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okay but it’s so important to do little things for yourself that help you feel comfortable in therapy. like for some people thats bringing stuffed animals or blankets or their journal, but for me it’s spending the first five minutes showing my psychologist cool rocks ive found/bought since i last saw her. it helps me relax and gives my hands something to do throughout the session. theres no such thing as a “stupid comfort item/habit.” sometimes you gotta start your therapy talkin about what happened on your favorite tv show. sometimes u gotta show your therapist pictures of your pet or ask for a pic of theirs. it’s okay.

being comfortable in therapy is the first step towards significant progress.

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Disconnected [BASS IS EXTREMELY BOOSTED]
5 Seconds of Summer
Disconnected [BASS IS EXTREMELY BOOSTED]

BASS SO BOOSTED THAT I CAN FEEL IT IN MY SOUL.

  • [WEAR WITH HEADPHONES FOR A BETTER EXPERIENCE, IT COMES OUT VERY QUIET IF YOU HAVE IT ON REGULAR SPEAKER]

I was tagged by @just-one-more-bridge-to-cross @hell–hammer @kawaiichurchburner @ddraconian-love @seashell-eyes-and-windy-smiles @bringmetheemos @twerkhammett @death-is-only-everlasting (I think, might have remembered wrong tho) @@blazesinthenorthernsky and @minhyriath to post a selfie, so here lol. Thanks my dudes 😘

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ARE YOU LOOKING FOR ADVICE?

Do you have questions about weight loss, exercise and diet? Are you curious about mental health? Or do you just have a general question about life?

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I’m always willing to help others so reblog this to spread the word and let others know that someone is there for them

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lol my mom also said “you know i can’t say i’m surprised” and “i always thought if you ended up with someone it might be a woman”

and here i thought i was discreet. apparently going 23 years without a serious boyfriend was Noted.

art tips

  • draw the fucking hand. just draw it bad. do it.
  • it’s not cheating to use references or mirroring 
  • learn to do thin line art. it forces you to draw better anatomy.
  • find that one thing u like to draw and get good at that
  • value your work. art is a skill, not a gift.
  • dont turn the page in your sketchbook, just finish the shit line
  • drawing a hundred bad things is better than one perfect thing
  • you dont have to be good at everything
  • challenge yourself every other drawing.
  • dont keyboard smash your file names use the Date
  • draw big, save small
  • dont let people take your shit. it’s YOURS. own it. respect it.
  • art skill =/= good person

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5 Seconds Of Summer
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So my sister is a biology major and I am a history major, so we are constantly making fun of each other because what we do is so completely different and have a continuous joke going that our major is better then the other’s

So she just sent me a text that said the biology building (which is where she spends most of her time) is currently on alert, and the students were told to keep there eyes out, because there is a tarantula loose in the building. There is no joke a real live tarantula just running around the building that they have yet to find, and everyone was just told to be on the look out as they continue with their classes….

My response was this is why history is so much better. Because in the history building fucking Hitler and Pol Pot can’t just escape from their tanks and run around loose in our building. And all that that statement can call to my mind is people being like “Excuse me everyone, please remember to watch out as that silly hitler escaped his pen yet again!” And then just imagine a student sitting in class doing college stuff and out of the corner of their eye seeing hitler standing behind a bookshelf and peeking out, realizing he’s been seen, and then scuttling away back into the dark

I consider this an overall win for the history column

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