perfect men who are perfect

[004] Hanyu, Y.

“Skating is something that heavily depends on how you’re feeling and there’ll definitely be times when you feel like you absolutely hate it. When you do it well, it’s the greatest feeling in the world and when you don’t, it’s the single most frustrating thing ever and you start to think that maybe you don’t like it as much anymore. But you’ll always have the people who’d stand by you no matter what. When things don’t go your way, these are the people, people like your parents, or others around you like your coach, who’d tell you exactly what you need to hear (even if it’s not necessarily what you want to hear) and they’d be doing it because they know you can do better, so it’d be wise to listen. 

And as you grow older, you may find yourself going through rebellious phases and getting angry quite a lot, and you’d maybe think that all these people around you should just mind their own business and leave you alone, and that’s natural. But it’d be awesome if you could grow up to become someone who is able to understand where they’re coming from and cherish all the support that’s selflessly being given to you.”  

-Yuzuru HANYU, at the ISU World Championship 2014 Small Medal Ceremony, answering an 8 year-old skater’s question about what they (the skaters on stage) feel is most important to them when it comes to skating 

Source: Taken from 04:18~04:26 of [this video] for the little girl’s question and 00:00~01:32 of [this video] for the big boy’s answer.

(Note: He answered it after Tatsuki and Javi cos he wasn’t prepared to give one only to find out that he’d basically skipped his turn. I think they somehow let him say his piece later, though, cos he was looking really sulky and isn’t it a good thing that they did?)

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this is amazing but also really weird

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Once again:

RUN. RUN AND DO NOT LOOK BACK. JUST RUN.

R U N

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150 GUYS WHO HAVE RUINED MY LIFE (IN ALPHABETICAL ORDER) -> Florent Mothe (100/150)

THIS IS WHAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT

before announcing the winner Lee Soo Hyuk and Lee Yu Bi

so here’s Park Seo Joon accepting the award from actress Lee Yu Bi and next to her is Lee Soo Hyuk

THIS IS FRICKIN THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE AWARD SHOW LEE SOO HYUK AND PARK SEO JOON INTERACTING SHAKING HANDS AHHHH

his acceptance speech he started tearing up 

Requested by: @peach-acid

Men’s Insecurities

If you type into Google “body insecurities”, you will notice that it comes up with the word “woman”; it doesn’t take a genius to work out that there is something absent. I know a lot of men who are insecure about the way they look, yet they block this from the public eye and disguise it with a mask of confidence and exaggerated displays of masculinity. There seems to be such a pressure on men, whether it be through society or the media, to be strong; men have to be mentally and physically strong to protect the women and succeed in our responsibilities, right?

I don’t think insecurities in men is talked about enough because women usually don’t see it and men don’t want to talk about it… 

So, to every single person who identifies themselves as a man, know this:

Just because you have insecurities does not make you weak, and if you ever feel like you are weak, it’s okay; happiness isn’t fully achieved by those who aren’t presented with hurdles in life. Men have to find happiness in themselves before they can bring happiness to others. Do not be ashamed because you are insecure or uncomfortable; it is normal for any human being. Men are not a perfect species and the ‘perfect human’ is a lie used for marketing. You are not less of a man because you don’t have big muscles, don’t look like an Abercrombie model and don’t have an ‘up-to-standard’ sized genitalia. You are not weak for expressing how you feel and you are not worthless because you feel like you need to improve.  You are handsome, you are smart and you are ten times better than anyone that tells you otherwise, as whatever they say to you only reflects on the hidden insecurities that they have been keeping in the shadows because they are just as scared as the rest of men

So please tell me, who really is perfect in this world?

@ people mad or dissapointed in Yuri on Ice for not having a kiss, direct “I love you”, wedding, etc etc at the end…  don’t?

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