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Writing ADHD characters, an incomplete guide by a person with ADHD

So, if you want to write a character with Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, it doesn’t matter if it’s an original character in your new story, or if you’re writing PJO fanfiction, there’s some things you need to know:
•Soda, sugar, coffee, they don’t make us MORE hyper, they actually help us calm down. A lot of people with ADHD self-medicate with coffee and soda on a daily basis when they don’t have access to actual treatment
•Our brains have two settings: hyperfocus and complete lack of attention. If your character is seriously worried about something, or if they like what they’re doing, it’s very likely they’re not going to stop. At all. I have once spent two entire days researching a topic, without moving from my computer, until I had to. Because I peed myself. I was fifteen. Hyperfocus is a serious problem, even if it’s sometimes useful. Don’t treat it as a superpower, please.
•On the same note, your character probably cannot spend too much time or energy on something they don’t like. As in, sometimes five uninterrupted minutes of reading are harder to achieve than three hours of writing, simply because the reading is not fun.
•We fidget. A lot. Your character probably repeats a movement over and over and over and over again, or they might always be doing something with their hands. You can make it something useful, but it is not necessarily common (Leo Valdez, from HOO, is a good example of useful fidgeting, with the things he builds. Annabeth Chase, on the other hand, tends to fidget with her necklace, a completely non-useful movement that is repeated several times, enough to be mentioned)
•Crazy energetic moments of inspiration happen. They usually don’t last. And people can’t really follow along with what we’re doing. The results, in my experience, are 50/50 on total garbage or amazingly good.
•Conversations, especially between several people with ADHD, can really easily go from point A to point G without going anywhere in the middle. Our brains tend to make different connections.
•Memory. Our memory is shitty and weird, most of the time. Same as our focus, it usually is either perfect or not there at all. I have lost countless hours to my own brain, chasing my thoughts.
•Planning is hard. Proof reading is hard. Finishing things once the original boost of focus is gone is almost impossible. I’m sorry this is so short, but it was a spur of the moment decision.

Feel free to ask me questions. I’ll probably love to explain things to you.
And please. To all fanfic writers. Stop making the characters go more hyper when they drink coffee. Seriously, one coffee makes me focus, two make me productive. Three make me take a nap.

Headcanon NSFW: Jerome Valeska

A = Aftercare

Jerome doesn’t cuddle nor he makes sure if he was too rough. From time to time his lips and/ or tongue brushing over the marks he gave you.

C = Cum

Jerome loves to spill his seed on your body before wiping it away with his finger and sticks it in your mouth.
He also enjoys to eat you out and doesn’t stop after you came.

D = Dirty Secret

Jerome has no secrets when it comes to his sexual life. He’s like an open book to you and isn’t ashamed of it when it comes to his sexual desire.

E = Experience

Jerome isn’t the most experienced person in Gotham. But he learns fast and knows after your first time what makes you scream and squirm.

F = Favourite Position

Speed bump.
Jerome enjoys it to mountain you and to press your body in the mattress. The skin to skin contact where he feels every little move of your body are a big turn on for him. Same goes for the sounds which leaves your mouth and who are close to his ear.

I = Intimacy

He wants you - he takes you.
He doesn’t waste time with foreplay, instead he purrs in your ear what he’ll do with you before tearing your clothes off.

J = Jack Off

Jerome doesn’t jerk himself off as long as he has you. Only when you’re tied up to the bed and he stares down at you and wants to tease you.

K = Kink

Jerome is a kinky bitch.
From blood choking until knife play, he enjoys every form of kinky sex.
But his biggest kink to test your limits, the fine line between pain and pleasure.

L = Location

Jerome has no limits and it wouldn’t bother him to have an audience during your little make out.

M = Motivation

Every part of your body is a turn on for him, even when he wouldn’t admit it. The way you move, speak, smile or look at him.

N = NO

There’s nearly nothing what would be a turn off for Jerome.
Jerome doesn’t kinkshame and says frankly when he doesn’t want to do something.

O = Oral

Jerome enjoys fucking your throat the same way he enjoys to go down on you. Especially when you’re tied to the bed and aren’t able to move and he has the control over you.

P = Pace

Two words: fast and hard.
Expect when he wants to tease you and he penetrates you with slow, powerful thrusts.

Q = Quickie

Jerome likes quickies, but he doesn’t prefer them. The quick, hard thrusts where he has no time to play his little games with you doesn’t satisfy him enough, but prepare you what’ll come when he has more time for you.

R = Risk 

Jerome takes risks.
No matter if he’d hurt himself.
He tries to go easy on you and tests how much you could take and a little more. But he’d never seriously hurt you.

S = Stamina

Jerome is insatiable.
Once he gets started, he doesn’t stop until you’re a mess and sore between the legs.

T = Toy

Jerome owns a lot of toys and wants to try each of them with you. The only thing what he doesn’t allow is when a toy pleases you more than him.

U = Unfair

Jerome is a tease.
He’d stop just before his orgasm only to hear you beg and whimper. Also he’d hold you in position so that you can’t move your hips against his.

V = Volume

Jerome is unusually quiet in bed.
Small groans, growls and purrs leaving his throat. His warm breath tickles in your neck and sends shiver after shiver down your spine.

W = Wild Card

Jerome has a fetish for costumes and roleplay.
Police officer and criminal where he punishes you for being a bad, bad girl.
Everything about the circus where you’re in one and give in to pleasure..

Y = Yearning

Sex hasn’t top priority for Jerome.
He could do without it for a few days or even weeks


Jerome is a ball of energy.
So while you’re busy with catching your breath, he’s already doing other things like taking a shower etc.

The number 1 thing that annoys me so much is that some people take their fangirling too far. I don’t care if two actors are secretly dating so don’t post about their private lives. don’t feed people lies and gossips based on your imagination. don’t ruin their friendship just because you are obsessed with the idea that they could be dating or would be a perfect couple. it’s one thing to ship two actors but please don’t force them to date by making photoshop edits of them kissing or holding hands. also some tv show shippers should seriously sit the fuck down and stop wishing death on anyone with a different ship.

anonymous asked:

Could you provide some posts explaining why cats are dangerous to reptiles, re: bacteria? I've looked online but couldn't find anything. Trying to stop my cousin from taking more "cute" photos of her cat and snake together 😑

I think this post by @kaijutegu has a lot of the scientific reasoning covered.

Here’s a post that turns my stomach, so maybe it will make your cousin stop abusing her snake.

Here’s one more that talks about how putting predator and prey together for a “cute” picture is a bad thing to do.

And here’s another post, by @reptiliaherps et al. covering the same issue.

To sum it up:

  1. Cats and dogs can easily harm the reptile, even if they mean no harm (by playfully batting with paw or biting lightly) – bacteria or no, but bacteria they carry do make it worse;
  2. Reptiles aren’t mammals and will be stressed when exposed to an animal larger than they are, which is their predator in the wild.

amwritingmeta  asked:

Which are your five favourite scenes with Dean and Cas? (And why, if you please.) xx

Oh you! GAH this is so hard man… OK working backwards:

5. The whole of 12x10...but if I had to choose one, probably the diner scene. 

Dean is not a man of words and he generally is pretty reserved with his feelings (obvs!) around Cas, but here he is just Mr Leave My Husband Alone! The upset at not going in with Cas, the pacing, the fact that Sam knew he would barge in, the postulating in front of Ishim, so Ishim has their relationship pegged after 2 seconds, the lack of personal space, telling Ishim to go to hell for insulting Cas and themselves when he was just moments ago pulling Cas’s ass over the metaphorical hot rocks himself… 

If this isn’t Dean showing how much he cares for the guy (platonically or romantically I don’t really mind, the caring is what stuck for me here), I don’t know what this is :)

Originally posted by bubblemish

4. The MoC!Dean / Cas scene of 10x22. This was so painful but so necessary. For me it shows just how much Cas can see Dean has fallen, he truly feels that he is losing him. I head canon that Cas could feel Dean’s longing waning, his soul fading as he fell further into the MoC and the Darkness, hence the way he acted towards him was different, kind of… cold? During this whole arc? I thought it was really subtle but key and I loved that, culminating in this moment where he tries desperately to get Dean to hang onto the remains of himself.

The key thing here for me is that Cas doesn’t fight back, he lets Dean pummel him to pieces because he doesn’t want to hurt Dean, even though it isnt really Dean, he can’t bring himself to. Then in the end, he isnt begging for himself, for his own life, for me he is begging Dean not to kill him to save Dean from himself… *insert sobbing noises here*

Originally posted by phangirl-landphil

3. This Casifer scene from 11x18, where Dean pours his heart out. Where Crowley, Sam, Rowena, Lucifer and Amara can all see, where Amara and Lucifer both acknowledge that they noticed this, where Amara subsequently uses Cas to get to Dean (so God’s sister has to use a ‘small fry’ Angel to get through to Dean? Because they’re such good buddies? Please!) and manipulate him (and it works), man I just so want Lucifer to mention it please!

I love that there is both Cas and Lucifer in this scene. How Cas’s response to realising he saw Dean calling to him is so sweet, one of the rare smiles we ever get from him, how Dean is so desperate through this whole arc but in this moment just lets everything down to try to get through to him, not giving a damn about everyone else in the room….

Originally posted by driverpicksthemuusic

2. The whole of 9x06 man.

But if I had to choose one, probably the goodbye scene just because that is the most emotional after the whole episode’s built up emotional drama. The angst. The pain. Dean has always lusted after Cas, he then really fell for him emotionally and felt rejected in season 8. Cas didn’t truly understand, he had emotions, more than a normal Angel, that’s why he is different, he always had “too much heart” but it’s not until he fell that I think he truly realised that he loved Dean. This episode is where they finally were on the same page and finally alone. Dean had heart eyes throughout the whole freaking episode, Nora assumed Steve was queer and that Dean was his ex, Dean knew Cas was hurting and just tried to help… it was a whole episode of man pain… which ended in another separated due to outside circumstances…. always the adios man...

Originally posted by blowingshine

1. The bedroom / mixtape scene in 12x19.

I just wrote a whole thing summarising this, for me it is so amazingly important. It takes all these previous moments and kind of smooshes them together, taking 9 years of miscommunication, pain, love and friendship and taking it to the next level on all of these with a huge leap forwards in their communication and actually using their words to describe how they fell towards themselves and each other. It’s so beautiful, seriously!

Dean:  Just let me give myself to you. 
Please stop leaving me. I forgive you.

Cas:   I just want to protect you. I don’t deserve to have you.

Dean: Of course you do dumbass.

Cas:   No, I don’t. Not yet. I will save you even if it costs me my life.
         Just let me give myself for you.

Originally posted by weallneedcastiel

Also, this is my 2000th post, the day after I hit 1000 followers - which kind of makes my non mathematical but logical mind happy :)

  • Lance: Hey Keith, are you a pokemon?
  • Keith: What?
  • Lance: Because I chose you. Or I could have said I like throwing my balls at you but that would be taking things a little to far
  • Keith: *sigh* oh my god, I hate you! -_-
  • Lance: Hey hey Keith!
  • Keith: What!?
  • Lance: Are you my asthma inhaler?
  • Keith: please stop!
  • Lance: Because you're giving me life
  • Keith: I'm going to kill you!
  • Lance: Please, one more?
  • Keith: ugh fine!
  • Lance: Did you fall from heaven?
  • Keith: Seriously Lance, that's the oldest one in the book.
  • Lance: So you did fall from heaven, and you were sent to hell because of that freak mullet.
  • Keith: LANCE! You're so FUCKING DEAD!!

This fandom does a good job of keeping Mike, Dustin, and Will in character, but then completely mangles Lucas and El’s characters and it’s obvious why it’s the two of them who get so disregarded. With Lucas it’s such internalized racism and people constantly push stereotypes and their expectations for a black character onto him, even if it completely goes against his canon personality. Then with El there’s such a stigma against mental illness and people completely disregard her mental health, they try and pretend everything is perfect for her and by doing so they completely infantilize her. I’m not saying this to be angsty or whatever, but Eleven is not mentally healthy and the trauma she went through in the lab is never going to fully go away, and those facts are an extremely important part of what makes up her personality. Pretending otherwise just erases her character. Both Lucas and El’s characters get completely destroyed by this fandom and it really bothers me. I’m not saying you’re a bad person for doing this, in fact I’m confident the majority of people who do it don’t even realize it. So please, can everyone reading this just take a moment to look at yourselves and seriously consider whether you may be guilty of doing this, because no one realizes they’re doing it, but it’s still hurting this fandom and I would really like to stop seeing Lucas and El portrayed as completely different characters than they actually are solely because of some internalized prejudices

this post is over TWO YEARS OLD so please stop reblogging it!!! the information in the post is incredibly inaccurate and honestly the entire post is flaming hot garbage

AND ANOTHER THING!!! please stop taking everything you see on tumblr so seriously. if you wanna learn more about asexuality, google it. go to websites dedicated to the information. do your own research. educate yourself. you’ll be thankful for it later trust me


🌸 I’m back! OMG I miss writing so much and to make this comeback(lol) memorable,  here’s Boyfriend!Taeil for all of you!

Thanks for the people who requested this! I’m sorry it took me so long!

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tomatojellyfish  asked:

How about Chocobros jokingly mocking their S/O over some truly silly stuff, but S/O suddenly tearing up, since they embarrass of themselves? How Bros would make up for this?(my partner buy pizza for dinner for a month, and she made me do all laundry)

Oh dear

The Chocobros accidentally upsetting their S/O

Noctis: When Noctis is teasing his S/O with his back turned, not even thinking about it, he doesn’t know what to do when he hears the small sob from behind him. He’d turn to see his S/O tearing up and just freeze, like oh no I hecked up. He’d probably be apologising a mile a minute and he’d make the bed for a month to say sorry.

Ignis: Ignis would mock his S/O about something they had put a lot of effort into, without realising how much effort they had put into it. He’d immediately realise his mistake when his S/O’s eyes filled with tears and he’d just immediately put his hands on their shoulders and apologise softly. He’d be ashamed at making his S/O upset, and make them their favourite dessert to apologise.

Prompto: Prompto would find the silliest thing to poke fun at, without realising it was something his S/O was self conscious about and the tears would take him totally by surprise. He’d be so flustered, wiping away their tears and swearing that he wasn’t serious, please don’t cry I’m sorry!! He’d give them so many cuddles to try to make it up to them.

Gladio: He wouldn’t even be seriously teasing them, but when Gladio accidentally touched a nerve he wouldn’t realise how upset his S/O was until he noticed the tears. He’d just enfold them in a massive hug until they stopped sniffling and apologise quietly. He’d apologise by taking them out somewhere nice for a meal.




Prompt: the reader is paranoid and Spencer finds out.



Since the beginning, the team had wondered why you were so… strange?
You were a lovely person, but sometimes you acted differently from other people. For example, when Spencer found a knife under your pillow.

He was at your’s because that day you were sad, so you asked him to have dinner with you, just not to be alone.
You two were talking in the kitchen, where of course you were cooking pasta. In the kitchen there was at least 20 knives, but some of them were in every room of the apartment. Even one in your bed. No one knew about it, but you felt safe.

Spencer started to notice your restlessness when, during the dinner you started to look at points of the house where the light was off.

“Are you ok, (y/n)?”

“I don’t like when lights are of…”

“Are you scared of the dark?”

“Sort of.”

You were scared that someone would jump out of the dark and hurt you, even kill you. You didn’t like ‘not to see’.

You finally finished to eat. Spencer had noticed thst something was wrong with you, but he didn’t want to annoy you asking.

“Spencer, before you go, do you want to watch television?”


You heard hesitation in his voice.

“If you don’t want to, it’s ok with me.”

“No, I want to! Seriously. It is just I know there is something wrong, so…”

You told him everything was good and he pretended to believe you.

“Seriously Spence, I am ok.” you stopped for a moment for then change the talk “Can you just go to my bedroom and take my sweater, please? It is over my bed.”


But over the bed Spencer found something else.

“(y/n), what’s that?”

Now he was standing in front of you, in the living room, a knife in his hand.

“What a stupid question Spencer! Then why did you rummage through my things?!”

“Because I couldn’t find your damn sweater so I checked under the pillow. And guess what, I found this. Let me see your arms.”

“My arms?”

“You have a fucking knife under your pillow. Do you cut yourself?”

Spencer’s voice was loud, but not because he was angry, but because he was scared.

“I don’t cut myself.” you said showing him your clean arms.

“Then why do you have it there?”

You explained him thst you were paranoid. You were scared even of your shadow.

“Why didn’t you tell me?”

“I was scared that you could treat as a stupid.”

“Stupid? Never. A lot of people have paranoia, it’s normal. It doesn’t change the fact that you are the most important person of my life and I will always be by your side to help and calm you, ok?”

Love letter to the Rumbelle fandom.

No matter what happens going forward with OUAT (hell, not like I’ve watched season 5 onwards), the news today was big. I want to take the time to say something since I have mostly been lurking in the fandom.

Thank you, all the gifs makers for helping me see just the important parts instead of having to slog through the mud. Your time and effort are greatly appreciated!

Thank you, all the fanarts makers. You guys are soooo damn talented, like what the hell??? I hope you guys get complimented all the times because you deserve it.

Thank you a whole lot, fics writers. I commented on your fics many times but you guys deserve compliments here again too. Thank you for making such good stories out of 2 characters that even professional writers, who have a 7-seasons-and-hopefully-not-more show, couldn’t, for the lives of them, write. Seriously it feels like they luckily created a great thing and then did not know what to do with it and you guys stepped in to save the day. So many ideas, so many scenarios, so many ways our 2 lovely woobies fall in love. I have been in many fandoms with great fics but Rumbelle takes the cake on how creative and imaginative the fics are. It might sound selfish of me but please don’t stop doing it after this season because to me, at this point, “Rumbelle fanfics” is a thing of its own already.

Thank you, Rumbelle fandom in general, for being awesome. You guys are some of the most funny, sarcastic yet resilient people I have seen in many fandoms. I checked the hashtag regularly even without watching just because of you guys. Without you, this (for me) mediocre show (that accidentally had 2 good seasons and 2 damn great characters) wouldn’t have been that meaningful.

Whatever happens, I wanna say I love you guys.

Your Savior - 24

Chapter 24? What in the hell? For a fic that I never thought would get off of the ground it has come so far already! (And I have no plans to stop it anytime soon!) Thank you all, as always, for your constant support! You’re the best readers ever!

Originally posted by mypapawinchester

Chapter 24


Swearing, Negan being Negan, mentions of past sexual assault

“TAP! I SAID TAP!” Arat yelled, tapping your arms fiercely yet again until you released the hold you had around her. “Ok, break time.” She panted, wiping sweat from her brow.

“What’s the matter? You tired?” You teased, bouncing on your feet back and forth.

“Don’t get cocky, recruit. I’ve made you tap today too. Let’s sit in the shade for a minute for a water break.”

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Amortentia (Draco x Reader)

The reader smells Draco’s hair in the amortentia and he’s start flirting with her..

Words: ~ 2000

Originally posted by draco-malfoys-wife

Potion was your last class before lunch. You were sleepy and hungry, and Snape’s monotone voice didn’t help you much.

„Now turn page 64. You’ll find the recipe of the amortentia. Try not to mess up completely.”

As usual, you’ve done most of the work. You were one of the best students of the year, and potions was your favourite. Draco was a smartass too, but sometimes he just doesn’t care about such unimportant things like making a potion right. The amortentia was almost done when your partner returned to the table.

„Oh, are you here? I almost forgot that I actually have a partner in this class. What’s happened? Your girls started to get boring?”

„Never, Y/L/N. Have you seen Daphne’s skirt today? A bit too short. I bet it’s just because of me.” – he smirked.

„Of course, Draco, you’re a center of every girl’s world.” – you added sarcastically before called Snape to look at your work.

„It’s already done?” – Draco asked in surprise.

„Yes, no thanks to you.” – you said a bit angrily. You really liked him, he was your best friend, but sometimes he was really get on your nerves.

„10 point to Slytherin!” – Snape added after he examined your potion. You smiled proudly while the other slytherins cheers for you.

„That’s my girl!” – Draco started. „So, what are you smelling?”

You didn’t even need to lean over to the cauldron. The smells were so intense and addictive you didn’t want to stop breathing. You were lost in them. For a few moments that seems like hours you forgot where you were until you heard Malfoy’s voice in the distance.

„Y/N! Are you still with me?”

„Yeah, yes, sooo.. it’s like old books. And kittens, and green apple, and…” – you stopped there because you realized you’ve said more than enough already. Green apple, what the hell.


„Pumpkin pie!” – and of course it wasn’t pumpkin pie. You couldn’t miss the last scent because it was the most intense from all of it. You couldn’t miss it because you’ve smelled that like a thousand times when you hugged him or when you felt asleep on his shoulder at the common room’s couch. Merlin’s beard, you smelled Draco’s hair in that bloody amortetnia! You knew that you had a crush on him for a while now but you haven’t realized that it’s so strong. Well, until now.

Of course you didn’t tell him, but before you could calm yourself down, that usual big smirk appeared on his face:

„Green apple, is it?”

„Yes, green apple. You know I love fruits.” – you explained like this is the most natural thing in the world.

„Especially when I eat that fruit, isn’t it true, darling? No need to hide your feelings anymore!” – he said it with so much confidence you could slap him right in the face.

„Are you done? And by the way, you’re very welcome. I know it was very kind of me to make all the work instead of you. Again.” It was never easy to make you blush, but in that moment you were need all of your energy to not to come apart.

„Don’t switch the topic, love. But I didn’t blame you, I can also smell myself in the cauldron.”

You rolled your eyes on him. After the class you went to lunch, and you hoped he’ll forget about the green apple-thing, but why he’d do such thing. He’s Draco Malfoy.

In the following days Draco didn’t want to stop teasing you. He was constantly making comments about how you fell in love with him, even if he was really just kidding. He also started to compliment you in a pretty dirty way, like „I bet you look beautiful when you have an orgasm”, or „Please wear a longer skirt or I’ll lose my self control”. You were getting angrier every day because he made you weak and very fustrated. Not to mention you secretly enjoyed it.

You went to study in the library with Hermione. Even if you were a slytherin, you made friends with people from other houses too. Your housemates doesn’t really approve this sometimes, but they didn’t dare to mess with you. You were kind, but you can also handle yourself well.

„Ronald, would you please shut up? Madam Pince will throw all of us out and despite of you, we’ll actually want to pass our next exam.” – Hermione threw knives with her eyes to Ron and Harry.

„Oh come on girls. Why the bloody hell do you two study so much for that, you’ll pass anyway.”

„Apperantly not, if you doesn’t leave us alone.”

You could hardly concentrate because your thoughts were far away, in the dungeons, with a certain blond haired boy. Ron grasped your arm and shaked you a bit to wake you up from your daydream when you heard your only one Slytherin Prince’s voice.

„Take your hand off my girl, Weasley!”

The trios reaction was hilarious to that comment. Hermione’s eyes widened open, Harry looked confused and Ron disgusted… a bit.

„I’m not your girl, Draco, now please go back to your whores and don’t interrupt our study session.” – you commented while Draco take a seat next to you, smirk on his face.

„Oh don’t be so jelaous, love, you know you can be the only one in my bed.”

Hermione’s eyes widened open even more if it was possible. Seriously, he can’t stop.

„I think she didn’t want you here, Malfoy.”

„Nobody asked you, Potter.” Harry was about to say something, but you cut him off. With closed eyes, you sighed:

„Please, Draco, shut up and get out of here before I’ll hex you. I’m not kidding!”

Draco smirked again. „Oh, I know you don’t you little nasty thing.” He stood up and take out something from his robe pocket.

„Here, you’ll need energy for studying and all those things that’ll come later tonight.” He placed a green apple in front of you before he winked at you and left the library.

The other were still speechless when you suggested:

„Okay, shall we continue?”

„Sure, Y/N! But first, please can you tell us why the bloody hell Malfoy calls you his girl?!” – Ron asked with a confused look, and Hermione and Harry was curious indeed. They hated Draco and Draco hated them, you wasn’t sure that you should tell them about what’s going on, but you also saw that this whole thing won’t end up easily. You sighed and started.

„Last week on potions… when we had to make amortentia, maybe I smelled green apple in it.” They still looked confused so you continued. „So who’s eating green apple almost everyday?”

„OH GODRICK!” – Hermione yelled. – „You have a crush on Malfoy?”

„Shhh!” – you started, but it was too late; the librarian already rushed over to you.

„Get out of my library! NOW! All of you before I’ll hex you all!”

Madam Pince looked like she can really hex you within a few moments, so you packed your things and run out from the library.

„I can’t believe you fancies him. This is insane!”

„Why him? I mean.. Why?” – Ron was shocked too. All of them looked at you like you’re out of your mind, so you decided it’s better if you go back to your dorm room. You were really need some alone-time.

You stepped into the Slytherin common room. You headed straight to your dorm, when you heard Draco’s voice again from one of the couch.

„Well if it isn’t my favourite potions partner! I knew you’ll miss me.”

You didn’t even look at him, you started to run to your room, slammed the door, fell in your bed and started to cry. You didn’t even know why. Too much stress, too much tension. Now Draco knows you love him, and he treat the situation like it’s a bloody joke. You were exhausted from keep your secret, exhausted from not to tell him how you really love him, exhausted from no to touch him. It was just too much to handle right now, and you let the stress flown out from your eyes.

The next day you overslept. You were late from Charm, and when you’ve arrived Pansy already took a seat next to Draco. You really didn’t mind it now, you wasn’t in the mood to listening the boy dirty comments. You sat next to Blaise, opened your book in a hope that you can choke your thoughts in your studies. After a few moments, Blaise whispered to you.

„Why are you cried last night?”

„I-I wasn’t cry” – you stammered and covered your eyes a bit, maybe it was red and puffy.

„Come on Y/N… Pansy told us.”

Us?” – now you were frightened.

„Let’s just say half of the Slytherin house knows that you cried out loud like a baby in your bed half of the night. – Blaise said with a smile. – „But seriously. what’ wrong?”

„Nothing, Blaise, I just overstressed.” You must be sound convincing (you didn’t even lie so big), because Blaise stopped asking questions. But damn, Pansy! Why she always have to tell everything to everyone? And you didn’t even cry out loud, maybe just sob a bit louder than you should.

When the class was over, you rushed out. You didn’t need people asking you what’s wrong and why you cried. You were halfway to the girl’s bathroom when you heard Draco’s voice. Oh Godric, why now.

„Hey Y/N! Can you slow down?”

You stopped, but when he reached you he grasped your arm and led you to a quieter place.

„What is it, Draco, why you brought me here?”

His hand was still on your arm – he was very close to you which make you blushed a little. „I heard that you cried last night.” – of course he did, thank you Pansy. There was no smirk on his face this time; his voice was gentle and his face was like he’s actually worrying. „What’s wrong? Somebody hurt you? If it was Weasley yesterday, I swear I’ll kill him.”

„Draco, calm down, I’m fine! And anyway, Ron couldn’t hurt a fly.”

„Than why did you cried?” He moved his hands from your upper arm to your face, gently stroked it with his thumb, made your cheeks red as hell now. You felt your head is getting hotter under his cold hands. You never felt this nervous around him or anyone else so you completely lost the control.

„I seriously smelled green apple in the amortentia.” – you started.

„Okay, I know, you love apples and not me, I get it. Sorry if I was out of the line…” – he apoligized while pulled away a little.

„Yes, well, the last scent wasn’t pumpkin pie, it was your hair.” your voice was a whisper, like you hoped he won’t hear.

Silence. He examined your shining eyes and your blushed cheecks very slowly with his icy blue eyes.

„Say something, will you? I embarassed myself enough for today, so…”

„I knew you love me, Y/L/N!” – he said with that smirk again. Here we are.

You started getting angry insted of nervous, but before you could shout at him why he joking on this, he wrapped his arms around waist, pulled you closer and kissed you gently. To your surprise he was slow. His lips was soft, and you felt that his cold skin getting warmer too. Your hands was on his chest, your knees were weak from your shaking legs.

He stopped, but not really pulled away from you; your lips almost still touching.

„What’s wrong, darling? You’re shaking  like I kissed some other parts of your body.” – he teased while he looked down on your body.

„Shut up.” – you commanded with a smile before kissed him hard, but after a few seconds he pulled away again.

„I also smelled your hair.”

„REALLY?” – you yelled from surprise and happiness.

„Stop shouting love, yes, I smelled you. And I couldn’t really handle this, that’s why I behave like this lately.”

„You are such a git.” – you rolled your eyes but also smiled.

He took your hand while you walked to the next class. You were not just relieved but also incredibly happy.


This was my first, hope you’ll like it! 

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Hi Lits. It’s time for me to rant. This one’s about something really important to me. It’s been brought to my attention that someone/some people are reposting gifs without giving permission, but even worse: they stole someone else’s video and sped it up and are trying to claim credit for it. Now, I’m not going to place blame or name names because you know who you are but seriously? This shouldn’t be something anyone in the fandom should have to be worried about. I’m certain that you’re all creative, wonderful minds that can make some amazing things, please stop trying to take from other people because what’s the point? They always find out in the end and everyone is hurt by it. Please just stop being so rude and petty and start crediting the people who work their asses off to bring us such beautiful content. K thx bye.

If you’re a bystander to a medical emergency...

A group of amazing bystanders did such an excellent job on a call yesterday I figured everyone could use a guide of what to do if you witness a medical emergency. (Even for you doctors and nurses out there-you may be the BEST provider ever but the prehospital environment can be pretty different and these are some great specific ways to help the patient’s overall care)

1. Make sure its safe to help. Seriously. Please please please do not put yourself in danger. So many people get killed every year stopping on the side of highways, ect-not only is it the LAST thing we want to happen, but it can also make a situation that much worse. 

2. Call 911. Get help going. Its okay if you don’t know exactly whats going on. Its okay if you don’t know if anyone else has called. They’d rather you call and have it be nothing than nobody call at all.

3. Stay calm. Take a deep breath. This is not your emergency, it is theirs and you need to keep a calm head to help. 

All Patients

Other than doing CPR if needed the MOST important thing you can do to help EMS out is to write down the patient’s name, date of birth, social(if you can get it), medical history, and allergies. You might be able to get information from the patient, a bystander who knows the patient, or a wallet/medical alert bracelet. This saves US so much time and searching.

When EMS arrives, be prepared for ONE person to calmly explain exactly what you saw. Helpful phrases are if the patient complained of anything before the emergency occurred, and if they made any abnormal movements(like twitching). Telling me the patient had a seizure when I’m not sure what you think a seizure IS, is a lot less helpful than ‘he started jerking, foaming at the mouth, and he peed on himself’. 

Don’t be offended if we’re doing things while you’re talking. We have just a few minutes to assess the patient, figure out what may be going on, stabilize life threats, and figure out how to get to the ambulance with the patient. Multitasking doesn’t mean we’re not paying attention or that we don’t appreciate everything you’ve done-it just means there is a lot to do at once. 

If you’re a medical professional, identify yourself but don’t try to take control of the scene. We have specific guidelines based on what we can allow bystanders(even doctors) to do. Its like this-I know how to start an IV, but I can’t go in the hospital and start an IV on your patient because you’re the one responsible for them in that setting and I have no ability to practice there. Believe me, if we need you to do something, I WILL ABSOLUTELY ask you. As it is, I’m just incredibly appreciative that the patient had a solid basis of care established. 

Unresponsive with no pulse

3. If the patient is unresponsive, ask another bystander to find an AED immediately. If you are the only person there do the following-

 Feel for a pulse by putting two fingers gently on the side of the patient’s neck. If there is no pulse or you’re not sure, immediately start pushing hard and fast in the center of the patient’s chest between their nipples. Hum ‘Staying Alive’ to yourself to keep the right rhythm(you’re aiming for at least 100 compressions per minute and you want to compress at least 2 ½ inches down on their chest.). Don’t stop compressions unless someone is there that can switch out with you, you become so tired that you cannot continue, or an AED arrives. Don’t worry if the patient has no pulse but appears to be gasping. This is normal and you’re not hurting them-its just something that sometimes happens when someone is dying. 

4. When an AED arrives, open it up and turn it on ASAP. Thats literally all you need to do. Its going to talk you through everything else. 

Unresponsive with a pulse but not breathing or only gasping

5. Tilt their chin back and put your mouth over their mouth. Pinch their nostrils shut. If its a child, put your mouth over their mouth and nose. Give 1 breath and watch their chest to see if it rises. If it does not rise, try to tilt their chin back again and give another breath. Give rescue breaths every 6-8 seconds. 

Unresponsive and breathing with a pulse

6. Roll the patient onto their side so that if they vomit, they won’t choke. Keep them safe and warm and look for any clues to what may have happened(did they bite their tongue? Did they urinate on themselves?)

 Responsive with various complaints(in no particular order)

7. If they have chest pain-give them 4 tablets of 81 mg baby aspirin. Seriously. Saves lives. Carry it in your pocket everywhere. 

8. Provide comfort measures specific to the situation(aka cool compresses for the forehead, ect.) General rule is to keep the patient safe and warm. 

9. If they’re a family member or you have access-gather the patient’s medications together in one spot for EMS to take to the hospital. 

10. If the patient is a known diabetic and feels that their sugar has dropped, the best things to give them are things like orange juice and peanut butter crackers-basically complex sugars and carbs. While better than nothing, candy bars and sodas are too sugary and will shoot their blood sugar up really fast only to have it crash again later if they don’t get complex carbs into them. 

11. If the patient is responsive but confused and you’re not sure if they can swallow, DO NOT GIVE THEM ANYTHING TO EAT OR DRINK. 

12. If the patient has been exposed to something they’re allergic to and they are complaining of things like feeling like they can’t breathe, like their tongue is swelling, they have hives, or are vomiting, ask if they have an Epi-pen. If they do, pull it out of the package, pull out the cap(but don’t put your fingers over where the cap was!!!) and push the pen firmly against their thigh until you hear a ‘click’. Count to 10 and then release the pen. You don’t need to take off their pants to do this. If they don’t have an epi-pen, give them 2 benedryl tablets.

13. The best way in the world to calm down someone who is having a panic attack is to be calm yourself. Eliminate external stressors, removing them from the environment if possible. Sit quietly with them, and talk softly. Ensure they stay safe and warm(seriously. 90% of first aid is keeping folks safe and comfortable). Talk them through breathing slowly to the count of ten in through their nose and out through their mouth like they are slowly blowing out a candle. 

14. If someone is bleeding profusely, the best and #1 thing to do is apply pressure directly to the site of the bleeding with a (preferably gloved) hand. If pressure doesn’t stop the bleeding and its an extremity wound, tighten a belt above the wound until the bleeding stops. Secure the belt at this point until help arrives to take over. 

15. Birthing babies! If baby is coming there isn’t really anything you can do to stop it. The best indicators that birth is imminate is the patient reporting a feeling of needing to go to the bathroom OR (no shit) the appearance of a head/hair in between the patient’s legs. Mom will do the work here. Your job is to keep mom calm, and to gently support the baby’s head/body as it emerges. It will be slippery so- Don’t. Drop. The. Baby. If you see the umbilical cord wrapped around the baby’s head, gently and quickly unwrap it before the rest of the baby is born. After baby is born, vigorously rub it dry with a towel to stimulate crying. If the baby does not cry/remains blue and is not breathing, wrap your hands around the baby’s chest until your thumbs encircle and push hard and fast in the center of the chest until help arrives or the baby pinks up/starts crying. Keep the baby at the level of the umbilical cord until it stops pulsing. Tie off the cord in two places 4-5 inches apart with a string or shoelace and cut between the strings. If baby is okay(pink and crying), place on mom’s bare chest, and keep both mom and baby safe and warm.

16. If you stop at a wreck, unless the patient is not breathing or is in immediate danger, please DON’T pull them out of the vehicle. If they have a neck or back injury, you could cause them more harm. Instead, place your hands gently on either side of their neck to stabilize it and remind them not to move their head until help arrives to take over. 

…I think thats it for now unless anyone else has any other additions! Remember, stay calm, call 911, do CPR if needed, get patient information written down, and KEEP THE PATIENT SAFE AND WARM. You go lifesaver you! :)

Blindspot 2x21 recap

(Aka the one where Sandstorm takes the NYO)

So it’s been like five days and I’m still screaming internally over how FREAKIN AMAZEBALLS this episode was. Tbh if I didn’t have to make sure I survive to see the finale, I probably would have died already. Like seriously, this show is 100% back to its old self, and with a VENGEANCE. Thank god for a guaranteed season three…

Anyhow, more screaming below the cut. 

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anonymous asked:

Adore convincing Bianca to smoke weed with her, and it gets very fluffy 💙

Thank you darling! Decided to write them as cis girls for something a little different.
Send me sentence prompts and drag race pairings and I’ll write you a little drabble!

‘Oh come on B, I think you’ll enjoy it.’ Adore teased her, waving the blunt in the older girls direction. Bianca rolled her eyes and shook her head.
‘No way. I’ve told you before I have no interest in something that’s going to turn me into a dull zombie.’
'Are you calling me a dull zombie?’ Adore chuckled blowing the smoke out of her mouth.
'Sometimes.’ Bianca smirked. Adore nudged her in the arm.
'I’ve got an idea to make it more fun.’ Adore’s eyes sparkled and she pulled Bianca closer. 'What are you doing?’ Bianca frowned.
'Trust me? I promise you’ll enjoy it.’ Adore was smiling at Bianca in that way Bianca always found it hard to say no to. She sighed and nodded, even though she had no idea what Adore was planning. Adore’s eyes sparkled again and Bianca loved the way they did that. Adore smiled back at her and shuffled even closer. She took a long pull on the blunt and closed her mouth to keep the smoke in. She leaned in close to the older girl and placed her lips to hers. Bianca had a pretty good idea of what was going to happen so she opened her mouth a little and sure enough Adore blew the smoke into her mouth. Bianca coughed a little as Adore sat back taking another pull and repeating the action. Only this time she didn’t sit back. Bianca quickly found Adore’s tongue her mouth and Adore laid her back on the couch. They made out for a little while and when Adore pulled back Bianca’s head felt hazy, she assumed it was a combination of the kiss and the weed.
'My turn.’ She smiled at Adore and took the blunt from her fingers. She was tentative as she took a drag on it, closing her mouth to keep the smoke in. Adore pressed her lips to Bianca’s again and the older girl blew the smoke and then they went back to making out.

This little routine continued for some time, until Bianca was sufficiently high. She’d never smoked weed before so it didn’t take a lot. She sat back out the couch as Adore stubbed the blunt out.
'Baby, I’m soooo hungry.’ She reached for Adore’s long mermaid like hair and threaded her fingers in. Adore chuckled and stroked Bianca’s cheek, kissing her gently.
'Do you want me to make you some grilled cheese?’
'Yes please.’ Bianca smiled dopily at her. Adore laughed a little again a ruffled Bianca’s hair a little as she got up. She was humming to herself as made the food. Bianca was always the one looking after her, their entire relationship Bianca took care of Adore. It was nice to change the dynamics a little, even if it meant she’d had to get the older girl high. She brought Bianca the grilled cheese as well as packets of crisps and chocolate from Adore’s own personal munchies stash. Bianca excitedly ate the food, Adore had never seen someone eat quite like it. When the food was demolished Bianca rested her head on Adore’s shoulder and Adore wrapped her arm around her.
'How are you feeling sweetie?’ She spoke into Bianca’s hair as she kissed her head.
'Sleepy.’ Bianca spoke a little dreamily. 'God I love you so fucking much Adore.’
'I love you too.’
'No I really love you.’ Bianca looked up at her through slightly blood shot eyes. Adore stroked her hair back off her face. 'You are my whole world Adore.’
'Anyone would think you’ve been doing something stronger than weed.’ She giggled a little.
'But you don’t understand how much I love…oh god!’ Suddenly Bianca shot up from the couch and was sprinting to the bathroom. Adore followed her to find her on her hands and knees over the toilet. Adore held her hair back while she puked and when she was done she helped the older girl clean her face and brush her teeth. She helped a dizzy Bianca into bed and laid down next to her. Bianca snuggled into Adore’s chest.
'I’m sorry.’ Bianca whispered. Adore laughed lightly and placed kisses on her hair.
'It’s ok baby, weed isn’t for everyone.’ 'I do love you, you know? More than anything.’ Bianca took hold of her hand and thred their fingers together. 'It was nice in a way, for a moment I felt more like a part of your world.’
'What do you mean?’ Adore cupped her face and turned it so she could look at her.
'You’re young and you like to party and get high and I’m not like that. Honestly I sometimes wonder why you’re with me. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone your own age? Someone more fun?’
'Are you serious?’ Adore stroked her cheek. 'You are the most fun person I know. Sometimes I wonder why you wouldn’t want to be with someone more serious.’
'You make me a better me. You make me feel younger, you make me feel more fun.’ Bianca confessed. Adore smiled and gently kissed her.
'And you make me take things more seriously. You make me want to settle down and stop partying so much.’
'I guess we even each other out?’ Bianca squeezed her hand.
'We do indeed.’ Adore kissed her again. 'I don’t need you to get high with me. We have plenty of things we can do together. We’re perfect for each other baby.’
Bianca settled back into Adore’s chest and sighed in content. 'Yes we are.’ She smiled. 'Please never let me smoke another blunt as long as I live. I thought I was dying.’
Adore giggled and pulled Bianca closer. 'As long as you never make me go to another art gallery as long I live, we have a deal.’
Bianca poked Adore in the side playfully making the younger girl giggle.
'Why do I feel like you planned this all along?’ Bianca asked suspiciously. Adore smiled to herself and placed one last kiss on Bianca’s head.
'I guess you’ll never know baby. My mystery is all a part of my charm.’

anonymous asked:

can I just say I've always admired how chill you are about things like the otayuri shitlist. it's a breath of fresh air when someone just goes like, "uhh, okay, that's not nice but other than that I don't care" instead of blowing up. i've had an excess of drama irl these past few days and need some chill, can I borrow some please

Hahaha wellll some of that chill is being twenty years in fandom tbh but i am so UNCHILL inside most of the time that i refuse to let other people take it from me.

but seriously, take a deep breath, drink a water, and remember everything stops eventually. Good things, but also shitty things!

anonymous asked:

tell us about your favorite shatt headcanons? that last chapter of beast made me fuckign yell and yearn for matt to go comfort shiro and hold him and maybe give him a smooch

Man oh man would a Romance ending not be a good idea right now, my dude.  I appreciate the thought but Shiro is noooot in a good place for that.  Honestly, Matt would get shoved against a wall in the not fun way (closer to the ‘you are a threat and I need to end you’ way).

But!! Have some headcanons anyway!

1) Matt is all about that Communication.  He has seriously considered trying to get Shiro to fill out forms post-sex that rate the experience, his enjoyment of any kinks involved, and where they fall on the List of Stuff he Likes.  Shiro, on the other hand, is not about long term discussions.  Frankly he wants to sleep now, Matt, and it’s not relevant at this literal second let me rest.   He’s not embarrassed, but he does play things close to the chest even in relationships.  It’s just part of how Shiro is.

2) They are the worst people to share a bed with.  Shiro would wake up from someone sneezing across the hall, and Matt is rarely still in bed.  Matt wants to burrow into the closest source of warmth and Shiro has all the sleep cuddling ability of a plank of wood.  They solve some of this by falling asleep already pressed together, but then they both get sweaty and it’s only a matter of time before one’s dreams wake the other.  Often they still sleep in their own rooms rather than together.  It’s not an issue, especially since they tend to nap together when they get the chance (and it’s more sleep for Shiro which is a huge plus in Matt’s book).  On the other hand, Shiro is one of the few living creatures who can sleep comfortably while Matt yammers at him over whatever project, so that works in their favor.  Which is good, because Matt talks in his sleep.

3) Matt has disassociated in bed before.  Not during sex so far, but when he’s tired or when they’re just relaxing together.  It hasn’t been a problem so far, though it’s occasionally annoying for both.  They’re both waiting for the day Shiro gets a flashback during sex.  Matt has already taken him aside and told Shiro that if he thinks he’s going to break up with Matt for his own good for ANY reason then Matt will make the Galra look like house cats.

4) Because Matt has been in a state of ‘I’d be up for it if you’re interested’ with Shiro for literally years, Shiro has trouble recognizing when Matt is flirting or being friendly.  He’s not the jealous sort, so it doesn’t bother him, but it bugs Matt because I AM FLIRTING WITH YOU.  REACT.  And Shiro’s like ??? oh sorry.  Matt insists Shiro is blind.  Shiro insists that Matt’s flirting is identical to him being a little shit.  They’re both right.

5) Shiro is utterly un-self-conscious about any and all goopy things he wants to say at any given time.  This is a Problem for Matt, who is not super great at sincerity, giving or receiving.  (Matt: I suppose you’re alright, Shirogane.  I guess I’ll keep you around.  Shiro: Good, I want to spend the rest of my life with you.  Matt: -goes faintly pink and trips over his own feet-)

6) Once they get together, Matt has to find someone else to spar/train with, because he spends about 40 percent of all sparing with Shiro trying to figure out how to pin him to a wall and make it sexy.  Shiro does not cooperate with this.  Not only does he take training seriously because it’s Important, but he’s also 6′3″ of solid muscle.  So there’s that.

7) Matt enjoys being the lowkey defender of the petty shit Shiro doesn’t like to admit to.  Like when there’s more than two (2) dad jokes in a conversation, Matt declares himself their step-father and starts ordering the Pals around, which usually distracts them/gets them to stop.

8) Pidge is positive-ish toward the whole thing.  She’s happy for them and she likes her brother/Shiro being happy but, like, not in front of me ever, please?  Also, she takes Shiro’s side in 70 percent of their arguments, usually because he’s being the reasonable one, and partly to annoy Matt.  If it was a Big Fight and they weren’t talking, she’s always on Matt’s side, though.  She still also goes to Shiro for advice/talks, which Matt is okay with.  He’s better at cheering her up than offering decent advise.  (Matt’s two kinds of advice: “have you tried turning it on and off again” and “have you considered killing them?”

Lance: How often have you tried the first one on Shiro?

Shiro: LANCE.

Matt: Every night :3

Shiro: MATT)

9) They get in stupid arguments a lot, actually.  Because Shiro bites back a lot of his anger during the day, and Matt is incapable of not being annoying for 24 hours at a time.  Plus, they’re both crazy competitive.  They tend to make-up quickly, and Matt jokes that they do it for the sex.