It really saddens me knowing that Himchan would actually starve himself in order to look presentable to the fans. Any fan that says that to an idol should feel bad. Do you all not realize that idols are human beings with feelings too? I feel like I’m beating a dead horse, but you guys have got to realize that these idols are here to do a job,they aren’t here to try to please every single one of you. I wish all idols would wake up and realize that they can’t please everyone, especially Himchan. No human being, whether idol or not, should starve themselves to please other people. Do you all not realize the pressure idols have to look “thin” all the time? Your idols have self-esteem and body image issues as well. Why would a “fan” say something so mean as to hurt their idol? Please be careful with the way you speak about an idol, you never know what your words can do to them. Show how much you love your idols by telling them that they are beautiful from the inside out.
Today, we had to draw our bodies in class. A friend asked me I wanted her to draw it for me, a guy next to her said "draw her fat" "draw rolls" "draw her stomach bigger than the rest of her body" I acted like I didn't hear but I did. & now I'm home crying. Usually this type of stuff doesn't affect me, but now I'm remembering all the times I've been called fat. I am over weight, I've been told by doctors. & I want to lose weight, but I can't. I want to starve myself. I hate feeling like this
i’ve had so many of these kinds of days so youre not alone, you have to rememeber that people who really care and love you dont see or think of you any different bc of how you look or how much you weigh. there will always be people who comment shit like that bc theyre bored, but some day those people will see that when you don’t react, they’ll get bored of doing that too. there’s no other way than just ignore those comments and people
also please dont starve yourself it will ONLY cause bad things and it will literally kill you please dont do it and just if you really want to lose weight, do it the healthy way, like 70% of the work you need to do, is healthy and consistant eating, not to starve yourself, it slowly shuts down your organs and you WILL DIE if you do it long enough. so yes healthy and consistant eating is my tip (dude you came to the right person to talk about this bc ive had weight problems my whole life and i’ve also had a personal trainer so i know shit hihi you should ask me more if youre really interested in losing weight and stuff)