people who cheat at all really

Reasons We Hate Mon-El

-He was this big cliff hanger that we were all excited to find out about and we were expecting something really cool (Ex. I thought it may be Krypto) and it wasn’t. It was a bland boring character who was a huge let down.
-He actually fucking said he wanted to go back to his home planet where he could objectify women
-His introduction to the show minimized the role of James, who played a huge part in Kara’s character development and was her love interest for an entire season. The show also wrecked that relationship with little explanation and left Karolsen shippers upset and confused.
-He owned slaves
-Literally all of last season Kara was learning that she was just as important as Kara as she was as Supergirl and the other night her telling Mon-El that having him and being Supergirl was enough. That is an entire lesson going to waste
-He never listens to Kara and goes against what she’s saying and then acts like she should be happy with how he’s acting anyway
-He fucking owned slaves
-He literally has no purpose except Kara’s love interest which not only makes her look bad but it’s a waste of a character who had the potential to be awesome (Ex. Mon-El could have become Superboy and gotten together with M'gann/Miss Martian. But that would have been an interracial couple and as we have learned by now. There’s a limit to how diverse a show can be) but instead he’s a useless and wasted character
-Ahem… he was a slave owner
-wow he’s only been lying to kara from the very start of their relationship about who he really is. straight people have this weird thing with “side hoes” and cheating tho so maybe being a fucking liar is just you guys’ thing idk
-Mon-El is a white man. Not to say that we all hate white men. But look at this little set of math equations I put together to explain:
•Kara+James=Interracial representation
•Kara+Lena=LGBT representation
•Kara+Mon-El=more straight white people with no on screen chemistry???

if I missed anything someone would like to add, please do
(ps mon-el owned slaves)

ok but why is everyone stuck on even cheating on isak bc suddenly someone he used to be friends with has come back??? jonas cheated on his gf with eva and then eva cheats on him in s1… but i see no oneeee at all mentioning that or calling them ‘serial cheaters’ when tbh, yes cheating is cheating but also like the day after even kissed isak, he broke up with sonja.

jonas on the other hand just wanted eva instead of ingrid, broke up eva and ingrid’s friendship. eva cheats on jonas with chris bc of miscommunication, she was upset, kissed chris, and then tried to keep it a secret bc ‘its not like it meant anything’ but then we all know how that ended.

what im saying is that: you only call even the ‘serial’ cheater, even who has bipolar disorder, who has been in a relationship for 4 years with the same person which ended up turning unhealthy, wanting to leave that relationship but was afraid of being alone due to his bipolar disorder. he then meets a boy, finally gets to know him, kisses him and makes sure there’s mutual feelings before they start somethin, goes to break up with his gf around a day or so later bc he had no intention of keeping it a secret from her at all.

not to speak bad of eva and jonas, bc i do love them, but you need some damn perspective bc those 3 situations??? completely different, but somehow even comes out worse when truly, there’s more information on why he did what he did rather than jonas and eva. yeah its no excuse, in a perfect life where even may have not been mentally ill, I’d like to think he would have ended it with sonja long before their relationship got to that point. but he got so used to her, that if she left who would he have??? its not entirely rational but mental illness isnt easy and you really kinda keep anyone who stays around bc the reality? most people dont bother to stick around, its too much for them and then you have to deal with feeling worthless.

so yes, say that even cheated on sonja. he did. but dont suddenly demonize him as this player and this ‘serial cheater’ or as if he goes around fucking everyone that moves just for fun. which psa: bisexual/pan people are not inherently unfaithful, that’s a toxic stereotype that y'all love as well.

all im saying is have some perspective is all. look at both sides and understand how people’s actions are not so black and white.

My dear lgbt+ children, 

Many messages i get on this blog are things like “My family says homophobic things but i’m still in the closet, i don’t know what to do”,

My best friend uses transphobic slurs but how do i tell her that it hurts me without telling her i am trans? I can’t come out yet” 

or other variants of “How to react to lgbt+-phobia when still in the closet?”. 

I’ve been planning to write a letter that answers this question for a while now - but to be honest, i postponed it because it’s a difficult situation to be in and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. There’s not the one golden perfect solution to it. 

Instead, i’ll suggest several different possible solutions as you know your own situation and your family member/friend/the person better than i do. 

Without further bla bla, here’s the list: 

Possible ways to react to lgbt+-phobia when you’re in the closet: 

Example: Person says “I would never date a bi girl, they’re cheaters” 

Educate neutrally: “Bi means you’re attracted to two or more genders, it has nothing to do with faithfulness”, state a neutral fact that dismantles the lgbt+phobic statement without talking about yourself at all

May work best if: the person is indeed just uneducated about lgbt+ topics (rather than downright hateful), is okay with being proven wrong, is not overly suspicious of why you defend lgbt+ people (in case them finding out you are lgbt+ would put you in danger)

Play the “good straight ally” card: “That’s not true, one of my friends is bi and she would never cheat”, out yourself as a supporter rather than a member of the lgbt+ community 

May work best if: the person doesn’t know all your friends/you can easily make up a friend, the person is one of those people who stop being hateful as soon as their victim has a face 

Ignore and change the topic: “Talking about cheating, have you seen the movie You’ve got mail? It’s a romantic comedy, Sarah said it’s really cute but i didn’t watch it yet.”, say nothing in response to the lgbt+-phobia and try to steer the conversation to nicer topics

May work best if: they are too deep down in their hateful views for any of the above strategies to work, defending lgbt+ people would put you in danger

Avoid the person: This is less of a instant response but more a long-term solution that can only work in some cases. Break off the friendship (maybe gently and slowly by spending less and less time with the person). 

Only works if: you don’t depend on them (sadly this doesn’t work with parents you still live with or co-workers in a job you can’t quit)

May be necessary if: their lgbt+ phobia negatively impacts your mental health

Agree and silently think “F*ck you”: “Yeah, i understand!”, just agree and keep your thoughts to yourself

This is a painful thing to do and can certainly negatively impact your mental health but it may be necessary if: them finding out or even getting suspicious puts you in danger

Do you have any other advice? Feel free to add your thoughts/experiences to this post! 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom

Reita and Uruha vs a girl who has a boyfriend and four fuck buddies (Rajigaze 2/17)

Dark Side Mail

Reita (reading mail): “Last time Ruki and Kai were doing the radio, I sent them mail asking for advice because I was meeting one of my guy friends and he told me to come in something sexy, and I didn’t know what to wear. Kai was like, ‘so this is your boyfriend then?’ but he’s not my boyfriend, he’s just a friend with benefits. He has a family, and I have a boyfriend as well, but this guy is a lot more well-off financially, and can give me experiences that my boyfriend can’t, so I hang out with him sometimes. But I don’t consider it cheating, I think it’s the same as just going out to eat. My boyfriend is who I really love; it’s still better than if we were married and I was having an affair. I just want to experience everything I can before I’m married. I guess most people would think it’s bad, wouldn’t they. I have three other [friends with benefits], but I guess I should break it off with all of them and be loyal to my boyfriend? All my girl friends do this too, so I don’t really know the general opinion. Please tell me!”

Uruha: Oh???

Reita:  Oh!!!

Uruha: Oh!!!

Reita: OH!!

Uruha: OH!!!!! This is a cheating bitch isn’t it!!!

Reita: Well…….yep that’s exactly what this is.

Uruha: That’s messed up…

Reita: But she doesn’t feel that way, she thinks it’s no different from just going out to eat with someone.

Uruha: It’s that kinda casual relationship [people have] these days…

Reita: Well this is just how she personally feels about it…

Uruha: And the guy is married too, right?

Reita: Yeah yeah yeah, like I wonder how his wife feels about it…like, the girl is saying it’s more acceptable than if she were married and cheating

Uruha: Uh she is already cheating lmao

Reita: Like I don’t know if I’d call it acceptable…anyway she says most people would probably think it’s bad, what do you think about that?

Uruha: I don’t know, I feel like so many people are doing the same thing, so you can’t really get anyone’s honest opinion about it…people just kind of let it slide, you know? Like, oh my friends are doing it, so whatever.

Reita: Yeah, for sure.

Uruha: That’s how behaviour spreads among the human race. [ALIEN CONFIRMED]

Reita: …Are you mad?

Uruha: It’s the same with drugs.

Reita: Right, drugs, and disease…

Uruha: Oh am I allowed to talk about this?

Reita: Yeah yeah it’s fine

Uruha: Well, I mean, people start doing it because everybody’s doing it, you know?

Reita: Mhm…

Uruha: Mhm…I mean, it would be nice if we could spread good things…

Reita: Mhm.

Uruha: But this….this isn’t good, like…have some self-consciousness.

Reita: Self-consciousness (laughs)

Uruha: Heheheh

Reita: And like she’s doing this with three other people…

Uruha: Well that’s not surprising.

Reita: I guess her boyfriend can’t satisfy her sexually?

Uruha: No I don’t think so…I think she really does value true love…but she’s just getting influenced by people around her…she thinks she needs more [partners]…to you know like…look better? Idk

Reita: Ohh, socially? So she can brag like, I have this many..

Uruha: Yeah, you know, like that…

Reita: Pyramid?

Uruha: No, not pyramid…

Reita: Oh, like Caste?

Uruha: Yeah, like Caste!

this is what they are talking about i’m screaming

if u have no fuck buddies ur a farm worker

Reita: I guess you gotta have more, huh?

Uruha: Yeah…

Reita: When is she gonna stop tho? I mean, she can’t just keep going forever…

Uruha: Hmmm…

Reita: I mean, she has a boyfriend and everything.

Uruha: Yeah….I think when she get’s older, she will realize.

Reita: Yeh maybe…ya ok…..but what I really wanna know is, what did she end up wearing?

(both laugh)

Uruha: Well Kai said she’s not allowed [to wear something sexy] so…

Reita: Oh, if it’s not her boyfriend?

Uruha: Yeah.

Reita: Well, if that guy wasn’t married, I could still see it being kinda okay [wearing something sexy not cheating lol] but since he is, like…there has to be some restrictions, you know…

Uruha: Hmm….yeah….this wasn’t Dark, this was just…heavy…

( change pronouns as needed. )

  • “i don’t even know what’s real.”
  • “fuck it, keep on drowning.”
  • “you see all these chicks, and now your girl ain’t even write back.”
  • “don’t know how to make you feel.”
  • “no one really cares when you talk loud.”
  • “now i’m here, thinking that i messed up.”
  • “and i’m trying to explain it, but you’re never around.”
  • “we don’t pray for love.”
  • “switch up my style, i take any lane.”
  • “don’t want none of your time.”
  • “i only love it when you touch me, not feel me.”
  • “when i’m fucked up, that’s the real me.”
  • “i only fuck you when it’s half past five.”
  • “the only time i’d ever call you mine.”
  • “who are you to judge?”
  • “pacify her, she’s getting on my nerves.”
  • “you like to say that you’re right.”
  • “did it make you feel bad when you cheated on your man last night?”
  • “did i ever cross your mind?”
  • “don’t forget about me.”
  • “i’m no good without you.”
  • “you say you love me, but you act like you don’t.”
  • “someone told me to stay away from things that aren’t yours.”
  • “but was he really yours if he wanted me so bad?”
  • “stop lying with those words.”
  • “some people got real problems.”
  • “i’m only human, after all.”
  • “i like the sad eyes, bad guys, mouth full of white lies.”
  • “you say that you’re no good for me.”
  • “kiss me hard before you go.”
  • ❝  That barely covered vagina of yours deserves better than that. ❞
  • ❝  I appreciate your anger. ❞
  • ❝  Your chief complaint is not that I screwed someone; it is who I screwed. That’s what it’s about, right? ❞
  • ❝  Your issue with us is purely driven by a societal insecurity, not to mention a culturally infused female competition. My heart goes out to you ladies. ❞
  • ❝  My therapist suggested I attend a twelve step program, for recovery from a love addiction and romantic obsession… ❞
  • ❝  I cheated on you. ❞
  • ❝  You’re not an addict. You’re just a whore. ❞
  • ❝  I did let someone put a protein bar up my ass once. ❞
  • ❝  I will straight up murder you if you do not sign this immediately. ❞
  • ❝  I love kids. Kids love me. I basically am a kid. ❞
  • ❝  But I would still choose you. Possibly because you’re uninterested. Most likely because you’re stunning and successful. ❞
  • ❝  Sexual anorexia. It’s like depriving yourself of sex because of low self-esteem, or abuse or other gnarly shit. ❞
  • ❝  I’m telling you, someone’s gonna murder us if you keep screaming. ❞
  • ❝  Was this supposed to be a date? Oh shit, it was… Oh hell. I’m an idiot. I’m sorry, I’m a dick. ❞
  • ❝  You’re a catch! It’s true. You know, I’m serious. You’ve got a strong vocabulary. You look dynamite in a tank top. ❞
  • ❝  You know, little girls are told someday they’ll find The One. What they don’t tell you guys is that The One might be a complete fucking dickhead with a boring heroin penis that turns you all into a sex addict. ❞
  • ❝  Some have suggested that I have a little bit of a problem staying faithful… for long periods of time… or possibly at all. ❞
  • ❝  Look, once I come to the realization that I’m with- the wrong girl, I don’t know how to end it. ❞
  • ❝  So you sabotage it by sleeping with other people. ❞
  • ❝  Then comes the big old rigmarole of like ‘you’re afraid to commit’ and it’s like 'no, I just don’t want to commit to you.’ But I can’t say that, because that’s like mean on top of mean… So instead I’d rather just say something like: 'I fucked your sister.' ❞
  • ❝  Whoa, since when are you a porn star with killer grammar? ❞
  • ❝  Look, she’s my best friend and I would say by circumstance and certainly duration, you would be my next best friend. ❞
  • ❝  It is a cascading shit storm that is your creation. ❞
  • ❝  A tremendous amount of Malcolm Gladwellian logic jumps. ❞ 
  • ❝  We’ll you’ve spent ten thousand hours fucking my life up. ❞
  • ❝  Dude get the fuck out of here, I got it. ❞
  • ❝  I appreciate your concern, Superman! Fly away. ❞
  • ❝  Baby. Just breathe will you. Okay? Will you? Here, come on, sit down. You’re gonna be okay. It’s alright, you just got to breathe. Please. Okay? Yeah. There you go. ___ , this is just fear. ❞
  • ❝  You take this risk when you start sleeping with people. You know, you risk losing them. So for me, I’ve never slept with someone I wasn’t willing to lose. Except one time. ❞
  • ❝  And it kills me that you’re probably gonna go to ___. And it kills me that I can’t ask you to stay, because I have no right to, you know. ❞
  • ❝  Welcome to the hell scape that is my son’s birthday party. ❞
  • ❝  Dude… are you really using your kid to hit on my friend? ❞
  • ❝  First part false. Second part true. ❞
  • ❝  Do not gaslight me with SAT words and sliding scale morality. ❞
  • ❝  You want to tell me about it? ❞
  • ❝  You never told him to make a choice, you know. ❞
  • ❝  Are we in love with each other? ❞
  • ❝  I love you for free. ❞
  • ❝  Unfortunately I don’t sleep with men in relationships anymore. ❞
  • ❝  I stopped cheating anyway. ❞
  • ❝  We’re getting a chance to start over. ❞
  • ❝  Goodbye forever. ❞
  • ❝  Hey, did you know they don’t have a separate jail for cool people who fucked up? There’s just one big old jail for everyone. ❞
  • ❝  I sort of beat he shit out of him. Fucked up his life a little bit. ❞
  • ❝  I just really miss you. ❞
  • ❝  Yeah, I think about you like, all the time. Even the word “think” is wrong, because I don’t actively do anything. You’re just here. ❞
  • ❝  I’d rather fail with you, than win with anyone else. ❞
  • ❝  I love hearing you say my name. ❞
  • ❝  Okay honey, you’re on speaker phone in a police station. Be very careful what you say. ❞

anonymous asked:

Hey, do you know any fics with POC drarry?

Hello anon!!! I feel like I’ve definitely read more POC Drarry fics than the ones I’m about to list, but I’m not sure if it’s usually stated explicitly or if I just kinda always imagine POC Harry by default? Either way, I think we definitely need more POC Drarry and if anyone else has any recs please leave a reply!! :) 

Harry Potter and the Future He Doesn’t Really Want, Thanks. by Seefin (70.5K) It was addictive, the feeling of Draco Malfoy telling him things in a soft voice early in the morning. Harry felt like he was taming a wild animal, or petting a cat that hated everybody else. This train existed outside of time, that was the only explanation Harry could come up with as to why Malfoy was actually having a civil conversation with him right now.
Unnngh, this fic is just so lovely and slow and sweet, and it really transported me! I felt like it was a movie or something??? I don’t know, just it really had #ambiance, just like literally every one of @seefin‘s fics do! I loved everything about it, from Harry’s intrusive dreams of the future, to Luna’s plant-filled apartment where he’s staying, to my brotp Draco and Pansy, to all the random meetings, to LITERALLY EVERYTHING! poc!harry 

Wild by seefin also contains poc!harry and it is fucking amazing as well! You can see my rec for it in this list of slow-burn fics :)

The Devil’s White Knight by angryspaceravenclaw (64.5K)- When Harry wakes up in an alternate timeline–a timeline where Voldemort was defeated long before the first war–he discovers everything is different. His parents, his godfather, his friends–and him. Harry must deal with the consequences of who he would have been if he had been raised by his parents, and figure out where he stands with his casual hook up, Draco Malfoy.
This fic was really interesting!! It’s one of the only “everyone lives” AU fics I’ve ever read! I generally stay away from those fics because it just seems like cheating or something, but in this one Harry retains all his memories of going through the war, so it was really nice to watch him be reunited with all the people he lost! And his relationship with Draco was really compelling as well!! poc!harry

Volunteers by Anna Fugazzi (52K)- Harry, Draco, and a volunteer position that was supposed to be quick and easy.
Soooo this fic doesn’t actually have (explicitly) POC Harry or Draco, but it does have POC DRACO’S WEE LITTLE SON AND HE’S ADORABLE!!! It’s not epilogue compliant at all, and both Harry and Draco have oc sons. The fic is mostly about Drarry volunteering to organize a Beltane festival together, their sons being friends, and them being dads. I just love a good dad fic, okay?!?! And this was the first and ONLY time I have ever seen *ANY* POC Malfoys, and I didn’t realize how amazing it would be until I happened upon it and my heart stopped and I gasped and then couldn’t stop grinning. 

William Nylander #1

Anonymous said: Hiiii :) Can you please do a William Nylander where you guys get into a fight and he thinks you left him but really your phone just died and yall make up? Thanks so much I love your writing! :)

A/N: how is this my first william imagine???? well, hope you liked it! :)

Word Count: 1,358

Originally posted by nymarntthews

“You need to breathe,” your best friend spoke calmly into the phone as you paced back and forth. Between crying, uneven breathing, and swearing at nothing in particular, you figured she couldn’t understand what had you in such a state. But after a few deep breathes, closing your eyes and leaning against the kitchen counter, you were ready to explain why you were calling her like this. 

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How You Met

Harry Potter:

Ofcourse, everyone knew ‘The Boy Who Lived’ and Y/n wasn’t among the people who caught his attention. He is extremely stupid to know the efforts put by her to get to be friends with him. For instance, purposely hitting him on his shoulder and then falling in front of him? Nope. He would just say sorry and continue gossiping with his friends. After a while, she stopped putting any kind of efforts.

But he noticed her only in the Fourth Year when Umbridge ruined everyone’s mood. The new prefects were teasing Y/n and she couldn’t hold it any longer. She snapped and performed a spell that threw the prefect to the other side of the room knocking off someone. That 'someone’ was Harry. He looked..spellbound (A/N - Pun intended xD) While the prefect sprinted off towards Umbridge’s office, you gave a hand to Harry, who was smiling.

He got up and asked, “Aren’t you the girl who once fell in front of me?”

She said nodding “Well Harry, aren’t you the boy who just fell in front of me?” They both laughed and that’s how their friendship started.

Draco Malfoy:

Y/n met him in the third year when she went to buy her books. They talked to each other for some time. He was very proud to be a pure blood and Y/n wasn’t into any kind of blood status discrimination. So she smiled and avoided his remarks.

Later on, she met him again in the train compartment when she sat with him and his friends. Ofcourse the other two friends were like his bodyguards. But when he sent the two to get some food, he was a whole new person. He was very polite and soft in the inside. He pretended to be hard as a rock, but it was just so visible in his eyes that he can be different among the people he was comfortable with.

“You really don’t know how to make friends properly, do you?”

He looked at her and smirked, “How do you know?”

“I can tell. I have been talking to you for quite a while.”

Since then they spent a lot of time together.

Ron Weasley:

Ron was very stupid when it came to some subjects. But chess? He was the best. Y/n met Ron in the first year when it was Christmas and the whole school was kind of empty. Except that there were the Weasley twins, Ron and Harry. All of her friends were home for holidays while she was spending her time here as their family were 'busy’ for some reason. She was quietly sitting in the corner observing Harry and Ron play chess where Harry seemed to lose in every way. Y/n were helping Harry to move the chess pieces through sign language across the table, which Ron seemed to notice after a while.

“Hey this is cheating!” Ron said.

“Ron you are good enough, but atleast give him a chance to win.” She yelled.

And that’s how Ron got to know Y/n, by doing the best thing he can. By playing chess.

Fred Weasley:

No one dared to mess around with the twins. All the people knew how they can prank on them mercilessly. Except Y/n. She was a kind of person who didn’t really care about small things, but if you do something really bad that angers her or embarrasses her, then you shouldn’t really face her at all.

As the twins always did, they were pranking on people and oneday, they decided to prank on her. It was Fred’s idea but George didn’t seem to like it that much. So what they did is that they hung a bucket of water above the door and just when Y/n opened it…she got drenched. It was very much violating for her and she was embarrassed as for a fifth year student, she was physically mature and erm– some undergarments were visible. Her friends quickly helped her to get covered with their robes. Fred realized his mistake and quickly went to her to apologize but instead of getting an 'Its okay’ he received a reeeaally tight slap across his face. The whole floor was quiet.

“WELL I AM SORRY TOO YOU GUYS!!” She yelled and ran back to her House’s common room.

Fred and George never messed with her again, but then they became friends real you see, Y/n could give some wicked ideas BUT with all the precautions necessary.

George Weasley:

George. He was always kind of the one full of puns and surprises. But also a bit shy when compared with Fred. Fred was the immediate with his flirting skills but George was steady.

So the friendship began when oneday in the potions class she hissed at her friend but who was oblivious of the situation. Y/n’s friend was going on a date with a guy and she needed every kind of step ready for her friend. So she wrote on a piece of paper “Meet me in Hogsmeade today before going out with him” and crumpled it and threw it towards her.

But instead, it landed on George. “Merlin’s BEARD!! Why do you have such a bad aim Y/n!!” She cursed herself. When she looked back up, George was already smiling at her while Fred was smirking. This looks soooo wrong. She blushed and decided to concentrate on her work.

After the class, Y/n quickly went to him. But before she said anything George said, “I know it was for your friend but if you feel bored, maybe you could hang out with us.”

“Oh.” She sighed in relief, “Thank you. That will be nice. I thought I had to spend my time alone and bored.”

Well my dear, this was just the beginning.

Cedric Diggory:

He was quite easily very much popular among girls. But Y/n specifically didn’t like boys just because of their looks. For her, if someone has looks equals to 100 and a personality equals to 1, she would not even care to look at him. And this was true that she didn’t treat him different from others either.

She remembered when once she tried to talk to him and he kindly brushed her off, but later was found laughing with his friends about it.

So it all began when she was walking towards the Herbology class. And Cedric tried to run past her but instead, collided with her.

“Watch where you are going!!! Can’t you see??”

“It’s really hard when I’ve got my eyes over a pretty girl like you.”

“Not gonna work on me Diggory. Try harder. Get some personality to show off.” She said turning around.

“I may seem bad but, I am not that bad. Atleast give me a chance?”

Y/n turned around to look at him and smiled.


Oliver Wood:

Oliver was a very competitive guy. From the first year he had a competitive kind of relation with Y/n and she too, didn’t spare a single chance to win. But they had a silent competition and only spoke through their eyes. How it happened? Well it just happened.

But when it came to get selected in the Quidditch team, Y/n lost. That was the first time when she spoke to him.

“Congratulations Wood.” She said.

“Wow, took you years to say it.” Oliver chuckled.

“Shut it.” Y/n smirked.

The competition never really stopped, but it surely created a strong bond between them.


Houses as Classmates
  • Gryffindor: Those witty classmates who always have a sarcastic comment for those annoying people who couldn't care less about school because the bs is too much for them to take silently.
  • Hufflepuff: The friend who you may not have seen in forever but will pick things up with no hesitation as long. The honest and hardworking ones who hate cheaters. Especially the ones who brag about how good they are at cheating.
  • Ravenclaw: The ones who hate group projects because they're simultaneously bitter over doing all the work but also reluctant to give any work to anyone else because you really can't trust them.
  • Slytherin: The ones who seem to not be able to be bothered to do anything but they're actually balancing everything at once and just trying to make it through and please everyone even though they're tearing themselves apart sometimes.
interviewing my gemini friend on the signs


aries: “IF YOU GET ANGRY ONE MORE FUCKING TIME…SHIT YOUR ALREADY ANGRY FROM READING THIS. talking to an aries is not a thing…yelling at an aries is an otherwordly experience”

taurus: “talking to a taurus is like talking to a brick wall. listening to a taurus ……….well that just doesn’t happen. unless its about food…you love food….WE love food”

gemini: “i can say in all honesty…there’s only one good gemini and that’s ME…but i’m not cocky like leo….it’s not cocky if its true…”

cancer: “i only like cancer’s cuz my boyfriend is a cancer….they’re emotional and sad … but y’all mean & bitchy. if you can dish it at least learn to take it”

leo: “i really like leo’s but really hate leo’s. on one hand they can be nice…on the other hand they are only nice to themselves. there’s one leo i like though….only sometimes”

virgo: “mean alcoholics….but i love them…like 80% of the time”

libra: “who”

scorpio: “ok. i mean i know there’s one in particular and like its not like she lies and is a CHEATING FUCKING BITCH who can’t keep her pants on. they’re not real humans…more like slinky’s ….best to push dOwN the stairs ….*continues to angrily rant in bias…*

sagittarius: “sometimes i love you…….jk i’m lying” 

capricorn: “don’t look at me don’t talk to me don’t even think about me, don’t even think about thinking about me, don’t even glance in my direction”

aquarius: “I LOVE AQUARIUS, even tho they’re cocky stupid know-it-alls. usually they’re the only people I can talk to w/out wanting to eat glass. idk i just really like them”

pisces: “fun-filled lollipops triple dipped in pyscho…” 

You mentioned you couldn’t remember it it in another post so here’s the moment in Case 3 where Momo calls Ouma “pure”! 

Thank you so much for providing the caps! I definitely don’t remember every single word or line in the school trials (I’ve watched many of them for hours straight until about 4 in the morning and my sleeping habits haven’t been the best lately), so having screencaps and/or transcriptions always helps a lot!

Now that you’ve provided the caps, I do remember this scene again! Even this early into the game, Ouma loves dropping plenty of hints that he’s not nearly as bad as he’d like people to think.

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Missed Anniversary

Originally posted by imaginesofeveryfandom

Steve Rogers x Reader, Steve Rogers x Bucky Barnes

Length: 1606 words

Warnings: cheating on established relationship, dickmove by steven, only a little of bucky, angsty asf, swearing, reader has gay dads, au af

Your relationship with Steve began not too long after his ‘un-freezing’. It started out with you being assigned by SHIELD, a company whom you had no idea existed at said time, to help him assimilate back into society, or more to the point; into the modern world. You, Y/N Y/L, an accomplished student of history, specifically early twentieth century, had been hired to help Steve’s transition.

It worked well, enough for Steve to be able to go about his life casually (read: until he didn’t freak out at the iPhone).

He asked you out on a date not too long after the first Avengers situation. Almost immediately after he’d successfully gotten in contact with you, founding out you were safe in Wyoming, with your father and step-father, and far away from the havoc unleashed in New York.

Today was your two-year anniversary, and you felt like you were at the point where you wanted to move further with your relationship. He was your boyfriend, and you both had said ‘I love you’, now you were going to ask him to move in together. Steve already spent quite a bit of time at your place, why not make it a bit more?

At this exact moment, you were preparing a beautiful dish, one that your mother made plenty of times before her passing – her famous spinach and ricotta lasagne, with stuffed mushrooms and herbed vegies. It was hard, an arduous task due to your lack of cooking skills, but you wanted to make the best. You laid out your small dinner table, then put on the playlist you’d made, which was filled with Steve’s favourites tracks from the thirties and forties. Smiling, you wondered if you should crack open a bottle of wine for the meal. Despite Steve’s ability to not get intoxicated, he did occasionally enjoy a nice Merlot.

You plopped onto your sofa, listening to the soft crooning of Billy Holiday (a favourite of yours that you’d included on the playlist), and began to wait. Flickering through your Instagram, you noticed that it was ten past seven, and Steve should’ve already been here. You began to frown as you waited. When the clock passed eight, you stood up, knowing that he wasn’t coming.

He’d done this before, though. Steve wouldn’t come to organised events, and while he didn’t mean anything by it (he was usually suddenly called away on a mission, or to the Avengers facility to help), the occasions it happened left you saddened. Sometimes he managed to text you that he’d be late, or at least get word back to you about what was going on. Checking your phone, you noticed no notifications, on any messaging app, so you called him.

“Hello, Steve Rogers, I cannot reach my telephone right now, but feel free to contact me via text messages, or leave a voice message now-” The tone rang, and you sighed, before hanging up. If he was on a mission, he’d call you as soon as he was done.

You just wished it hadn’t been your anniversary that he’d had to miss.

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i really hate people who cheat. You have someone there for you, who thinks about you all the time and loves you and makes you their world, but you decide to ignore that and thirst after someone who dont do even a third of that shit. They make you their sun and you treat them fuckin pluto. 

Things I'd like to see BC do in his upcoming projects...

The Current War; Edison’s dark side. Whilst he wasn’t necessarily a monster, he went for the jugular on Tesla. The underhand dealings, the electrocutions, and eventually the loss to his rivals. And how it really damaged his ego…

Rogue Male: escape after being horribly beaten at the closely-guarded dictator’s house in France, flees into the country, bloodied, broken and near unconscious but still in control of the hunt… and the paranoiac cat and mouse game in the UK countryside. i really hope they make this a contemporary adaptaton. 

The Child In Time; losing Kate in the supermarket (of course). The whole scene from the idyllic early morning near-sex with Julie, tickling Kate’s tummy to the shattering realisation at the check-out and his screaming her name and ending up in a daze. and then waking Julie up to tell her…

Melrose; if Benedict plays the 20-something Patrick (and he should! he easily got away with Hamlet and as the even younger Richard), then the “Bad News” drug days. The circle of abuse is epic. But if not, then the more mature Patrick who slowly and acerbically comes to face how deep his wounds are. Oh and his friendship with Johnny; his best mate. Who needs to be played by James MacAvoy or Dan Stevens please,

How to Stop Time; I don’t know yet. But a time traveller who constantly has to reinvent himself;  has grieved over and over again for all those he has ostensibly lost even his wife, who encounters some of the most famous people in history and who may or may not be running from something and someone. and who realise time can be stopped with “a kiss” - by whom? plus… he’s a history teacher. \o/ and this is a magic realism film so it could be visually really interesting too…

The Man in the Rockefeller Suit; BC as a multi-lingual, suave con man? Who is morally bankrupt and lies and cheats (and charms) his way through decades? Who commands a party and exclusive clubs, speaks several languages, and loves his little daughter Snookie fiercely to the point it ends his ruse. Yes. all of that. 

(and The War Magician; I am more than slightly biased against this movie; it’s BC in another wartime biopic with a RP accent and moreover as magician(!) so tbh I think it’s the last thing his career or his talent needs. So I am not going to comment ;-)


anyway; some random thoughts. because I should be doing a report or budgets or something. 


Dear shipper of great love stories!
Dear POTENTIAL EVAK “trial” shipper!
Brace yourselves, this is a long, but important message to you:

The shippers of SKAM is a very varied fandom. The “Skamily” ranges from 12 to 80 years of age. We are of all colors and genders and we live on all continents. What we have in common is that we have all bonded quite recently over our love for SKAM – especially brought on by season 3 and the stories that were told through Isak and Evens struggles.
And against all odds, EVAK and the Skamily managed to reach the final in the E-online TV-couple 2017 poll, and we are so proud to be competing against Malec in the end game – they are a tough crowd and worthy competitors!

A long the way, we were fortunate enough to be paired up with some very tough competition and beating some very popular couples. We do understand that these ships are important to you, but, we are writing this to be sincere; We are hoping that if you learn a little bit more about SKAM and watch a few of the episodes from season 3, you might feel for EVAK and maybe experience that they sort of represent something in you as well.  I would like to take the opportunity to offer a few important facts about SKAM that may make you want to watch it, and also maybe want to “trial” ship our couple just a tiny bit. Just enough for you to want to vote for them (in massive amounts of course;) in the finale happening as we speak.

1. SKAM is a small low budget production, mainly made for the people of a country with a population of 5 million. Three full seasons cost approx. 1,1 million dollars to produce – a fraction of what larger TV-series productions normally cost. It is produced by NRK - the Norwegian National Public Broadcasting Company. NRK is financed by the people, therefore the price tag on SKAM is a sober one.

2. The actors are real teenagers, with blemishes and all infirmities that go along with that. Most are without any prior acting experience. A few of them are exceptions to this but none of them were well known before SKAM. Also, the SKAM cast is made up of some of the best acting talents in the country. Especially Henrik Holm and Tarjei Sandvik Moe, who play Even and Isak, are raw outstanding talents. They play the difficult and challinging roles of Isak and Even with such force and credibility that one is blown away. We have no other two actors who can act like this in Norway. It’s true.
These are some of the key reasons the SKAM universe is so very believable and relatable to the viewer. We feel them. We are them. No matter our background or where we are from.

3. SKAM is originally made especially for young people (target audience was girls 15-17). But as the subject matters and troubles of the characters are so universally recognizable and relatable the show has become a big hit in all age groups. At first only in Norway and Scandinavia, but suddenly, with season 3, also a big hit in so many corners of the world. And that is because the challenges the characters are confronted with are relatable not only to Scandinavians but to people on a global scale.

4. SKAM is made primarily for watching and following on the internet. It is really smartly integrated and interweaved with the character’s communicating via FB Messenger, Instagram and SMS (texts) in between film clips. Everything is posted in “real time” so you get the feeling that it is happening right now. The concept brings you even closer to the SKAM universe and draws you in. All clips during one week are collected in a 18-30 min. episode available online as well as being aired on traditional linear TV every Friday during the season. Only watching the Friday episode makes you miss out on all the social media communication between the main character and his/her friends and family, but you can still follow the story line by only watching the film clips.

5. Season 3 with EVAK gave SKAM its big break through internationally (due to devoted fans subtitling and spreading the show on their own). Isak and Evens bumpy road to becoming comfortable in their own skin and finding love is about acceptance, tolerance, friendships, support, mental health and a lot of things we ALL struggle with every day, no matter the color of your skin, your gender, your nationality, your age or your religion. It really touched so many people’s hearts all over the globe. There is really nothing more and nothing less to it. All is LOVE as the show states.

Our fragmented Skamily has been faced with claims that we cheated our way through the previous voting rounds. To that we just need to say that we really didn’t. We are just totally ordinary people who found each other online because of our love for SKAM and Isak and Even. This ship is very new and not really an organized one at that. I think that the majority of EVAK and SKAM fans have never shipped anyone before and have no real experience being part of a fandom, this just happened a bit suddenly and we are still trying to get to grips with it. I don’t even think we think of it that way – that we are part of a fandom. We just love EVAK and SKAM. So, where do we go from here over the next few days? As season 3 really touched so many people, that’s why people globally are voting their asses off for EVAK. And, there will in fact never be a new chance for EVAK to win this again because the SKAM concept of every season having its own character that we follow, puts the previous characters in the background and their story is not really a priority. So most likely, EVAK is history by the end of this year.

Now, we would really love for EVAK to win this, and thus show that:
1. you don’t need to bring out the big guns (money) to create a show of quality that touches people.
2. a quality show can come from a small country many can’t really place on the map.
3. a quality show can be in a foreign language (with subs rather than dubbing to make it more realistic) and can teach you about other places, other people, other lives - that are different, but yet sometimes also the same…
4. a low budget production from the other side of the world can stand up to 63 American TV-productions with lots more bucks in their pockets.
5. it’s OK to be different
6. underdogs are lovable too

So, we hope you give EVAK a shot and watch some of the episodes with subs generously offered by devoted fans (see links below). And if you actually think it’s any good (which we are sure you will after pressing play) we would love your support and “trial” ship of EVAK. We know you will not regret it!
And, whoever you decide to give your vote(s) - the coming days and nights will be exiting and exhausting where we all will give our all – on both sides. We respect that everybody will fight with what they’ve got.
So, with no hidden agenda, no ulterior motive, no shame - only LOVE; Happy voting and happy shipping from Skamdinavia!

Alt er LOVE.

Watch SKAM season 1-3 here:

Watch SKAM season 3 Isak+Even here (18-30 min. episodes): 

You can vote as many times as you like, all day and all night if you want.
Please note that you should cross of pics in a Captcha for your vote to count. The Captcha appears when you check the box for not being a robot. If you don’t see the Captcha and only get the green V confirming you have voted, it still might not be registered. So please vote in a browser that shows the Captcha. There are discussions about the importance of the Captcahs going around, but to be on the safe side it is smart to do it.

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+ 2 nice fan videoes:

I’m honestly not impressed with the lack of compassion in the comments of that post about the transman who was only allowed to wrestle women opponents. There were no nefarious intentions on their part, and I’m really disgusted by how many radfems are demonizing this person by saying they just shouldn’t wrestle at all or that their hormones should be counted as cheating.

This person just wants to play a sport they enjoy playing. They tried to wrestle men, but weren’t allowed. There isn’t an obvious solution and the situation is obviously complicated, but the people who should be blamed are the authorities who made these rulings, not the transman. I think we can do better.

I feel like it’s important to point out that some psychological issues just don’t ever go away completely. My sister’s ex husband cheated and stole from her and that messed her up really bad. 10 years later and she’s married to a wonderful guy who would never do anything to hurt her and they have 2 beautiful children but she still struggles with her abandonment/trust issues. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love him or that she doesn’t deserve him.

Now, Emma and Killian have been together for what? A year? A year and a half? Sure, they’ve been through a lot, but that doesn’t mean all their life long issues are solved because of it. People relapse. It’s normal. If everything had been great and Killian just disappeared, I have no doubt she would know something was up right away. But that’s not what happened. They had a huge fight before he left, she even gave back the engagement ring. This is literally Emma’s biggest fear coming face to face with her. She’s hurting, of course she’s going to consider the worst case scenario first. But I have no doubt that she’s going to realise something else is going on.

That’s just my 2 cents. You can disagree with me but I don’t think Emma’s OOC at all. She’s scared and she’s hurting. We don’t think straight when we’re feeling that way. At least I know I don’t.

Also I’m not trying to tell anyone how to feel. Everyone’s allowed to feel however they feel. This is just how I see things.

  • People: The great thing about the Last Five Years is they are both equally to blame. You can’t say the relationship failed because of one more than the other.
  • Me on the outside: Oh, yeah, totally!
  • Me on the inside: I don’t know maybe it was the one who was cheating and trying to force his wife to go to parties she hated going to. Maybe it’s the one who kept neglecting and ignoring his wife to go to these parties. And really he was going to so many parties like all people did was stand around and talk would you not get bored eventually? Can he really not skip a couple parties?
  • People: …I mean Cathy was unsupportive….
  • Me on the outside: uh-huh
  • Me on the inside: I don’t know where you are seeing this other than not wanting to be dragged to parties and wanting her own success which are two reasonable wants. I mean she went to those parties for a very long time and was ignored. Also there was a point where she didn’t want him not to go to parties, just to parties without dragging her along. And she went to his book talks and all those kinds of things so I’m confused where we’re seeing all this lack of support that was apparently just as damaging as neglect and cheating.
no more on the side of the angels

one thing i am really looking forward to in Benedict’s upcoming projects is the moral ambiguity of some of his characters.

we’re used to see BC - with a few exceptions - play essentially good people. awkward, spiky, single-minded and selfish, yes. but at their core, people who are trying to express themselves and build relationships with others around them. 

but christian karl gerhartsreiter (charles rockefeller), and arguably thomas alva edison, patrick melrose and the protagonist from rogue male are all of much murkier constitutions.

gerhartsreiter beats up a government worker, kidnaps his daughter and lies and cheats his way through decades. edison whilst beloved by many, was single-minded to the point of neglecting his wife, contentiously cheated tesla of $50,000 and took part in a brutal smear campaign. patrick melrose - due to horrific childhood trauma - betrays people he loves, becomes a drug addict and is supremely self-obsessed. even the rogue male lead character shows a degree of sociopathy and a marked absence of morality in his initial stalk of the despot. even if historically it will be justified.

i’m glad for these tricky roles not just because we’ll see BC unleash his acting arsenal, but just as importantly he’ll be seen in a different light by the wider public.