yikes this has been a long time coming, im gonna compile a list of some of my favorite movies because i get this question! i totally recommend all of these movies, they’re all my absolute favorites and i hope i never get asked this question again after posting this
[T]ranscending gender norms is still an issue of personal shame. Not mastering your gender is like not mastering toilet training. If people can’t tell if you’re a boy or a girl, they feel uncomfortable and/or angry, and you feel humiliated and embarrassed.
Riki Wilchins, Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, 2004