pro healthy

if your ships are not “relationships goals” you’re doing something wrong

i’m not even kidding im so pro healthy relationships it hurts like idec when abuse supporters call it “boring” give me all that //boring// shit im so thirsty for healthy, consensual relationships filled with respect and love and friendship ill take that any day over forced gross over dramatic ~~connections~~

One of the best ways to accept your own body is to start accepting others’.

Study paintings and photography. Follow body positive blogs and Instagram accounts. Sit in a cafe or on a park bench and watch an array of colourful, diverse people passing by and appreciate them all.

Because they are all beautiful, and so are you.


Looking for people I can follow who understand the struggles yet are trying for recovery as well. It’s quite lonely sometimes but hopefully I can make some friends here. I am trying for recovery but have dealt and deal with an eating disorder, self harm, anxiety, depression and cptsd. Sounds like a mix right? But I’m surviving on hope and hard work toward recovery.

Stelliums, Pros and Cons

  • 1st House, Pro: Usually very beautiful, comes off as open.
  • 1st House, Con: Usually very stereotypical (especially if the Sun is here, or dominated by mostly masculine or feminine planets), and often egotistical.
  • 2nd House, Pro: Very beautiful, fashionable, and comes into money.
  • 2nd House, Con: Very materialistic, too quick to commit and possessive. (Especially if Venus is here).
  • 3rd House, Pro: Communicative, Intelligent, often spends entire life learning and teaching.
  • 3rd House, Con: Typically very anxious (esp with Mars) and pessimistic (esp if Saturn or Pluto is involved). Can be condescending and even elitist (esp with Sun).
  • 4th House, Pro: Loving, people are comfortable with you, tends to be an open book (with Sun).
  • 4th House, Con: Parents everyone, takes on too much responsibility, needs to support someone or they get depressed.
  • 5th House, Pro: Fun loving, Life of the Party, enjoyable and popular.
  • 5th House, Con: Egotistical and Reckless.
  • 6th House, Pro: Healthy, routine-worthy and intelligent. Good self discipline.
  • 6th House, Con: If Saturn/Pluto are involved, there may be lots of health issues. Despite this, healthy living tends to be a pivotal point in the persons life. Anxiety also lies here, especially if Mars or Mercury is involved.
  • 7th House, Pro: Good Partner™, loves loving, romantic and Will Never Cheat.
  • 7th House, Con: Stays in relationships for too long, can’t be alone, gets depressed if they’re not being loved. Guilty of rebounding.
  • 8th House, Pro: Intelligent, Understanding and is able to get themselves in or out of any situation. Tends to be both easy to spot and easy to lose. Knows lots of psychology and can use it to their advantage.
  • 8th House, Con: Manipulative, pessimistic, often surrounded by death in some way. (Lots of people who talk about suicide, saw a death as a child, perhaps even come face to face with it themselves). There also may be some trauma here.
  • 9th House, Pro: Understanding, cultured, either religious or understanding of the practices. Good in politics / Political Minded.
  • 9th House, Con: Too blunt, too willing to compromise, often forgets about themselves.
  • 10th House, Pro: Ambitious, tends to come into money in their work. Does what they love.
  • 10th House, Con: Workaholic, to the point it damages relationships. There is often also a lot of lessons to be learned by the individual, making them “too serious”.
  • 11th House, Pro: Lots of friends! Can get along with anyone, tends to make conversation easily (esp if Mercury is here).
  • 11th House, Con: Makes shallow connections, needs to surround self with people to be happy, and often uses helping others to avoid their problems. Too willing to assist, as well. Can’t say no.
  • 12th House, Pro: Understanding, empathetic, and is good with psychology. Psychic dreams.
  • 12th House, Con: Mental Illness in some form (either having some yourself or being close to those who do), often picks up too well on others emotions yet is oblivious to intentions.