“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…” ― Elizabeth Gilbert
gags inistalk ako ng mga katrabaho ko sa fb tapos pinagkukumpara nila yung dati sa ngayon at tangina bakit hindi ko ba niprivate mga pictures ko haha. pero k lang hindi naman ako nahihiya pero huhu asan ang panga ko noon?
Alam niyo ba bakit palagi kong nire-recommend na i-block niyo yung ex niyo after an official break up?
Here are my personal reasons:
First, you’ll no longer receive notifications or updates coming from your ex. Kaya dati sinabi sa akin ng friends ko noong first break-up namin ng first ex ko, ang bitter ko daw. Sinagot ko sila, “YES! BITTER AKO. EH SA NAGMAHAL AKO NG TOTOO EH.” Kase I know myself well. Kapag hindi ko blinock yung ex ko, mas magiging mahirap lang para sakin ang mag move on.
Pangalawa, ayokong makita yung picture ng ex ko at ng bagong karelasyon niya. So bago ko pa makita yun, naka block na siya sakin. Ayoko mag paulit ulit sa utak ko yung picture nila para di ako nasasaktan.
Pangatlo, naniniwala naman ako sa sinasabi nila na wag mo daw iblock para makita ng mga tao na you’re strong enough to deal with break ups. Para makita nila na you’re still okay without that person. Hindi kase yun eh, ang bottomline kase sakin, desperado ako umusad. Hindi ako yung tipo ng tao na nagbababad sa isang sitwasyon and spend my entire day looking idiot sa mga nangyayari. Mas matatagalan ka kase mag move on kung nakikita mo pa rin siya sa social media. At least kung wala ka nang nakikitang updates about your ex, you’ll avoid being dramatic everyday, everytime na makikita mo yung pics nila ng bago niya, mag eemote ka. Bawat status niya, bibigyan mo ng meaning, tas magtatanong ka, “Ako kaya pinaparinggan niya? Gusto kaya niya ako i-win back? Mahal pa kaya niya ako?” Uhm! Sisa? Basilyo? Crispin? Baliw ka na teh.
Sometimes, it’s okay not to be okay. And for me, the best way to deal with break ups and moving on is mas unahin mo munang intindihin yung sarili mo more than others. I-unblock mo nalang ang ex mo kapag 100% okay ka na. STOP ASKING YOUR WHAT IF’S. Start doing what’s best for yourself.
So here’s the thing. First, I’m wearing a dress because my boyfriend said so. Hahaha. Date “daw” kasi. Hahaha. Sinamahan niya muna ako sa station kasi may duty pa ako so 2 hours ata siyang naghintay sakin. Then after ng duty ko, kumain kami tapos pagkatapos nun we went to Ben Cab Museum because we love art. These photos are taken there btw. After we went to Ben Cab, I watched him play dota2 at M.I because I still have a one hour break before my class. I was asking him about what he was playing because I have no idea at all. Hahaha but I’m amazed tho. Pagdating ko sa classroom, pinakita ko yang pictures namin ni Zedd sa mga tropa ko (tropang potchi hahahaha) tapos ang sabi nila, “Hala grabe parang pre-nup na. Omgggg” Syempre kilig naman ako. Hahaha. Sabi ko nalang sa isip ko, “Oo yan, siya na kasi yung taong nakikita kong kasama ko habang buhay. Siya yung taong gusto kong pakasalan, wala nang iba.” Iloveyou @hugoterongmakata ❤️
This is the most ridiculous my candles have ever gotten; it was actually a bit higher than this, as I was scrambling to get a picture. :oThis was for KO’s full-moon-festival-thing a while back. I think it was my first time doing that (or at least as far as I can remember). Netjer seemed pretty pleased. <3