pressure

anonymous asked:

I came out to my friend last week and she was super supportive but now she's pressuring me into coming out to other people and she's saying that she's out as bi and nobody cares and that nobody's gonna judge me or whatever but I still don't feel ready and idk how to tell her without sounding rude bc I do wanna come out some day it just doesn't feel like the right time right now

It is 100% not okay that your friend is pressuring you to come out when you are not ready, and you are not being rude by telling her you are not comfortable to come out of the closet just yet. Only you can decide when you are ready and comfortable to come out of the closet. Coming out is a deeply personal journey that everyone should be given a chance to decide whether or not they wish to undertake. Only you get to make that choice, not your friend. 

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