consider for a second that i could be anything other than straight, and so i had no way of knowing whether or not that love was conditional. do they love me, or do they love the straight daughter who looks like me that only exists in their heads?

my parents love me, my parents are proud of me, but when i told them i’m gay at a restaurant one night, my purse was crammed full of a couple days’ worth of clothes and all the cash i had because i didn’t know if it would be safe for me to go back home.

parents, people who will be parents one day……don’t assume your kids are straight. don’t assume your kids are cis. tell your kids in no uncertain terms that you’ll love and support them if they’re lgbt+, because no matter how well you treat them, i promise you that they need to hear that.

Slytherin Headcanons

• saying ‘shut up’ while laughing
• being extremely nice and understanding towards their friends but unapologetically sarcastic towards others
• speaking of sarcasm: they speak it fluently
• ‘I love you but I love myself more’
• going on long hikes by themselves
• they either go to bed early or don’t sleep at all
• they sleep with stuffed animals but deny it
• they never give up
• challenges are a great pastime
• saying ‘Tragic.’ way too often
• not everyone of them likes Snape
• 'No I am NOT good at potions and you can NOT copy my homework’
• falling asleep to rain
• nearly everyone of them has referred to Draco as a 'wimp’ or 'sissy’
• they will kill you if you insult their pet
• being proud of their background no matter who they are
• yes, there are muggleborn Slytherin’s
• they inniciate snowball fights
• complaining about small things
• 'I AM NOT YELL…I am not yelling.’


Gryffindor Headcanons

Hufflepuff Headcanons

Ravenclaw Headcanons

Secret things your sign gets anxious about randomly (check your moon too):

psst: These are all things someone could get anxious about, but I’ve personally seen certain things in one sign the most which is why I have assigned it to them here. 

Aries: Although they can be quick to rebel, they secretly fear judgment from their peers but will always be too proud to admit this. 

Taurus: Awkward silences! They love being seen as charming and holding a conversation with someone new feels like a lot of work sometimes, as they’re worried they’ll run out of things to say

Gemini: Ending up alone. They adore being surrounded by friends and people they can laugh with, boredom and loneliness are a terrible thought. 

Cancer: If the person they care about cares about them as much too. They’re insecure about their abilities in friendships/relationships and always think they should be doing more. 

Leo: Their mental capabilities! They project loads of confidence and most of the time do really have it, but one small failure in for example school can lead them towards a downward spiral for an hour or two. 

Virgo: They really worry about timing. They get stressed about being on time, doing everything before the deadline is a must and this can lead to small breakdowns. 

Libra: Being invited places. They really can’t stand the thought of being left out! They also fear someone pointing out their flaws a lot. 

Scorpio: Having their secrets out in the open. They’re protective of what they know and feel the need to hold on to intimate details to stay safe. 

Sagittarius: Being the odd one out with nothing to say in a group of people. They’re social AF and need to be somewhat of a leading figure and on top of things. 

Capricorn: Being betrayed by their friends. They feel the need to be backed up in confronting situations, and although they can fight their own battles they also want people standing with them. 

Aquarius: Losing someone they love. Of course, everyone would hate this but Aquas have a vivid imagination and think too much, to the point where they can randomly find themselves in tears over someone who hasn’t even passed away yet. 

Pisces: Not being cool enough. Funny enough, I find that Pisces (at least in their teen years) try very hard to fit in with popular people. They need to talk like them, act like them, dress like them. That’s totally fine! But can be stressful to keep up with. 

it’s exactly what you think it is 

I know I said it before but I’ll say it like a million more times- I’m so proud of Teamiplier and all that they’ve accomplished! They push themselves so hard each and every day to send out fun and creative content for us and it’s the most amazing thing to see. I love watching their process and watching them interact because they really do work so incredibly well together and I’m so happy for them all. <3 <3

@markiplier @crankgameplays (I don’t think any of the others have tumblrs? Let me know if I’m wrong on that!)

Yuuri & Phichit - Museum Guide

• Phichit is a doll and I love him. He greets the listener in Thai, and proceeds to introduce Yuuri as “This is my best friend, Yuuri!” who is, of course, embarrassed by this

• Yuuri calls Phichit a “fan service monster” and says that he always goes over the top when interacting with fans (isn’t that the sweetest thing ever?)

• Phichit demonstrates this by going over the top very enthusiastically explaining the plot and theme to the King&the Skater movie, all while dancing in the middle of the museum in front of his SP costume display

• Yuuri: You’re gonna dance here?!

• Phichit proceeds to grab Yuuri’s hand and tugs Yuuri into the dance with him
(Yuuri asks “Shall we skate?” all breathy-like in English and I died)

Phichit: Look, it’s the photo corner!
Yuuri: Oh no, Phichit’s social media posts are here too…
Phichit: Look, there’s Yuuri’s ring! Hey, omg, did you know, Yuuri and Victor are–
Yuuri: Ahhh, Phichit, no! Next, next, next, let’s go!!
Phichit: Haaaaaaappyyyyyyyyy Wedding! -fading into the background-

• Phichit and Yuuri fanboy Victor’s skating in extreme detail, talking about his routines, jumps and combos. Phichit thinks Victor’s Stammi Vicino program is amazing
(Yuuri thinks everything about Victor is amazing)

Yuuri: Of course it’s so like Victor to be able to pull off programs with such high difficulty
Phichit: If it’s Yuuri, you could totally do it too!!!
Yuuri: Please don’t shout those kinds of things…

• Phichit was super surprised and impressed with Yuuri’s GPF performance, including the fact that he had four quads and a flip in his FS. He also thinks Yuuri is very “manly” for pulling off such a feat

• Phichit:  (shouting) Everyone! My best friend got a silver at the GPF!!!

• Phichit and Yuuri were both super happy to be able to see each other at the GPF, say it brought back fond memories of their time in Detroit together, are proud of each other’s accomplishments and are excited for the future

;A;
Best Friends Forever, I love these two so much… 

Rant About Thai K-Idols

I see a lot of people always say things such as; “King Chittaphon Leechaiyapornkul” or “Lisa is the princess of Thailand” or “Thailand’s King Nichkhun” or “Prince Bambam of Thailand” etc. (do i need to go on). First of all, I’d just like to ask everyone to STOP addressing Thai idols with royal titles. It is EXTREMELY disrespectful to Thailand, the Thai Royal Family, Thai culture, Thai beliefs and the idols themselves. When Sorn was on Happy Together and the hosts kept saying she was Thailand’s princess - you could see how uncomfortable she was and she kept saying no. You know why? It’s disrespectful. Thailand as a nation love and respect our royal family, a lot. We even have pictures of the Royal family everywhere, we stop in our tracks when the national anthem play, our late king passed away and we are still having the year long mourning period. So to be seeing common people referred to as a royalty of our nation, I’m sorry but it’s offensive. I know how great those idols are and as a Thai person I am proud of them for making a name for our country. However, the kpop fandom needs to stop giving them royal titles. They are not even considered A Listers in Thailand! Only people who like kpop knows them. (well except Nichkhun since he’s done many cfs and even lakorns). I mean, if you say King Ten or Prince Bambam no one will care, but if you add of Thailand, it’s another story. Please think about how you’re belittling a nation by doing it and think about how those idols will definitely also be uncomfortable with it and find it disrespectful. I know it’s just a lack of knowledge but I hope EVERYONE will stop doing this. It’s not a matter of Thai people being petty, it is a serious issue as it’s even a crime in Thailand to belittle the royal family and it’s treated as treason.

I’m gonna assume, based on all the tweets flooding my tl, that Thomas just hit 2M on YT. It’s cool to see and actually kinda surreal. Cause seeing him climb his way to the top with Vine and now him branching out to YouTube?? It’s just..so crazy to see how far he’s come. Like. Seriously. You guys. From finding him on Vine with 20k to seeing him hit million after million and now 2M on YouTube? It’s just so..wow! And I know Thomas isn’t a numbers guy, which is one of the things I really love about him, but seeing him at this point after all these years just makes my heart swell. And like. All the people he’s helped and inspired in some way shape or form and seeing all of them do the same for each other?? It’s just a beautiful thing. Seriously. I love it and this community so much! And I hope people see that this fandom is a direct reflection of the kind of person Thomas is! I’m rambling. But I just gotta say how super proud I am and how much I love my handsome, talented gay friend! 🌈💜🏳️‍🌈

And I think we all know that Thomas wouldn’t be where he is now without the help from all of his equally, if not more so, talented friends helping him out with all of his videos!! Every single one of them deserve the same amount of love and recognition as Thomas! They’re all amazing and incredible people! 💕

I am Japanese Dan and Phil fan. And I have bought the Japanese pink cap of them, and I am wearing it every day.

Sometimes I get asked “What’s Dan and Phil?” Because it LITERALLY says “Dan and Phil” in Japanese. As I am socially awkward person, I get a bit nervous every time but I like the cap anyway.

What I wanted to say was, I love their merch with Japanese on them. Most Japanese love to see anyone who loves Japan or anime because it makes us feel kinda proud. At least, I do not find any racism or something.

Thank you

ダンとフィルや、phan達が日本語使ってるの見るとなんかほっこりするから、 差別とかあんま気にしないでほしいな まぁ議論はよく見てないけど

how to ACTUALLY know a person from their voltron icon

lance: most likely very nice, but extremely meme-y. loves lance but also loves langst. will start a conversation through a kermit picture.

pidge: either a conspiracy theorist or someone who’s very new to the fandom. either is okay with all pronouns for pidge or will fight you for that one pronoun they headcanon pidge with. 

hunk: so pure but also so incredibly bitter about the fandom. just wants hunk to be loved. will go through burning buildings for hunk.

keith: a nerd. hates the fandom, but loves the show and knows all the theories, is probably typing one up right now. is so proud over keith. loves mothman. 

shiro: parent friend. too tired of drama, but always knows everything that’s going on. shiro means the world to them. will fight anyone who says something bad against shiro. tries to be friends with everyone. save them. 

allura: so pure. save them. probably wants allura to step on them, and will thank her. loves all. save them from the drama. 

coran: a meme or that one weird uncle friend.

zarkon/sendak: either terrifying or is a huge cuddle bear, nothing in between.

thace/ulaz: “they deserved better" 

rolo/nyma: “ok but they’re really cool and hot, listen," 

other side characters: “i love aliens”

the mermaids: most likely huge lance fans. also very gay.

slav: chaotic evil.

Slytherin x Hufflepuff Relationship Would Include:

Request: Could you make a Hufflepuff and Slytherin relationship would include? Thank you 😊

Originally posted by lovershub


  • SO MUCH PDA
  • The Slytherin not being able to resist the Hufflepuff’s alluring adorableness 
  • holding hands ALL THE TIME
  • pecks on foreheads
  • passionately tender kisses between classes
  • The Hufflepuff kissing them all over
  • The Slytherin loving every single one
  • Though refusing to admit so of course
  • A lot of forced grumbling on the Slytherin’s part
  • The Slytherin getting jealous to the point of a break down
  • “Why’s the glass smashed?!”
  • “They were all over you and you made no move to stop it.”
  • “We were HUGGING. It’s what friends do you buffoon!”
  • Them sticking up for each other regardless as to the situation.
  • “You wrecked the trophy room?”
  • “Well, I mean…I tripped and everything sort of fell and…yes…”
  • “So I blackmailed Filch to get you out of detention and you actually did it?!”
  • The Slytherin almost always being the little spoon after being forced by the Hufflepuff
  • “Now was it really that bad?”
  • The Slytherin’s obdurate qualities being worn away by the Hufflepuff’s omniverted ones.
  • The Slytherin being so cautious and hesitant with the exuberant Hufflepuff at first 
  • The Hufflepuff being a strong motivator for the Slytherin and aiding them in reaching their goals.
  • The Slytherin providing as an inspiration for the Hufflepuff to become more ambitious
  • Insecurities
  • The Hufflepuff reassuring them and making it their mission to demonstrate to the Slytherin that they’re perfect as they are
  • “Those things you consider to be flaws repressing your abilities are what make you more endearing.”
  • The Slytherin cuddling away the pain. 
  • Muttering sweet truths to the Hufflepuff
  • “If you were as you made yourself out to be, would we be here right now? Be proud of the things that make you who you are because they’re beautiful.”
  • both never allowing the other to feel the slightest pain

Originally posted by pleasingpics

  • The Slytherin ALWAYS teasing the Hufflepuff
  • (during herbology) “Why don’t you use those skilful hands for a more…pleasurable cause?” 
  • The Slytherin being gobsmacked when they sass them back
  • “D-did they just…?”
  • “Yup.”
  • The Hufflepuff being the first to say “I love you” 
  • Them saying it all the time, everywhere
  • Knowing the Slytherin feels the same way
  • the Slytherin taking them to a sentimental place, maybe where they first met
  • A soft whisper is almost missed in a passing zephyr as they stand inches apart
  • “I love you.”
To everyone who asks why there isn’t a straight pride

Pride wasn’t born because of a need for validation or celebration, it was not born for simple reasons. It was not born for the simple idea of being proud, the lgbt+/saga community is not saying ‘straight people cannot be proud of who they are’. No, you should be proud of your sexuality and every other part of who you are. But you should also know that you do not need a parade, because by being straight you automatically get a pass saying ‘congratulations you have always, and remain completely accepted by society regarding your sexuality’. And you get multiple other passes that I won’t go on about now, but all these benefits of being 100% accepted: you have them. Why does this mean you don’t need a straight pride?

Because pride was born of a fight for acceptance and respect, and all the things you have had handed directly to you and take for granted. Pride for the lgbt+/saga community is about being proud of who we are after being continually told we shouldn’t be and that we should hide who we are. Being proud of who we are after everyone told us not to be, our own families, friends, society, even ourselves. It’s about finally winning a battle and saying ‘you know what, I deserve to love myself, I deserve to be proud. Fuck what anyone thinks.’ Pride is about being told you shouldn’t exist or don’t exist and shouting out that you do and you’re proud of that. That you are happy to be completely yourself. 

It’s about acknowledging a history of violence and hatred towards people like you, and showing them how far they have gotten the world, how far everyone has come thanks to their fight. Showing that you are still fighting. It’s about a community all bonded by this one thing: a need to be accepted and respected and a need to love- no matter what gender. It’s about a community who all had to learn to love themselves and each other, because they are worth it. And who had to fight for their place in this world.

So, pride isn’t about showing off or saying ‘we are better than you’. It’s about all of this, it’s about, after all we have been through saying ‘I’m proud of who I am and I’m happy to be alive’. And yes of course you can join in on this, of course you can be proud. But do it alongside us, do it with respect towards our past and what we are still fighting for. Be someone who fights with us so one day lgbt+/saga kids won’t even know how it feels for a world to not want them to merely exist. So that all those benefits will be extended to everyone and pride can finally be a ‘we made it’ celebration. So don’t be ignorant and laugh off everything we stand for, don’t diminish all our hard work in one simple sentence. And be glad that you don’t need a straight pride.


@maisiek

Look at this smol baby smiling because of a fanboy screaming his name. I FUCKING CAN’T.

update: I saw some tweets saying that person was screaming KiHyun’s name but you can’t really hear it well, but whatever, still look at his fucking smile, he’s enjoying it.

nevermind, @tiny-nerd63 told me he’s really screaming JooHeon-ah SO LET’S BE HAPPY LIKE HIM.

IF JOOHEON IS HAPPY I’M HAPPY OKAY.


MUST. PRO.TECT.

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