I'm in love with this girl named Ace (she's not ace surprisingly, she's pan) and she knows I am. She's gorgeous and she has a great personality. We hold hands and she lets me borrow her jackets, but she said she likes me as a friend. Yesterday, she said she wants it to rain and said she loves getting wet. I asked what kind of wet and said "I think you should decide the answer to that". I'm not sure if she ment it in the dirty way or not and all my friends thinks she likes me back. What do I do?
I would confront her about try to talk to her about your feelings. If she decides to date you that’s wonderful. But if you get rejected that’s okay, rejection is part of life. But either way your friendship shouldn’t be ruined by your feelings. So let’s hope it goes well.
my ex asked me to drop everything and call her on three separate occasions this weekend. and i said NO. every damn time. it seems i’m actually learning that saying no every now and then doesn’t make you a complete bish.
May be considered the 'brave' house, but they just try to hint at their feelings with words or actions and hope the other person figures it out. Or they're the reason the whole 'they tease you because they like you' thing started.
Lingerers af. If they see their crush anywhere, they will find some excuse to stay at that place and just pass back and forth, hoping for a wave or something.
Asking questions until they find a similar interest to fangirl/boy over. Then hoping their crush feels the same 'passion' and maybe find their excitement cute.
Accidentally remembering little details. Sometimes, they'll file it away so they can bring it up casually in future conversations like "wait, you love this too?"
the fighter. has a strong and energetic aura, determined look in his eyes. the ambitious one who won’t stop until he reaches his goal. constantly on the move, whether it be changing schools, moving homes, or traveling. coarse and aggressive on the outside, but is truly protective and caring of his friends on the inside. always up for a debate, and won’t take no for an answer.
the gentleman. has rather soft and round features. sweet, polite, and shy. the kind of boy you wanna take home to meet your parents. the one you never notice until he brushes his hair out of his face, because that’s when you realize how damn attractive he is. self-motivated and goal oriented, but rarely speaks about himself. humble.
the playboy. devilish grin, twinkle in his eye. fun-loving. the type of guy who texts you asking about homework, but diverts the conversation to asking you about your love life. he’ll compliment you, woo you, but leave you hanging. a flirtatious guy who loves to keep you on your toes, but will disappear the moment you reciprocate his attention.
the sweetheart. baby-faced, dreamy eyes, amazing teeth. the kind of guy who’ll compliment you on anything and everything. wants to make you feel good, wants to see you smile. the kind of guy who, at times, takes care of others more than himself, because he knows how it feels to be left alone in the dark. can be sensitive and emotional, so there will be no such thing as “too much” reassurance.
the lover. passionate and competitive gaze, attractive smile. spiky hair. loves to be in love, craves your attention. despite his confidence, he can be just as needy and insecure as any other guy once he is comfortable with you. enjoys light and humorous conversations - will always tease you just to get a reaction. will always want to be physically close to you.
the adult. a clean, tidy look. stern and serious gaze, often immersed in his own little bubble rather than paying attention to his surroundings. looks extremely attractive in glasses. most of the time, is very booksmart - but can also come off as condescending. past that demeanor, he's the type of guy who'll show you that he cares by helping you out. a practical, grounded and sensible guy.
the sweet-talker. attractive voice, charming smile. humorous, flirty, and curious. loves to hear you talk about yourself - asks a lot of questions. enjoys adventures and romantic dates, and will always be willing to make time for you even when he’s busy. the kind of guy who loves to have a good time - you’ll find him destressing at a concert or a local bar at the end of the week.
the soulmate. piercing stare that’ll make your heart want to beat out of your chest. loud laugh. will always be intense in one way or another. once he has his eyes set on you, he won’t stop until he has you. devoted, passionate and hard-working. the jealous type, but does not often show it due to his overwhelming amount of pride. will do anything and everything he can to show you that he cares for you.
the child at heart. a child-like, juvenile persona. nice build, usually muscular and fit. the kind of guy who’ll make jokes at all times - even when it may be inappropriate to do so. loves to flirt with you, wants to take you on adventures. will always make you laugh. the kind of guy who likes to live in the present. open-minded.
the rock. cold and intimidating stare. usually extremely sexy and alluring, but unapproachable. may be quiet, reserved and unwilling to socialize at first - but once you break down his walls, you’ll realize how much of a gem he is. great sense of humor, although not everyone understands it. hard-working and mature for his age. will always make sure you’re comfortable and secure with him. the kind of guy you can always rely on and come home to.
the lonewolf. charismatic stare, sexy voice, quirky fashion sense. usually very well-spoken and intelligent. loves to have philosophical talks with you. has quite a lot of friends, but likes to spend most of his time alone. the kind of guy who fluctuates between giving you all the attention in the world to completely shutting himself out. complicated, but worth it once you have him figured out.
the romantic. messy hair, sleepy eyes, feminine features. the kind of guy who runs late to class more often than not. is extremely shy and may be insecure about himself, but loves to please you. may be afraid to approach you at first, but is a total chatterbox and goofball once he opens up to you. usually the designated driver, and is more than willing to take care of his loved ones.
The guy that I like started talking w/ me like a month ago. He send me a message. I know that I liked him. But he doesn't talk w/ me anymore. He barely look at me and I think I'm in love with him. Well.. not in love but I really like him. He doesn't even speak w/ me anymore. I want his attention but he might choose a better girl than me. What should I do?
Readers won’t stop sending the Bad Advisor their real-ass questions to answer, so the Bad Advisor is periodically going to try her hand at answering them.
Not every crush works out! The world is chock-damn-full of dudes who will talk to you. Talk to one of them, and leave this dude in the dust. Dudes who are interested in you will show interest in you, and they won’t need to be convinced or cajoled into enjoying and desiring your company.
But let’s talk about “a better girl than me.” What makes a girl “better” than you? The fact that she has the romantic attention of a guy you like? That’s not being “better” – it’s being different. Your value is not predicated on whether a guy pays attention to you. Being “good” or “better” is not something that a guy can bestow on a girl. Men do not dictate the value of women and they cannot enrich women’s value by being attracted to them. If this guy becomes interested in another girl, it’s not because she’s “better” than you, it’s because we humans are vast, complicated creatures whose wants and desires are often unknowable even to ourselves. Don’t sweat it. Don’t try to be the “better” girl so that this guy will like you – try to be the best version of yourself so that you like you. Because you are gonna be hanging out with yourself well after the fleeting crushes have fleeted by.