Hey um, I hate to bug ya when it's not really any of your business but I've recently been getting tagged in a bunch of posts for random people's wishlists for Christmas/birthdays and it's been making me super uncomfortable because the way they word things is like they wanna guilt trip you for free art when a gift isn't really something that you should demand for, especially from a person that you haven't even bothered to talk to or be friends with. How do I gently let them down?
aw you’re not bugging me! :>
and yeah, i’ve been tagged in a few of those on dA. they’re… a little uncomfortable and awkward, but just remember that you’re not obligated to answer or draw anything for them. i think the best thing to do is to ignore those posts for now, and if they try to pester you about drawing them something that’s when you should let them down - and if it comes to that, just tell them that you don’t feel comfortable drawing something for someone you don’t really know and don’t like feeling demanded to gift someone something~!