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9 Ways To Attract Toxic People Into Your Life

1. Drama - the more conflict the better. Toxic people thrive in situations that revolve around drama. When involved in a lot of conflict - both internally and externally - we attract those who love drama.

2. Don’t look within - it might reveal the truth. Ignoring true feelings is part of what makes people toxic. Refusing to acknowledge that which is hurting from within is a great way to attract others who are doing the same.

3. Denial - you are perfect, everyone else has a problem. Toxic people are usually narcissists - they believe they can do no wrong and will find a reason to project their hurt onto others. They usually tend to attract others who behave in the same way and then complain about it.

4. Revenge - they need to pay. Indeed, there are times when revenge feels like it would be the best course of action - this path leads to pettiness and attracts toxicity. Toxic people feel the need to get back at people who have wronged them even in the slightest of ways - maybe if someone looked at them wrong.

5. Distract yourself - anything to stop you from checking yourself. Whether it’s sex, video games, drugs, food or television - use everything around you to stop you from addressing who you are, what you’ve done and who you’re becoming.

6. Don’t learn - what do experiences have to teach you? Refuse to learn from anything that’s happened to you and instead project your pain and confusion onto others to make yourself feel better about it. 

7. Disrespect - no one is better than you. Young, old, sick, healthy - no one deserves your compassion and that’s why you have the right to look down at them. Judge everyone for the way they live their lives and think you are better than them because they’re not you.

8. Gossip - a great use of time. Think of someone you don’t like, be nice to their face and then talk bad about them behind their back. If there’s nothing bad to say - create rumours. If no one believes those rumours - set up conflicts and situations in that person’s life so you can talk with others about them. Anything is better than having to talk about yourself and what’s going on in your life.

9. Entitlement - everyone owes you something. Hard work? Forget that, the world owes you everything. Everyone you meet should be nice to you, they should bow to your feet and present you with gifts just for being present. If they don’t - then you have the right to take whatever you need from them - love, money, attention.

These are great ways for you to become toxic and thereby attract toxic people into your life, after all you’ve got to become that which you seek to have it manifest in your life.

You attract what you are - so become what you want.

Peace & positive vibes.

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#SuccessfulSaturdays

What’s Luck Got To Do With It? 

 The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there - he climbed from the base to the summit and that is why he can enjoy the view. There was no luck involved in this climb, there was no overnight ascent to the summit and he never gave up - this is why the man is at the top of the mountain.

This a metaphor for success - you start at the bottom and you climb to the top. There is no short-cut to get to the top - you have to put in the work and be committed to getting to the end goal. Yes, the climb will be difficult - but the view from the top will be worth it.

I came across people in my early journey that accounted everyone’s success to good fortune or luck. After studying the habits of successful people I have seen that there is no such thing as luck. 

When you work hard for something opportunities will present themselves along the way - this is the concept of creating your own luck. The harder you work - the luckier you get. 

Instead of envying those at the top of the mountain you aspire to climb - study their methods and use them in your own ascent. You’ll never get to the top of your mountain if you sit at the base complaining about how hard the climb will be. 

It may takes months, years or decades - but as long as you’re climbing you’ll get there. What’s the alternative? You set up camp at the base of the mountain with the others who aren’t committed and you make each other feel better by making up stories as to how the others got to the top and why you can’t?

You don’t need luck when you’ve got hustle.

Peace & positive vibes.

I didn’t hate time zones until I started making friends on Tumblr.

Luke thinkin’ he got the aim of Link up in here with dem love arrows, but little did he know that this whole time, one arrow slipped right through the screen passed Hana and hit me instead.

I am a broken human being.

Finny: My apologies for obsessing over you in the game on twitter, Luke.
Hope it isn’t as excessive as my anxiety makes me feel like it is.

I am following 484 blogs. HOW IS MY DASH THIS SLOW?! WHERE ARE ALL YOUR GUYS POSTS! GAH!

If you are awake right now like this or something and I will follow you.

Cool.

bebipbop  asked:

What is the message thing and why doesn't everybody have it :P

It’s a way to instant message people on Tumblr. Everyone doesn’t have it because @staff stayed awake in economy 101 and realized that if they limit the amount of people who have it at first then it will seem exclusive and make more people want to have it.