people who need to stop bugging me

if you’re struggling for AU ideas take a look-see at this list i wrote for my friend who dubbed it “better than the 10 commandments" 

1)     Coffee shop AU

i)       Barista and person who has a ridiculous coffee order

ii)      I’m worried about your coffee dependency

iii)     you accidentally poured boiling hot coffee over me so you’re responsible for taking me to A&E

iv)     you give me a different fake name every time you come into starbucks and I just want to know your real name bc ur cute but here I am scrawling “batman” onto your stupid cappuccino

2)      Flower shop AU

i)       You buy a weird amount of flowers and I’m concerned as to why

ii)      I’m allergic to flowers but I work in a flower shop – you’re a customer who’s very confused as to why I’d do that

iii)     (this is also a good way to incorporate flower meanings eg, buying certain colours/types for person to represent feelings etc.)

3)      Library AU

i)       You’re overdue on this book and I want it so I’m tracking u the fuck down

ii)      I work in the library and I’m a little concerned for your health bc you never stop studying

iii)     The library’s pretty empty save for you and me and OH that couple making out loudly in the shelves somewhere

4)      Awful first time meeting

i)       I accidentally punched you in the face when I was too overexcited about something

ii)      I thought you were my friend who’s just done something awful to me (read: cut my hair while I slept, dyed all of my clothes pink, etc. etc.) because you look similar from behind so I stormed up to you and shoved you from behind while calling you an asshole

iii)     You get the gist to this one

iv)     Oooh when you told me your name I thought you were joking because it’s fucking awful and I made a joke about it and things got awkward real fucking fast (perfect for a Hannibal au just saying)

5)      Weird places to meet/awkward meetings in general

i)       We live in the same block of flats but haven’t ever talked and Sunday morning we were both doing the walk of shame and had to stand in the lift together

ii)      “okay I know that being in the woods at 2am is a weird thing to be doing but my friend called me and- wait, why are you in the woods at 2am, fuck I’m going to die aren’t I?”

iii)     A personal favourite of mine – first day at a new job and oh fuck my boss is the person I drunkenly hooked up with last weekend/night

iv)     We keep accidentally running into each other I’m not a stalker I swear

v)      You live across from me in our apartments and we smile when we see each other but we don’t really know each other and oh you’re the stripper at my friend’s stag do/hen night fuck this is really uncomfortable

vi)     “My shower’s broken but I’ve got a date tonight could I possibly use your shower please?” “Oh sure (neighbour that I’ve been crushing on for the past six months) of course you can use my shower to get ready for your date (fuck fuck fuck)”

6)      Friends to romance – pining and all that wonderful shit

i)       You’ve got a date tonight and you asked for advice on what to wear but I’m so in love with you and damn you look good in the outfit I picked out for you

ii)      I really like you but you’re my best friend’s ex

iii)     You’ve liked me for ages and were really obvious about it and I didn’t like all the attention but now you’re over me I really miss it and fuck I think I like you too?

iv)     Somewhere along the way of getting into bar fights together, staying up all night with movie marathons, other friendship things, I’ve fallen in love with you but oh my god this could ruin EVERYTHING

v)      Friends with benefits oh wait I like you

7)      FAKE DATING HOLY SHIT I LIVE FOR THIS

i)       It’s my highschool reunion and I need a hot date so I can rub it in the faces of the people who hated me

ii)      My homophobic parents are coming to visit will you pretend to date me as an extra “fuck you”?

iii)     There’s a person who won’t stop bugging me will you pretend to be my partner so that they’ll fuck off?

iv)     I told my sister I have a boyfriend so she’d stop trying to set me up with people but now she’s coming to visit and I’m in too deep I need a fake boyf ASAP

8)      Soulmate aus

i)       The first words your true love(s) will say to you are tattooed on you and why the fuck are their first words something really ridiculous like ‘I’ll pay you a tenner to punch me in the face’ or ‘quick what’s your favourite animal’ or ‘fucking shit hell holy fuck wow oh my god jesus h Christ fuck me’ etc. or even worse a really ridiculous song lyric like  the opening lines of uptown funk or a high school musical song or smthing did you have to serenade me the first time you saw me asshole?

ii)      You get an ‘impression’ of your soulmate when you turn 18 or something but all I got was a strong smell of bananas or an overwhelming feeling that Thatcher was a good prime minister or an image in my mind of a fucking unicorn

iii)     The more ridiculous the better actually

iv)     Something like whenever your soulmate sings a duet you can’t help but join in and my fucking soulmate is in a goddamn band but I can’t sing for shit

v)      Or maybe something like soulmates always sneeze at the same time and I cant be sure but me and this kid in my French class just sneezed at the same time are we soulmates or was it a coincidence (proceed w character trying to make themselves sneeze around said person to see what’s what)

9)      Alternate universes for real

i)       Mermaids

ii)      Siren and asexual pirate who doesn’t understand why all his crew are losing their shit that person has a nice voice sure but what the fuck is happening

iii)     Hogwarts

iv)     We live in a world where the greek gods are real and you went and got yourself cursed and now I have to go on a fucking quest to sort this shit out why do I love you again?

v)      Pacific rim au (either they’re drift compatible or one of them is a ranger and the other stresses constantly bc what if they die yes I have read a fic like this no I didn’t come up with this one but it’s fucking good) (also if you haven’t seen that film go watch it now)

vi)     Literally any movie or book universe you like tbh just go for it

10)   Other aus that I like

i)       I wanted to go on the ferris wheel but there has to be two people to a cart come on random person let’s go oh wait are we stuck at the top? Fuck

ii)      We work in the same office and you have a goddamn squeaky chair and you wONT FUCKING STOP SQUEAKING IT BECAUSE YOU KNOW IT ANNOYS ME

iii)     Our mutual friend set us up on a blind date and I thought I’d hate it but you’re actually… kind of funny? But because I expected to hate it in no way am I going to let you change my mind just because you’re gorgeous and funny and intelligent oh no my friend is not winning this

iv)     It started to snow and I’m the only one of our friends who would go outside with you – I soon found out why none of the others would go out in the snow with you (this works best if they’re new friends who don’t know each other all that well) when you shoved a handful of snow down my back and declared snow war

v)      It’s nowhere near Christmas it’s literally still November would you calm down about Christmas wait no why are you getting the tree out no stop please stop (if you do this pre-relationship you can have the grouchy one secretly finding the other’s excitement endearing and falling in love with them actually that works for established relationship too)

vi)     Current partner got a new job in America (or other country far away) and we’re getting by on skype calls and emails but it’s not easy and then I met someone new (can be poly or can be finding the OTP person)

vii)   You want us both to get in shape and I hate working out/running but your ass looks really good in shorts oh the things I do for my friends and their nice asses

viii)  Carrying on from 10.vii. you’ve caught me checking you out in what I thought was a subtle way too many times and now you’re calling me out on it what do I do???

ix)     You’re an actor/other famous person that I really admire and I just saw you in the street and as I was debating whether or not to say hi you came up to me and started flirting what do I do??

x)      You were waving at your friend behind me but I got confused and waved back at you and now I’m dying of embarrassment but you think it’s cute

xi)     I sat down in the wrong class and I’m panicking but don’t want to get up and leave because the class has started and you think it’s hilarious and shut up you dumb fuck you don’t know me aahhh

xii)   I’m a waiter at this wedding and you’re a drunk guest who will not stop hitting on me please I’m trying to work no I can’t dance with you omg let me find you some water

xiii)  Our best friends are that awful ‘cute’ couple that make-out in public and call each other “sweetie” and “sugar” and “babe” and god they’re awful let’s talk about how awful they are – develops into “shit we’re the awful couple now”

xiv)  You pissed me off in class so I threw a book at your head and now I’m in detention and jesus fuck I hate you so much and the teacher made me apologise and wait you’re cuter up close and the way you talk is kind of nice actually oh fuck no

Okay I could go on forever but this is over 1,500 words of auing already I have too many ideas christ

send me some to @theskyis-forever with a pairing for me to write :)

anonymous asked:

What is it with antis and forcing a weird suburban-type family dynamic and infantilizing the "children", no mattter how old they are, to the point of accusing people who ships them with anyone of literal pedophilia. It's so fuckin weird and skeevy and it's spreading to different fandoms

It bugs me so much like family HC’s can be cute as hell but it’s when people take those HC’s actually seriously and start to see the ‘kid’ as an actual kid in canon even when they’re not and accuse anyone who ships anyone with them as problematic even when it isn’t. You can see it happening in both the voltron and yoi fandom it’s just annoying and needs to stop

asktyran  asked:

*in response to you asking your audience to be more active* You mistake the connection to you and your audience. You should do what you like and hope people like what you do for fun. Your fans don't owe you a thing, if anything you're indebted to them for giving you even a semi glance of popularity. If people like you they like you, if they don't they don't. But don't try to get pity when you're undeserving of it. Draw if you wanna draw, quit if you wanna quit. Don't let them stop you

In response to this
I am happy for who I have that have stuck around.I always do what I want with my blog no one tells me otherwise. I’m not seeking pity I do not need it, I really wish you would stop coming to this conclusion because it’s really starting to bug me now. No one owes me anything for being here and I know that thanks.
Thank you for your concern (?)
And thank you for taking time to write this

anonymous asked:

Isn't littlefinger supposed to seem trustworthy and amiable? He seems to easily befriend people (before betraying them or using them in his schemes) The scowl more than the sword is what seems off to me in that drawing. how cartoonishly evil the show's version speaks is one of the main things that bugged me (why would ANYONE trust him?!) like he IS evil but he should at least TRY to hide it.

Look at how trustworthy and amiable he looks:

Originally posted by hodorhodorhodooor

No one in King’s Landing likes or trusts Littlefinger: not Varys, not Pycelle, not Cersei, not Jaime, not Stannis, not Renly, not Tyrion, not Tywin, no one. He’s an incredibly obvious schemer who can’t stop monologuing in front of people he’s trying to scheme against or reminding people he’s betrayed that he’s betrayed them. He should try to hide it, but his compulsive need to prove he’s smarter than everyone else won’t let him.

Littlefinger gets away with it because A. most people don’t see him as a threat because he’s got no lands and no armies, B. he’s made himself indispensible as the only person who understands the royal finances, and C. he’s pretty good at hiding his actions.

Ok I’ve seen this floating around and tbh it bugs the crap out of me. 

Asexuals and aromantics are not some kawaii little kids who dream about dragons and pizza. It’s not some uwu bullshit.  I’m serious stop romanticizing them to the point where aromantics and asexuals seem like a joke. I defined as asexual for some time and it was already hard enough for people to take me seriously.

But I think the biggest problem is that people need to realize that asexuals can celebrate valentines. Though I get that society keeps pushing the idea that people need romance in their life you guys keep lumping asexuals and aromantics together. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in sexual activity. Being aromantic means they do not experience romantic attraction. So long story short stop lumping these sexualities together! Stop making asexuals and aromantics a joke! 

Also this isn’t the whole valentines day post, there are others but I didn’t want to make this post take up all of your’s dash.

another novahd masterpost

–but by a different person because im deciding to make it my own way and maybe have it a bit more updated.

warning it’s a REALLY long post

*Ahem*

NovaHD, what is it? And why do people ship it? What are the wonders of this   fictional pairing?

UberHaxorNova, or James Wilson,

Being the romantic interest of

ImmortalHDFilms, or Aleksandr Marchant.

Let’s start by some of the great reasons and prizes of the light NovaHD has given.

Keep reading

fdhkjfdhkjdfhkjdf  asked:

you're pretty open about your consumption of alcohol, so, just asking out of curiosity - how do you feel about marijuana? have you ever tried it?

I have! Lots of times. Plenty. I was a stoner in high school and for a couple years afterwards. I stopped, partially because of some personal reasons and partially because it started to trigger very strong panic attacks/paranoia which kept getting worse and it really stopped being worth it. I honestly haven’t done it in probably… 5 years? 6?

I have nothing against it (doesn’t everyone say that?) but I don’t particularly like to be around people who are high. It causes that same kind of reaction. I know it’s my own issue and I try not to impose that weirdness on others.

The only thing I ever really have against pot users or people who take drugs is when they say they “need it” to be creative. That bugs the hell out of me. Everyone assumes that all people who work in creative fields are stoners and sure, some of them are, and that’s fine! I’m just weird enough without it. I always work (and especially write) sober, too. I woke up like this, so to speak.

Let me get a few things straight.

Do I think he said the n word in that video? Yes.

Do I think Louis is consciously racist? No.

Do I think he THINKS it’s okay to say that word? Yes.

Do I think he said that to be more dramatic in the video? No.

Do I think that makes it okay? Absolutely not.

Do I think he needs to apologize? Yes.

Do I think he will? Unfortunately not, simply based on the fact that nobody in the media is treating it like something was wrong.

Are you allowed to be angry with him? Of course.

Does that mean you don’t love him anymore? Not at all. You can still love people who do shitty things, you just have to realize that what they did was shitty and not dismiss it just because you love them.

Stupid reactions while playing Undertale

“STUPID WEED TRIED TO KILL ME”

“She’s so nice. She’s gonna die, isn’t she?”

“Toriel is taking a while. I guess Under Mart has one register open today.”

“I DIDN’T MEAN TO HIT THAT HARD I JUST WANTED HER AT LIKE ONE QUARTER HP SO I COULD DO MERCY”

“Please, game, don’t make me kill the skeleton dorks.”

“Isn’t Undyne that chick from Claymore who carried two swords to remember her dead friend?”

“Somebody needs to quit smoking dog treats.”

“I just invited a skeleton on a date?!”

“P-dawg? I thought we were crew! Don’t help her take my soul!”

“Why can’t I see the drawing? Pictures in ruins are always important!”

“Nope, not a bug. Stupid dog, I wanted to keep that artifact.”

“SHE JUST WON’T STOP IT’S LIKE SOMETHING OUT OF METROID”

“Napstablook, you’re my hero!”

“This ghost needs better self esteem.”

“The king likes to walk around talking to people? We have something in common, then.”

“She works for WHO? They want WHAT? This day can’t get any worse.” Five minutes later: “THEY HAVE SIX? IT JUST GOT WORSE”

“Stupid robot!”

“This Core music reminds me of Sega Genesis.”

“Stupid robot!”

“Alphys is so cute and tries so hard.”

“This robot is pure evil and will get no mercy!”

“I just promised to watch anime with a lizard scientist.”

“They know that I don’t like spiders and think purple is my color? Who have they been talking to? What else do they know?!”

*laughs uncontrollably at FFVI ripoff*

“She used to not like herself? Aww…”

“Oh cool, more dinner with Sans. …MY HEART” *sniffle*

“That didn’t sound like a shutdown, it sounded like the Kool-Aid Man enjoying himself a little too much! What did I just do… WHAT HAS SCIENCE DONE?”

“So the evil box and the JoJo-looking guy I kept seeing in all the memes are the same entity?”

“Wait, why do I care about his ratings?”

“Aww. Poor fabulous robot.”

“WHAT DO YOU MEAN, TWO SOULS?”

“This house looks familiar. GUILT”

“What do these monsters want? Oh, they just want to talk …MY HEART”

“Did Asriel… become Flowey?” *is shouted at by Mash for suggesting an absolutely stupid plot twist that Toby Fox would never ever include in his game*

“So the royal symbol is all over, and this house is like Toriel’s, and she wore that symbol… CRAP.” *restarts game and begins pacifist run*

“Does the game know I cheated?”

“THE WEED KNOWS I CHEATED.”

“I can’t believe I lost! At least Papyrus has the best prison ever.”

*gets captured again* “A HOT DOG CUT UP INTO THE KIBBLE PAPYRUS YOU SAID YOU IMPROVED THE PLACE SO MUCH I WOULDN’T WANT TO LEAVE”

*loses a third time* “Cool, he’s just letting me leave. Nothing like friendship.”

“I haven’t killed anyone! Now I can hang out with Undyne!”

“Papyrus, don’t leave me! She doesn’t like me! She doesn’t want to serve me tea! She just broke her own table! I need to get out of here!”

“MY HAIR SHE JUST DRAGGED ME TO THE STOVE BY MY HAIR”

“Is it safe to turn up the stove this much?” (Mash was looking over my shoulder yelling to keep turning it up)

“I have destroyed her house. She will never like me now.”

(Thanks to Mash for informing me that Alphys tells you the quiz answers and that I can in fact spare the two guards.)

“I kept a Spider Donut in my inventory! Now they’ve got to know that I’m okay with spiders! …SHE THINKS I’M A THIEF UWAAAAAH”

“So this is how I keep the Nice Cream guy happy! Excellent!”

“This castle is still depressing af. At least I didn’t kill the wife this time.”

“This room is full of coffins! I need to get out of here…”

“This is the king? Aww, what a big friendly-looking fuzzy goof! Maybe we can talk this out…” (Minutes later) “HIS EYES GLOW IN THE DARK” *dies three times*

“All right, Majesty, let’s talk this out. I don’t wanna die, but I do want to help you guys… FLOWEY! FLOWEY YOU VILE BEAST I WILL STAB YOU TO PIECES”

“Wait, where’s my game? Where’s my save file?”

*6 or so minutes of incoherent horrified shrieking*

“Is it over? Here I come, weed-” (is restrained by Mash) “FINE. Mercy for everyone.” *sulk*

“Of COURSE I want to go back! I need to help my friends!”

“She wants to give me presents? How nice. But seriously, what about Undyne? And what am I going to do with these if I don’t even have armor or scales… Oh. OH. Huehuehue…”

“NOW SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS YOUR TRUE FEELINGS, YOU SILLY MONSTER LADIES.”

“Alphys! I trusted you, we all did! What is this Professor Hojo shit?!”
(Mash even told me to start playing FFVII music during my lab exploration.)

“Why do I have the same name as this kid on the tape?”

“Everything connected with goats is just freaking heartbreaking.”

“NO I DON’T WANT TO BE FOOD FOR DEGRADED MONSTERS - Alphys? Are they still listening to you? This game really is about forgiveness, but I guess that’s what friends have to do. Good luck not being torn apart by the press and/or families.”

“Who are you and how did you get this number… AND WHY ARE THERE VINES EVERYWHERE?”

“Did I just witness the implosion of goat mom’s marriage to the big not-so-bad King?”

“Flowey didn’t learn! Get ready for round two, you ingrate! Everyone! Thank you for believing in me! …IT GOT WORSE WHY DOES HE KEEP GETTING WORSE?”

*6 or so minutes of incoherent horrified shrieking and Earthbound references*

“What the heck else is there for me to even save? Oh… SKELEBROS GOAT MOM OH ALPHYS YOU AND I ARE THE SAME PLEASE REMEMBER ME YOU GUYS”

*6 or so minutes of withholding sobs, not minding dying repeatedly and comparisons to sentai shows*

“Did I… Did I win? Is it over? If Asriel wasn’t so cute I’d beat on him again for the trouble he made. Come here, you little puke.”

“So my name is Frisk? I’m Frisk and they’re all free! WE DID IT, Y'ALL!”

“Alphys, what exactly is that on your phone? Huehuehue…”

“What do you mean, ambassador? Well, you’re my friends and not some corrupt douchecanoes looking for a fifth term, so I guess I’ll do politics for you.”

*6 or so minutes of squealing over everybody’s new happy lives and then failing to hit a bunch of names*





“…what the heck do I do now?”

anonymous asked:

What bothers you about Marco?

Okay, well I’ve never been quiet about my dislike for people who idolize Marco and here’s why it annoys the living shit out of me.

Marco. Had. Zero. Character. Development. Yet he is one of the most popular characters in the entire show? With one of the most popular ships? How does that happen?

And do you know why he has zero character development? Well one because he’s dead and two because he was not an important character. Sure, he helped Jean’s anger and vengeance, but shit I’m positive Jean would’ve lost his shit anyway. Yeah he was their friend. Cool. But Marco was in .5 seconds of like three episodes.

And it also bugs me that he gets all this character acknowledgement but then you have Mikasa and Armin who get shit on everyday yet they are actual main characters who do things and are meant to have great storylines. Also, people need to stop wanting Marco alive just so he can fuck Jean.

/rant done/

This was supposed to be done over the summer oops but anyway it’s only appropriate that I take a while and give a shoutout to all the people who make my time on this damned website worthwhile. This is not in alphabetical order and bolded mutuals are extra extra special. I’m sorry if I forgot you, I still love you a lot. (i apologize for the crappy edit just enjoy the fetus bc michael’s hair isnt coming back)

Imogen

i know you don’t use your tumblr anymore but oh well you’re still one of my best friends and you’re so busy not that you’ve all but forgotten me jk ily i know you have a lot going on but please tell me your kik or something i can’t just fly out to london all the time okay? ok good now get lost

Daisy

you’re an asshole but you make me laugh harder than most people so good job A+ for you keep calling me ham and not loving 1d  that much so i can bug you about something and use the “you’re a bitch” picture okay i should stop you’re ok to be friends with sometimes oke bye (look)

Waverly

ok now this is weird bc i haven’t don’t anything like this for you before and i don’t see you on my dash that much but who cares you’re awesome and i don’t even need to do this bc you know it all but hey it’s cool you’re awesome i’ll see you soon but in the meantime this is for you

Kylie

ok i cant even kylie i’m such a shitty friend but you’re so precious and such a sweet person i’m glad i know you and had the nerve to start a conversation even though i’m still a horrible friend i’m sorry ily i really hope we can talk more check this out

Kayla

alright i think i’ve given you every compliment that i possibly could so i don’t really have anything new but i’m glad i met you in real life first bc i would not have been able to talk to you if i’d found your tumblr first bc it’s perfection but so are you but that’s besides the point ok have a good day and laugh at this

hella rad mutuals:

hemmoh1996, cliffordmyballs, ashtoniwir, kissinharry, clumhccdfcvkhaz, wtfpoods, legalucas, louistoo, ohemmoh, lashtones, sleepyluek, damnclifford, luke5sob, stonedcliffourd, nialljhorin, relaxliam, bewbies, cheersliam, luke5sex, mullinhore, fuckingmichael, magensta, ilreland, zaynsbro, punkbrits, cliffcrd, huhniall, absolutelouis, wildirwn, zayndoll, literallyrad, zaynmalif, butstylesno, iwishiwasharry, studhaz, armanihoran, niullers, louteadsale, kingoftheniall, sexyzain, hoehazza, capturetheclifford, niallhiran
calumtho

admired from afar:

tylerhecks, partylucas, godamniall, ashtonirwns, pizzuhut, flreproofs, specialniall, bestsnogever, passionpayne, strombangers, hoerry, harrysthefather, bootical, arrystyles, hstuyles

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my thoughts on the whole five nights at freddy's thing going around

guys, i don’t care if the person who created the work of art you like is the worst person in the world. stealing from somebody who worked hard on something is wrong, be it a book, a movie, a song, or a video game. i realize we live in a world where piracy is widely accepted and people generally don’t give a shit about the hard work others do for the entertainment of the masses, but when you’re actively threatening the livelihood of a member of an industry that is already hard to be active in and even break even in in terms of work hours to money made, the last thing you should be doing is additionally fucking that person over by pirating their work.

either don’t play the game by the person you don’t like, or just suck it up and buy it. you’re allowed to like good things by problematic people. nobody’s fucking perfect, and some people are a hell of a lot less perfect than others, but that’s no reason to enjoy the things you like that come out of them. hell, i think edmund mcmillen is a huge dick! he was very actively rude and dismissive towards a friend of mine a while ago when she tried to contact him about a games design class she was in. do i think he’s a good person? ehh, i can’t really judge him on that one interaction i heard about from a friend, but it didn’t leave the best taste in my mouth. i still buy all of his games and the team meat games though, because fucking hell dude’s a good game dev.

i have a lot of mixed feelings on this issue, because it’s something i see come up a lot on the internet. it ESPECIALLY when something becomes very popular, very fast, and it’s possible that people feel it may be unwarranted. i almost feel like in the case of five nights at freddy’s, somebody decided they didn’t like the game, or how popular it was, or whatever, and found the first thing they could attach to the dude who made it’s name and make him sound like a Really Bad Dude. the thing that bugs me about the post that is going around though is that it doesn’t say “don’t buy the game” but instead matter-of-factly says to torrent it or pirate it (i can’t remember which). that’s a fucked up shitty mentality that needs to stop.

anonymous asked:

FFS when you actually need to create a PSA in order to inform people that two characters are not related despite looking almost exactly alike, then you clearly have a casting problem LF. Clearly full stop. Never mind the horrible tone of the PSA.

Yeah the way Pablo and other LF reps have reacted to the theorizing is half of what bugs me, and I say that as someone who was never a big Skymom believer. You can’t tell me Rey Erso was the silliest theory to gain mainstream attention when people thought Luke was Kylo Ren even after we saw Adam without his helmet. Add the diversity issues on top of that - especially with Emilia’s recent casting - and the whole thing reaches impressive new heights in tone deafness.

I know I said complaining isn’t worth it because it will bring more negativity and it’s not really going to change anything because people will still do whatever they want but seriously, I’ve seen too many posts that annoyed me in the ME tag recently, and I don’t feel like reblogging each of them just to say “I don’t agree, here’s why.”
I do have better things to do. But after a while, it keeps bugging me and it can stop me from enjoying the mass effect tag… 
I guess I need to talk about this. I’m not saying this to offend at all. I think I’ll feel better afterwards and I’ll move on.  
So:
- I don’t know who checks the mass effect tag every day but I’m going to assume a lot of people so whenever you use the “mass effect” tag, it’s safe to say you’re broadcasting your thoughts to an entire group of people (and not just your followers). Point is: I and many others will see your posts. I thought everyone knew this but from what I’ve read lately, I’m not so sure.
- Some people are childish and I see them bashing pairings in the tag. It doesn’t reflect well on them. Being passive aggressive about the ships others like isn’t great either. And don’t assume that liking a pairing makes people hate another on principle. It’s possible to like and/or respect all pairings.
- Speaking of bashing in the tag, I am so so tired of seeing people complaining about M!Shep in the tag. I do not understand what people gain from this. What is it to them if some of us like M!Shep? We’re not forcing anybody to play him. Relax and let us enjoy him without constantly telling us we have no taste. Seriously, that’s all I’m asking. And character bashing in general is not cool (bashing not being the same as criticism). Let people like the characters they want to like! This isn’t going to stop you from liking the characters you want to like.
- Fanmade projects mean people have a right to do whatever they want because it’s their project. The artists/creators don’t owe us anything.
- Every time you ask: “why isn’t there more content for (this character) or (this ship)?” you’re asking a great question and I want an answer, but we need to keep in mind that in a fandom we’re all capable of creating content. When I see someone making a fanart of a character, it makes me want to look at my screencaps and make an edit of the character. This is what I like about fandom. We can all contribute and add content. 
- I wish people would always add a complete source to the fanart they post of other artists. Most people do it (thank you!!!) but others forget. That’s too bad because I can’t reblog a fanart if I don’t know the source :/
Adding “it’s from deviantart” doesn’t help at all.

That’s it. I feel better.