pregnant after multiple losses

All of the parents and siblings know we are pregnant, now I’m concerned with how I post to Facebook. Do I mention my losses? Do I post the bible verse journaling page? Do we spend $50 and get a photo shoot done? Do we wait until our 13 week appointment Feb 15? Do I even want to make it public before I start to show or do I want to keep this little secret forever?

I can’t decide. Help. What did y'all do?