pinoy love quote

I notice everything. And by everything. I literally mean everything. I notice when someone stops hitting me up like they used to. I notice when the way someone talks to me starts changing. I notice the little things that people do, and the little things they used to do. I notice when things changed, and when it’s no longer the same. I notice every single detail. I just don’t say anything.
Paano ka makaka-get-over/limot/move-on?
  • Kung panay naman ang text at tawag mo sakanya?
  • Kung panay sagot ka naman sa bawat chat niya?
  • Kung patuloy ka paring umaasa sa matagal nang tapos?
  • Kung hindi mo parin tanggap na matagal na siyang wala?
  • Kung every time na makikita mo siya, aasa ka nanaman sa bawat galaw niya?
  • Kung lahat ng binigay niya sayo, araw araw mo paring nakikita?
  • Kung walang humpay at 24/7 kang naka bantay sa timeline niya?
  • Kung palagi mo nalang kinukulong ang sarili mo sa idea na hindi ka na magmamahal kung hindi lang din naman siya.
  • Kung naka focus ka sa thought na gagantihan mo siya.
  • Kung bawat galaw mo, may motive na pagselosin siya KAHIT WALA NA SIYANG PAKIALAM SAYO.

You know what? Kailangan mo nang umusad. Kailangan isa lang ang sagot mo sa tanong na YES or NO? Walang MAYBE, okay?

  • Kailangan mo munang matanggap na nag break talaga kayo kase yun talaga ang itinadhanang mangyari ng oras at panahon. Napakahirap kasing umusad na hindi mo pa tanggap yung nangyari. Hindi mo pa tanggap na nagkamali kayo pareho. Hindi mo parin matanggap yung nanging kasalanan niya sayo. SLOWLY ACCEPT THIS THOUGHT, KESHO KASALANAN MO OR KASALANAN NIYA KUNG BAKIT KAYO NAGHIWALAY, ONE THING IS FOR SURE AND THAT IS IT WAS MEANT TO HAPPEN THAT WAY.
  • Pangalawa, lunukin mo yung katotohanan at reyalidad na HINDI SIYA ANG TAONG NARARAPAT PARA SAYO.
  • Wag mong kimkimin at gawin closet ng feelings mo yang puso mo. Piliin mo ang taong mapagkakatiwalaan mo at magkwento ka sakanya. Share your story with the only people you trust at hindi yung mga tao sasaksakin ka sa likuran mo.
  • Tigilan mo na yung kakatext mo sakanya at kakatawag or kakareply sa mga text niya kase nga break na kayo at wala na kayong dapat pag-usapan. Diyan kase talaga tayo nag sstop, sa kawalan ng apog na alisin ang mga taong hindi na healthy para sa atin. Change your number. Change your password. Block them from your timeline. Burn the bridge between the two of you para hindi ka naiistorbo sa recovery mo.
  • SEEK CLOSURE. Importante at crucial to kase dito niyo na formally isasara ang kwento niyo pareho. Para siyang open forum na kayo lang dalawa ang makakasagot at hindi ibang tao. Closure ang chance mong malaman kung bakit ka iniwan, bakit siya nagloko, bakit siya nagsawa at dito din lalabas lahat ng dapat mong malaman kung bakit hindi kayo nagwork-out. Dito mo masasabi at matatanong yung unsaid words na matagal mo nang gustong ilabas at sabihin. THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE.
  • Kailangan mong magpatawad after. Nakakalimutan na kase nating magpatawad at aminin sa sarili din nating naging mahina din tay at marupok. Naging sinungaling tayo at madaya sa larangan ng pag-ibig. Forgive yourself and forgive your ex para in the future sa oras na magkita kayo, ngiti ang sasalubong sa inyo na para bang OLD FRIENDS kayo na ang tagal niyong hindi nagkita.
  • Gawin mo ang mga gusto mong gawin na hindi mo pa nagawa.
  • Lastly, don’t say na hindi ka na magmamahal ulit KASE JOKE MO YAN na sayo lang din bebenta. Recognize na there’s someone out there for you and in the right time, you are open for new chances and opportunities. 

WAG KANG TANONG NG TANONG KUNG PAANO MAG MOVE-ON. KUNG HINDI MO LANG DIN NAMAN KAYANG UMPISAHAN. TANDAAN MO NA ANG PAG MOMOVE-ON AY CHOICE MO AT DISKARTE MO YAN. FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE, MATUTO KANG ISIPIN NAMAN ANG SARILI MO. HINDI YUNG PURO EX MO NALANG. 

Alam kong tapos na tayo kahit hindi naman talaga tayo nagsimula. Pero sa puso ko parang totoo ang lahat.

Lumayo ako hindi dahil sa gusto ko lang kundi dahil kailangan. Ito lang ang nakita kong paraan para makalimot at makapag-isa. Gusto kong makawala sa mundo kung saan ikaw lang ang nakikita ko. Masakit kasing umasa. Nakakatuyo ng pagkatao ang umiyak nang umiyak sa twing naaalala kita – hindi lang gabi-gabi kundi oras-oras. 

Kung kaduwagan ang paglayo ko sa'yo ay tanggap ko na. Siguro hanggang dito na lang talaga. Suko na kasi ako. Minsan na akong lumaban pero wala rin namang nangyari. Pero sa kabila ng lahat ay wala akong pinagsisihan. Ang mahalin ka ang pinakamagandang nangyari sa buhay ko.

Lumayo ako dahil ayaw kong ikaw ang maging dahilan kung bakit katakutan ko ang salitang pagmamahal. Ang gusto ko, ang pangalan mo ang magpapaalala sa akin kung bakit masarap at masayang magmahal.

—  Lumayo ako dahil mahal kita.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero pupuntahan ka ng alas dose ng madaling araw para lang makita ka.
MagkaIbigan lang. Pero hindi na mabilang yung bawat halik at yakap.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero kasama mo sa bawat pagdiriwang ng musika.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero may bigay na isang dosenang rosas noong araw ng mga puso.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero pag-gising mo sa umaga siya ang una mong makikita.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero ipagmamaneho ka kahit saan.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero nagpapalitan ng matatamis na salita.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero imbitado sa bawat handaan kasama ang pamilya.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero laging may dala ng paborito mong pagkain.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero siya ang unang tutulong kapag may nangyaring hindi inaasahan.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero katabi mong inaabangan ang paglubog ng araw sa may aplaya.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero laging may pambungad na regalo kahit wala namang okasyon.
Magkaibigan lang. Pero papangitiin ka sa kahit na anong paraan mawala lang yung lungkot sayong mukha.
—  Kaibigan lang. Bawal lumagpas.

Walang taong nakakalimot. First love mo man yan, puppy love, crush, ex-girlfriend/boyfriend. So, stop asking kung paano mo siya makakalimutan kase walang ganoon. Hindi mo siya makakalimutan. Masasanay ka nalang na wala siya, masasanay ka ng kakaiyak, masasanay kang hindi siya nagpaparamdam at masasanay kang walang kayo. Hanggang sa maging okay ka na talaga ulit. Sanayan lang yan pero walang limutan.

Do you still remember the happy hearbeats we shared in the span of our blooming affair? If you don’t, i’m writing this to give you wisp on how a year with your past went by.

Those boat rides which turned to photoshoots. Relishing the serene atmosphere of nature and breeze.
That time when i dropped by on your race practice then out of nowhere in the midst of boredom during break you grabbed me and all i can remember is i am panicking over the 120mph speed we’re tackling on the track. Babe, nakakaloka ang bilis mo magmaneho! But that peachy smirk you did when you saw how terrified i was stopped my heart from beating, pero that face actually helped me from getting horrified on how furious you are kasi for a split second i lost my focus on the track.
Our airport selfies and 10 seconds stories that reached our snapchats which contains how pumped up we were for our next travel stop are cute I admit. I saved them to my memories and still giving them a glance whenever i miss you.
I wouldn’t trade anything for our bathroom confessions. When i found comfort in my position on the tub and when you’re sitting on the bathroom floor with a mug of lemon water. Of all places I don’t know how it felt bizarre to confess and tell our weird secrets on a bathroom. The depth of our conversations would need more than a bottle of Pedro.
Those breakfast times spent making good looking acai bowls. Ahhh! I miss.
Late afternoons ordering takeaway coffees to spray away the derisive drowsiness.
When we’re soaking wet cause we got zero umbrella and we need to reach the parking lot so we run under that stormy weather. I was trying to be the man here and offered you my jacket as a cover up but you refused cause you’re a fan of fair treatments.
So yeah, those morning rituals dancing to spanish jive songs and sharing a stick of black bat cigarette over macchiato is one of best mornings i adore at pinapangrap na mangyari ulit. I took snap shots of you that time and i still have them saved on my folder. And if i watch it today it’s just a way of torturing myself at managinip ng gising para hintayin kang bumalik.
Broken gym sessions during noon times where we trade siesta over burning hundreds of calories.
Our exchange of cliche text messages whenever we’re apart from each other still has a space in my inbox. I also miss your hokage moves kahit ang baduy at luma nila.
Yung mga ala una ng madaling araw natin kung saan kakauwi mo lang at patulog na ko pero kailangan kong manatiling gising para may kausap ka. And those midnights consumed talking about our tinder matches and stalking them around social media. I didn’t know you have the skill of a spy. You’re even explaining to me why you swiped them right… cute.
Your sudden stares that made me uneasy in a good way. It’s like I’m kilig but felt a mixture of feeling weird and conscious.
Tracing your eyebrows cause i like how bushy and perfectly shaped they were. And it also helps you sleep sooo yeah.
Early dawns spent chilling and embracing the vibe at the rooftop waiting for the appearance of mr. sunrise while listening to cigarettes after sex.
Spontaneous trip to the mall to get some eats but led to being competitive in time zone and jumping in countless carousel ride spins.
Boring days means watching random videos online which gave us idea on how to poke tattoo at home or at certain times we apply temporary tattoos on each other’s arm then fool our friends that we got real ones.
Hours spent building a little art installations in my old room then inviting friends over as if it is an art museum!
Those weak connections and fake choppy phone calls… hindi naman talaga malabo yung line, nagbuffer lang talaga yung utak ko sa twisted words mo na para bang idiomatic expressions lang ang kaya mong sabihin buong buhay mo.
That time when we’re renting motorcycles in siargao and learning to drive it in less than 30 minutes. New skill added, bebe!
Our opm jams where i let you get the hang of burnout by sugarfree and you did! You recorded and burned it for me so i got to play it in my car while braving the traffic jams in manila.
Our made up swimming strokes and competitions which served as my work out every am. And those lame underwater photoshoots that we printed out to pin up to our memory lane.
Rushed cover ups of makeup to hide our lambing bites caused of last night’s tender fire that emblazed us.

You’re easy and extra at the same time. A perfect spice of both. You always seek for the betterment of us. You always think for the aftermaths of the games we play. I’m actually clueless on how i won over someone as aesthetically fascinating as you.

We tried to pin countles memories but suddenly one heart refused to take the journey along with the other and chose to take the path alone.