Be the Support System that your past self needed.
Don’t pay attention to the ones that berate you and focus on the ones that celebrate you! 

Happy Big Girl Appreciation Day! 


lets be real, finding social media artists and celebrities that look like you is hard as a fat girl, even harder as a fat girl of color. so, im here to help out my fellow chubby bunnies w/ a list of my favorite plus size youtubers and bloggers! they cover everything from fashion, makeup, and hauls to romance, friendship, sex, advice, etc all from the perspective of fat girls! ive found these ladies to be very inspiring and helpful in the journey of self love. i hope its the same for you : )

sarah rae vargas

  • who? my personal favorite! she has such a laid back and warm vibe to her, you really feel like you’re a good friend while watching her videos. 
  • what? what i like i about sarah is that she isn’t chained to one ‘genre’ of youtube videos. there’s tons of hauls, makeup, and other fashion related things but my favorites series of hers are “lets talk about sex” (i learned to be so confident during sex because of this series), “ask sarah” a general faq and inquiry series, and her other chit chat videos
  • where? youtube - instagram - website - @ravingsbyrae 

chanel boateng

  • plus size fashion blogger, youtuber, and model. possibly one of the most adorable human beings in existence. she exudes confidence and unashamed self love!!
  • everything fashion, makeup, and !!! natural hair !!! for us black girls!! she has the occasional q/a, vlog, and random chit chat video. 
  • youtube - instagram - website


  • plus size fashion blogger, wig and weave reviewer, sweeter than pie, unique fashion sense, and absolutely gorgeous
  • she doesn’t upload very often, but where she does its definitely something youll want to watch!! most of her videos are about natural hair, wigs, affordable bundles, and plus size outfits of the day
  • youtube - no instagram or site

ivy dear

  • plus size blogger, hair stylist, ABSOLUTE QUEEN of sew-ins. im serious guys, she’ll slay herself and her clients to the point where you’ll question if its actually weave, even if u saw her installing it. she’s THAT good. im fairly certain she popularized the ‘flip over method’ in the youtube natural hair community, so thats pretty cool!
  • allll you need to know about natural hair, wigs, bundles, sew ins, and everything in-between. her videos are SO thurough and informative, i learned almost everything i know about sew ins from ivey!
  • youtube - instagram - bookings/hair appointments

vanessa manley

  • plus size vlogger, such a kind heart and soft voice, it makes her videos feel very relaxing and personal!!
  • her youtube is almost completely fashion hauls and lookbooks!! lazy day? concert? need bathing suit ideas? vanessa has you covered! her videos are so well thought out and creative!! she has the occasional chit chat and confidence chat as well 
  • youtube - instagram

Sometimes, there’s a really fine line between Self-Confidence and Conceitedness… XD


I got a big gut, chunky rump, swollen cankles, sweaty pits, and a spirit you can’t break! XD