SOOO, I have not come out as bi to all of my friends, and today I accidentally came out to one of my friends and goddamn it all just happened so fast, anyways here’s the story:
I’m at her house and on her laptop on my tumblr with her staring at picture of Tom Hiddleston. I noticed that I had a message and in my head I was like “it’s probably just some spam thing that wants me to check out their website” so I click on my messages and in turned out that an anon had sent me a message that started with “I’m also bi…” And my friend saw it. So she just looked at me and I laughed nervously and was like “Well, I have something to tell you uuh, I’m not straight, I’m bi, I like guys and girls” while looking her directly in the eyes. Then because I was nervous and I didn’t know if now she felt uncomfortable I was like “ don’t worry I don’t like you like that I still just like you as a friend” and she didn’t really say anything. She’s pretty religious and she doesn’t have anything against the lgbtqia+ community but (I’m only assuming) she doesn’t necessarily support it…? So anyways I asked her if she had any questions and she didn’t know and I asked her if we are still friends and she said yeah. Anyways she didn’t really have a reaction to my coming out and I don’t think she really wanted to talk about it so I’m kind of confused now, like, what does this mean? Is it because I was so straightforward about it? Or because I happened really fast? Anyone have any advice?
Btw fun fact: her whole church (including the pastor) was at her house while this happened