yall, important announcement here, from one a-spec to another
if u got mutuals on this site that u see posting/reblogging aphobic messages and posts, esp during pride, and if they commonly talk shit about asexuals and aromantics and get like 20+ notes from their mutuals that kind of have always scared u a bit:
👏 drop 👏 them 👏
100% get rid of them
soft block. hard block. unfollow. get that toxicity offfffff ur dash my dudes.
i know its kind of hard esp if u feel like ur friends with this person but u guys trust me.. when worst comes to worst, they are not going to care if ur having a breakdown bc of shitcourse stress.
they are not going to comfort u, they are going to ignore u, bc ur pain is trivial to them. they just 100% do not care
and half the time, they’re not even gonna realize that they’re hurting u
do yourselves a favor and purge that shit from ur lives okay. it feels so freeing being able to post a breakdown that is shitcourse related and not have to worry about tagging it so they wont have to see it.
its incredible to have real friends who love every part of u, and respect those parts.
u shouldnt have to have ur identity on another persons blacklist bc somehow u are a ‘discourse topic’ and they dont want to start 'drama’
do yourselves a favor and surround yourself with only kindness and acceptance alright?
love, someone who has broken so many mutuals at the start of june for this kind of thing
(also if ur worried about makin new friends, hmu bc i love my a-spec buds)