Let's see if my Tumblr fam can help me out
So there’s a guy in my life who I’m rebuilding a relationship with. We stopped talking for a minute because I found out shit that I was right about the whole time. However he was persistent af and we had something good so I decided talking to him again wouldn’t hurt things. Fast forward to now things are good. He’s super sweet (always has been just got caught up), we communicate great, like if I have a problem and detail it out he details his response right back. He told me he wanted to work on becoming a couple eventually but we still have mending to do which I agree 100% with.
Here’s my problem. He has two best friends that are women. Which tbh I don’t have a problem with because my close friends are guys. Today he told me he was going to hangout with one of them around 5pm. It’s currently 11:03…. I told myself that I would just have to get used to this because at the end of the day it’s his best friend and I don’t want him to sacrifice a friendship but at the same time if he wants me to be his woman I’m not super duper comfortable/fond of him just laying around up in her momma’s house watching LHHATL into the late ass night. And what made it kind of worse is that he disclosed that they messed around a while back but haven’t since. He also just used to spend the night over there sometimes and I’m like ???
So with all that being said
How do y'all feel about your potential significant other having a close best friend of the opposite sex? Also how do you feel about your significant other spending long hours with their best friend of the opposite sex?