Daddy, do you have any advice on how to end a first date? I'm meeting a POT for a drink in a few days, and I don't know how long I should stay/how to bring it to an end. They always want me to stay longer and I find it hard to make up an excuse that leaves no wiggle room.
Initial meets/dates with a POT should be short and sweet. Don’t meet for a long dinner; nothing worse than realizing that the guy is a dud before the appetizers arrive and having the prospect of 2 more hours in front of you! Instead, meet for a happy hour drink or coffee. Plan on spending an hour or 90 minutes max. When you are ready to go, simply look at your watch (or your phone, lol), and say, “my, my look at the time! I gotta go!” And that’s it!
I know that some sugar babies counsel that the first date should be a more involved sort of thing, replete with dinner and after dinner cocktails. That’s fine, maybe, if you got a whale by the tale, but for your Everyman sugar daddy, I think that is just a waste of time!