prophet (s.a.w)

anonymous asked:

would you ever be in a polygamous marriage

Lol thats a tricky question.
I personally have nothing against polygamy. The problem these days, is theres sooo many brothers that want more than one wife, but can’t give their first wifes their rights islamically.
If the brothers acted like the Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w), and gave the women their rights by spending on them, giving them their time and undivided attention, giving emotional support and love, then it wouldn’t be a probem for me or any other sister to be in a polygamous marriage. But the sad reality is, brothers can’t maintain 1 wife, let alone 2, 3 or 4.

A man came to the Prophet (s.a.w) and said: “O Messenger of God, direct me to an act, which if I do, God will love me and people will love me.”
He said: “Detach yourself from the world, and God will love you. Detach yourself from what is with the people, and the people will love you.”

[Ibn Majah]

So y'all know that post that says

“the prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) stopped an entire army to search for Aisha’s necklace but you can’t even respond to a text”

People are like “Aww that’s so cute and true! Bae doesn’t even respond”

Okay.. Um.. Bruh.. Aisha was his wife.. If he isn’t your husband then what makes you think he feels obligated to respond, like real talk. You aren’t married. You don’t have those wife rights so …Umm.. Unless you’re husband is ignoring your text messages you should stop comparing your “relationship” to Aisha and the prophet (S. A. W)