plain rude but anyway

so as most of you know, I went on a shitty date last week with this really hot guy I met on tinder; he was nice through text, but hinted a hookup when we met in person and he failed to get it by acting all apathetic which was not sexy as opposed to just plain rudeness. anyway I’ve told 2 guys about Bad Date Wednesday (a name I made up for him because I just find this date so damn memorable), and they both said “lmao yeah it’s always different in text.” like they agreed that he seemed like a shithead. but why does it have to be different through text? why are cis guys only nice when women can’t see their faces? I’ll never understand men