Hi! I'm 21 and just started questioning my sexuality, but I've been going in circles for months. One thing that throws me off is that I've never definitely had a crush on a girl (though I've had a few maybe-crushes). And generally speaking I just seem to have less things to point to in my than almost every other story I hear. Do you have any advice about how to become more confident in understanding who I'm attracted to?
There is no need for you to figure out your sexuality yet: you’re super young! Plus, I 100% believe that sexuality is fluid. There are people who’ve been in relationship with the opposite sex their entire life and all of a sudden fall in love with the same sex. Labels don’t mean shit, you shouldn’t be too hasty with giving yourself one. Just live your life, make memories, try things out and don’t think too much about these things