Been searching natural hair forums almost all day trying to find different styles for my hair. Bobby pins are my hairs best friend lately. I always use them for different updos but I need something different. Protective styles never look right on me because of my shrinkage and the fine texture of my hair. I end up looking like a toddler or the style unravels and NEVER stays. Ugh the struggle and frustration. I get tired of just wearing my hair out or in a bun. I Need HELP!