Credit to petit-pavot but really though. IT WILL BE OKAY YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS MY DEARS WE ARE STRONG AND WE DESERVE TO LIVE IN THIS WORLD AND ENJOY IT AND EXPERIENCE IT AND FALL IN LOVE AND SPEND HOURS ON THE ROAD AND TRY SKETCHY DINERS AND TRY LITTLE CAFES AND SHOP ON WHIM AND LAUGH OUT LOUD AND ENJOY OURSELVES WITHOUT A VOICE YELLING BACK BECAUSE WE DESERVE TO BE FREE #edfree #edrecovery #eatingdisorderrecovery #edfamily #anawho #anorexiarecovery #anarecovery #prorecovery #intake #minniemaud #maudsley #recovery #healthy #food #inspire #inspiration #motivation
Yes, you should eat. You should always eat. No more of this sitting around for an hour with your cup of coffee trying to decide. You should always eat. There is never a time when skipping a meal is the right answer. Go eat, because you need to. Go eat, because you have a life to live.
DON’T hold onto clothes that fit your sick body but no longer fit your healthy body. That’s like holding onto your tricycle and periodically trying to switch back to it from the bike you ride every day. If you think it won’t trigger you, trust me - in a moment of weakness, it will and it’s just a matter of time so don’t even risk it.
DON’T hold onto friendships that are can potentially be triggering or toxic to you in any way. Unfortunately, this often includes people you’ve befriended in treatment but isn’t limited to it. This is a very important albeit difficult step to take but it’s time for you to think about YOUR health and wellbeing here. If it’s not part of the solution, then it’s a part of the problem. It’s not you being mean or cruel, it’s you making sure that you can live the ed-free and full life that you deserve.
DON’T hold onto your scale - food scales included! Your weight will fluctuate from day to day (as will the amount of food you eat) depending on a variety of factors and let’s face it - whether you’re just starting to recover or are almost there, having an ED-past and owning a scale just doesn’t add up to anything productive and can potentially be a trigger for a downward spiral in the future. I haven’t owned a scale in 5 years and my life hasn’t been negatively affected in the least - toss it and forget about it guys!
DON’T hold onto ED mementos (photos, diaries etc.) if they’ve ever served as a trigger for you in the past. If you have days when you’re feeling off balance and you tend to reach for your thigh gap pics from way back when to motivate unhealthy behavior - you need to get rid of them NOW. If when you feel sad you tend to re-read journal entries outlining your minuscule intake of ED-past and dwell on eating like a normal human being now - you need to toss out these journals and not look back. Clinging to the past is a direct link to potentially ending up right where you started so don’t go there.