how do you just shrug off what they say? whenever i see them say this kind of stuff it make me feel so shitty (and i don't go looking for it but it always ends up on my dash because other clexas reblog it adding commentary). like not to be dramatic but it gives me really self destructive thoughts. i already have a lot of self hatred over the fact that i like girls and when i have to deal with homophobia in my only safe place it gets to be too much. how do i not let them affect me like this?