If you’re gray-a or demisexual and like sex, then consider carefully if for you, sexual attraction is part of you liking sex. If it’s not, cool. But explain that to us, that you are gray-a and that for you even if you’re not attracted, you can still like sex.
If you are the type of ace who experiences no sexual attraction to people, you are most likely to actually not like sex. Just like most gay men don’t like sex with women, most lesbians don’t like sex with men, most straight women don’t like sex with women, and most straight men don’t like sex with men.
Yes it is possible to like sex while being not sexually attracted to someone. Yes. True. Arousal and enjoying physical sensations and stuff can be there even without attraction, there can be sensual attraction without sexual attraction, etc.
I just feel like yelling “aces can enjoy sex too” angrily into the void isn’t really the best method, especially if you, yourself, are not an ace who likes sex. Because there are a lot of repulsed aces doing 101 that actually happens to not even mention repulsion, and to phrase things the wrong way, like implying that the only reason someone would have sex while ace is to please a partner (not true). There are so many ways to just do Asexuality 101 wrong and kind of commit some microaggressions or faux pas and I just want to help point out to everyone that they even need to consider being careful to avoid that.
my best friend has been a constant supporter, rock, and inspiration for me, like taylorswift is to so many people, i just think it would be so cool to be able to take him and see his reaction when he meets her and make that cool thing happen for him
it’s easy all you have to do is click the link ONCE a day now through Sunday May 10th at 11:59 PM ET