Niggas are so afraid of getting friendzoned that they forget the biggest part of being a boyFRIEND
If you only want to date a girl just to fuck her, then you will eventually break her heart.
A girl saying that she wants a serious relationship isn’t a que for you to think “aw this is a challenge i gotta get through for sex”
a relationship isn’t a maze for pussy
Girls really sometimes just want a really good friend that can be more. But because niggas wanna bust a nut fast, they lie and portray themselves as something more just to have sex.
It’s like nigga camouflage.
But this very thing is the reason why the girl wanted a slow and serious relationship to begin with, to avoid niggas like that
But sadly alot of times they run into manipulative niggas that consider their emotions and standards as an obstacle to get over, instead of something that should taken seriously and cared for.
why do you think so many girls are literally afraid to date even though they want a serious relationship.
hell why do you think some of these girls turn bi after dating some of you niggas 👀
if you don’t think hiphop from 2008 - 2014 (which i dub as the lil weezy gang era) had one of if not THE BIGGEST negative impact on how niggas look at women and colorism; then your fucking dumb but that’s another topic.
Point is: if a girl wants a serious relationship and you’re not into that, just tell her. it’s alot more respectful and it saves everyone from alot of bs and stress
i personally think as men we let too much of what we saw and heard on music videos influence how we see and treat women especially black women
Just because that one pretty girl that you want doesn’t want to just have sex with you, doesn’t mean that there isn’t another pretty girl out there that does
alot people out here just fucking and i think that’s awesome