appreciation post for my butt because even though gaining a lot of weight over the past year has been super hard I finally have enough energy to get to class and make it through weeks without sobbing myself to sleep!
sometimes i seriously grieve for no longer being underweight, like, seriously. I get mad at myself for eating. I get mad at myself for not losing weight. and still, with eating more regularly I have enough energy to power through those thoughts. also, I’m happy now???
just a reminder for this new year that you are so much more than your weight, and that you don’t need to make a resolution to lose weight, despite media’s hyperfixation on those kinds of resolutions. remember that health doesn’t always look like weight loss. you are perfect for being you. no matter what size.
twenty-one years on this earth and i only just learned that there are three different identified patterns of female orgasm and i suddenly feel so much better about myself. so if your orgasms are nothing like the ‘normal’ earth-shattering, screaming, uncontrollable orgasms you see commonly in media like movies or porn or even read about in books, in magazines, in fanfiction, or even see in your female partners, then please know that there’s nothing wrong with you. there’s nothing wrong with having a quiet orgasm, a small orgasm, a continuous, controlled orgasm, pleasure that doesn’t peak energetically… you’re perfectly normal. you’re just experiencing it differently.
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Today on why the BMI scale is pointless
So I’m officially weight restored y'all - I’ve maintained above my target weight since December and am officially overweight according to the BMI charts!! That caused me a ton of stress at first, and especially when I realized I weigh more than most of my guy friends. How about that ingrained misogyny, thinking it’s shameful for a woman to take up more space than a man?
Well, I’ve realized that I don’t really give a fuck anymore about my weight. I can do cool shit with my body like run three miles without stopping or haul tree limbs for 7 hours or hold a shoulder stand for five minutes. If it requires me to be “overweight” to do those things, so be it. Fuck anyone who says otherwise.