What she means:
I was the one who had it all. I was the master of my fate. I never needed anybody in my life. I learned the truth too late. I'll never shake away the pain.
I close my eyes but she's still there. I let her steal into my melancholy heart. It's more than I can bear. Now I know she'll never leave me. Even as she runs away. She will still torment me, calm me, hurt me. Move me, come what may.
Wasting in my lonely tower. Waiting by an open door. I'll fool myself she'll walk right in. And be with me for evermore.
it never ceases to amaze me when gbtq dudes who understand the concept of saying “i hate straight people/i hate cis people” as a way to vent frustration with a homo/transphobic culture and not a direct statement about individually hating every straight/cis person in the world still shit themselves when women (esp lbtq women) say “i hate men”
and when i say it amazes me i mean it doesn’t surprise me at fucking all
I feel like the definition of too gay to function is Neil Josten watching an entire movie and not being able to recall one detail of it afterwards because he was too hyperaware of Andrew sitting next to him and was too busy trying to pretend like he wasn’t hyperfixated on Andrew’s presence.
there’s a huge difference between assuming someone else’s sexuality and ignoring their hints for your own personal and selfish reasons. lgbt people are great at hiding their sexuality when we need to, so if we do or say something that could be a hint, you take it. by ignoring that, you’re not helping us, you’re not doing us any favors. you’re not being a good ally, you’re erasing our sexuality.
Am I the only one that doesn’t care at all that Mon El said that he loved Kara before Sanvers have said it? Like the relationship between Kara and Mon El is messy and lacks development, so I’m not surprised that he said that he loved her so quickly. In all honesty he may not even truly love her, she’s just the first person he’s truly been attached to and not a hook up, which he was doing on Daxam.
BUT Sanvers has been developed and I’m just waiting for that special moment that they actually say it. Not some type of “I’m saying this cause I don’t want to lose you bullshit,” but they say it cause it’s true. Cause they truly can’t live without one another and love each other, ride or die. When they do say it, it will be impactful and not easily forgotten like Mon El’s confession.
hating on any of the matsus and making one of them seem worse than the other characters is OUT
respecting and appreciating that the matsus have different personalities and traits that might not necessarily appeal to you but could understandably appeal to others and therefore not hating/bashing/bullying them for it is IN