people who talk shit

shaladin safe space

please reblog this if you’re pro-shaladin, or at least are not anti-shaladin. i need to know that there are more of us out there, shipping and multishipping and seeing shiro happy with his paladins. also i want more shaladin-positive blogs to follow.

this blog is a shaladin safe space.

Exercise is great for helping manage Depression. Medication and a doctor are essential.

I really need people who don’t know shit about living with mental illness to stop talking about it, because they’re hurting those of us who live with Depression and other forms of mental illness.

YOU KNOW WHAT REPUTATION MADE ME REALIZE? PEOPLE WHO TALK SHIT DON’T MATTER. IT’S PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU THAT MATTER. IT’S YOU AND YOUR HAPPINESS THAT MATTERS. IF SOMEONE HURT YOU IN THE PAST DON’T BE AFRAID TO SAY IT OUT LOUD JUST BECAUSE THEY’RE GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW TERRIBLE YOU ARE FOR BEING SHADY. IT’S WHAT THEY DO. BUT YOU KNOW YOURSELF! YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO - BE STRONG! BE CONFIDENT! YOU CAN DO ANYTHING!

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me after two shots 

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I just wanted to draw a random Gabe but I’m incapable of drawing one of them without the other  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

tsukishima “i don’t care about anything” kei

more like

  • tsukishima “attends every volleyball practice/event/game while simultaneously maintaining an incredible GPA” kei
  • tsukishima “somehow manages to find time in his already demanding practice schedule to study mad hard for college level classes and never complains or asks for help” kei
  • tsukishima “swallows his pride to ask upperclassmen from another team for help when he hates asking for help” kei
  • tsukishima “keeps up with all the current volleyball news and the up-and-coming players” kei
  • tsukishima “like half my fingers are no longer functional but this is fine i can still play” kei
  • tsukishima “literally has always been thinking about the emotional toll of volleyball” kei
  • tsukishima “refused to like volleyball because of how it hurt his brother” kei
  • tsukishima “has stuck by the same friend since elementary school” kei
  • tsukishima “has a running list of other people’s abilities” kei
  • tsukishima “paying attention to everything kuroo says about blocking even when it isn’t directed at him” kei
  • tsukishima “desperately absorbs information like a sponge” kei
  • tsukishima “definitely a perfectionist like calm down” kei
  • tsukishima “cares 100% way too much” kei
  • tsukishima “needs to find a chill place” kei

Sure, okay, corrective rape could happen to anyone! Fair enough! But when an asexual gets raped because of their asexuality, it becomes an issue of the asexual community. I’m not saying it is an exclusive issue of ours, but I am telling you guys: when someone decides that an asexual person needs to understand what Real Sex™ feels like and ignores the fact that we are not consenting, they are doing it out of a need to show the error of our ways.

Sure, it could’ve happened to anyone. But it happened to an asexual BECAUSE OF THEIR ASEXUALITY. You can’t pretend an attack on my sexuality happened just because—it didn’t. It happened because to someone else, our lack of sexual attraction felt childish (you just don’t know any better, let me teach you), immature (how would you know if you don’t try it?/i can make it feel good, you’ll see), absurd. So yeah, it could’ve happened to anyone. Sure. But it happened for a very precise reason.

And okay, we aren’t oppressed because of our sexuality on a constitutional level, sure, I’ll give you guys that. Fair enough.

But how does that somehow mean people accept us and treat us equally? Like, the thing is, we aren’t even well-known enough to be oppressed on our own, and the more people who know us, the more people who start hating us because of our asexuality.

Did you know that Almudena Grandes, a Spanish writer, said in a famous TV Show over here that she hates “the asexual people” because being asexual makes us evil by our very nature? That we are incapable of feeling love and are boring and no one would want to be close to us because, well, we are Evil™?

Did you know that Flex made a nice little ad about asexuality, and that comments towards it ranged from mild “asexuality is stupid” to “they just need a good fucking” while implying that our consent wouldn’t be needed for them to do it, because they would be doing us a favour?

Did you know that no straight ever has looked at us and associated us with them? That for them we’re just as foreign and weird as the rest of the LGBT, that for the kind of people that hate homosexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, for them asexuality is just one more thing to hate?

Did you know that my best friend looked at me in the eye and said: “I’m so sorry for you” when I came out to her? Did you know she told me she would rather DIE than “become” like me? Did you know my brother made fun of me for weeks after I told him what I was, that my mother took years to even be able to talk about it, that I can’t mention it around my grandma because it makes her so fucking uncomfortable?

Did you know one of my friends asked me not to tell guys I was asexual, because he mentioned it once to his friends, and they all laughed and said they would fuck an asexual woman anyway because that’s what she clearly needed? We’re talking people who actually respected other women, saying shit like this. Did you know he gets scared for me, not just for being a woman, but for being an asexual one?

But then I have to come here and see shit of how we are privileged because Straight people see us as straight (throwing not only us under the bus, but anyone who is “straight passing”, as if that didn’t have psychological consequences, as if it didn’t feel constricting to be forced to act like someone you aren’t), how nobody would ever hate on us or hurt us because of our asexuality, how There Are No Issues With Asexuality In The World.

Haha, there wasn’t any war in Ba Sing Se either.

So okay, keep us out of the LGBT, I don’t even care about the Tumblr community tbh. But don’t come at us using arguments like “you don’t experience hate because of your sexuality!” “aces are just straight anyway!” or variants of these, because, guess what? You’re wrong.

You’re fucking wrong.

  • Me: *likes Gal Gadot*
  • tumblr: u can't Like Gal Gadot she supports the military of her home country
  • Me: *likes Gal Gadot whilst glaring at the people trying to impose their own feelings towards her onto me*
How MBTI Start Up Drama/Shit

ESTP, ISTP: Their attitude may be found annoying/cunning or whatever towards other people who might then start talking shit behind them. And when they find out, they’re gonna start some shitttttt

ENTJ, ESTJ: They exist…… :l

ESFP, ENFP: Have so many friendships that they end up being friends with people who are enemies with each other, which ends up backfiring.

INFJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ESFJ: They don’t. Unless you hurt their loved ones, in that case, run.

ENFJ, INTJ: Because it’s fun……

INFP, ISFP: They’re emotions cause them to do weird shit and inevitably hurt other people or hurt themselves (send help asap)

ENTP, INTP: They get bored and decide to start up drama cuz why not

folk’s reaction when we first heard of the balloon squad:
naaah they can’t be trusted they look shady i’m not getting good vibes from them stop marginalising them all to be muslims how do you KNOW they are muslim??? lmao why y'all reaching for how much do u wanna bet they won’t even be on s4 y'all are reaching for nothing.

the balloon squad:
get introduced within the 2nd clip of the 1st episode of the season and from then on, in under 24 hours, already have profiles, have a youtube channel, have already posted a video of themselves on it holding a bottle of coke, are all muslims, are all bros who love each other and call each other’s shit out when it comes to respecting women, and are aimlessly throwing a fucking sock into a lamp everytime snoop dogg says smoke weed everyday because they are that lame.

A post: *hates on girls for liking boys, bi or straight* *calls all boys disgusting and stupid* *demonizes a group of people for no reason to which everyone on the post blindly agrees without forming an independant and reasonable opinion*
Me:

Originally posted by secondstartotherightxo

Remember when the Batjokes fandom used to be one of the nicest fandom and new people were always amazed to see there was no drama here and that we were just a bunch of shippers enyoying Bats and Joker together and no one was shitting on what version the others liked better?

So, I hadn’t really intended to address the matter but I’m receiving a lot of asks and pm’s about it + it’s in the press here so i might as well just get it out of the way real quickly. 
Two metastases (new tumors created by the main one) have been found in my dad’s liver and it’s shitty but that’s just the way it is. I’d rather not discuss it and while i really am super appreciative of all your support and kindness I would rather not receive asks or stuff about it. I’m finishing up final exams and shit and i just need to focus on the things that i actually have control over (like my grades). 
so thank you all and i hope this answered your questions. 

anonymous asked:

I get the feeling Mackie is very protective of Seb. Same as with Tom Holland. He can jokingly talk shit about his white boys all day long but the minute someone else does it in seriousness then Mackie would be the first to fuck someones shit up.

listen, do not start me on the Seb and Mackie dynamic, they are bEST FRIENDS!!! They make fun of each other like, in front of each other, but the moment someone asks about the other and they’re apart it’s all “Seb’s humour has come a long way, he’s been pretty funny this year.” or they’ll just bring the other one up like “I actually haven’t been to New Orleans yet even though one of my BEST FRIENDS lives there.”

Also Mackie complimenting Seb in front of Seb because he knows Seb gets all bashful about it so he can simultaneously be nice and make fun of him? Next level best friends stuff. Seb and Mackie love each other, they’re best buddies and i love them.

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I already previously posted a rant based on this whole Jenissi situation but since there was some confusion and things I wanted to take back + add in, I’m redoing it. This will be a long one so I’ll add a ‘read more’ line for your scrolling sake.  Don’t skim through this, read thoroughly, thanks. 

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