people that i love for reasons

Say it with me:
Twice is not just Momo, Sana, and Tzuyu.
SNSD is not just Tiffany and Taeyeon.
Gugudan is not just Mina, Sejeong, and Nayoung.
WJSN is not just Yeonjung, Cheng Xiao, and Exy.
AoA is not just Jimin, Choa, and Seolhyun.
f(x) is not just Amber.
Gfriend is not just Eunha.
EXID is not just Hani.
Red Velvet is not just Irene and Seulgi.
BLACKPINK is not just Lisa.

If you want to like just one or two members, then fine. You do you.
But I am so tired of seeing “girl group stans” trash the other members that they don’t favor. Girl groups already get enough shit from people who won’t even listen to them, they don’t need it from people who supposedly love them. There is a reason that these girls were chosen for their groups and if you can’t see their talent, then cool, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but do not drag them through the dirt. Do not say that they aren’t even useful. Not only is it hurtful, but it’s disrespectful. The girls in these groups love each other and to blatantly scorn them is not only hurtful to that one idol, but to the rest of the group. Think before you speak.

Reasons Why Lance is #Relatable

(I did one of these for Keith so I thought why not?)

  • Loves the rain 
  • Loves his family 
  • Protective of people he met like 20 minutes ago 
  • “I’d recognise that mullet anywhere” 
  • Insecure 
  • Mermaids are his weakness 
  • Loves Keith but also fuckign hates him 
  • Animorphed into a dolphin and caught dirty money in his mouth for a video game 
  • Dramatic™ 
  • Appreciates Hunk 
  • Recognises that Allura is basically a goddess 
  • Makes jokes to hide the pain 
  • Admires Shiro 
  • Does a little dance when he’s happy 
  • M e m e s 
  • [Everyone else rushing to wake up with a blaring alarm going off] *is still asleep* 
  • Excitable 
  • Literally took the full force of an explosion for Coran 
  • Feels like a seventh wheel 
  • [Laser gun noises]

To the ppl who are saying that Emma should know Killian would never leave her:

You know that, I know that, but this is EMMA

Emma whose parents transported her from the Enchanted Forest to the side of a highway. On the day she was born.

Emma who was ditched and discarded by every, single foster family.

Emma whose first boyfriend deserted her. 

Until now, Emma has been left by every person she’s ever loved. Every. Single. One.

She has abandonment issues. 

I mean, there’s a reason she referred to herself as a Lost Girl. 

Believing Killian would likewise leave is her default mentality. People leave. That’s what Emma knows. 

Do I believe that Emma will remain convinced of Killian’s departure? NO. 

Emma will eventually realize that the man she loves –her True Love–has never and will never abandon her. She’ll recognize that something’s very wrong. 

Just give the girl a minute. 

something i’m still so thankful for is the fact that skam didn’t show us people with religious beliefs having negative reactions to isak’s sexuality. sana didn’t reject isak, didn’t even think of doing so because isak being gay wasn’t a valid reason to stop being his friend, it didn’t change how she felt about him. and isak’s mom who seemed to have pretty strong religious beliefs as well also didn’t have a negative reaction, although isak thought she was going to have one. when he texts her to let her know he has a boyfriend, he expects her to be upset about it, tells her “i’m sorry if it makes you sad”. and i think at this point most of the viewers don’t expect her beautiful, loving, positive response. i know i didn’t, not because religious people all react negatively to homosexuality, but because that’s the image we’re always being fed. characters come out and their religious relatives and friends have very strong negative reactions, and they’re met with rejection 

but that’s just not right. it’s not right to lead us to believe that religious beliefs and homophobia and intolerance go hand in hand. it’s not right because there are so many lgbt people who have religious beliefs. and it’s not right because religious people who are indeed intolerant and hateful aren’t because of their religion. homophobia is hatred, and as sana so rightfully said, hate doesn’t come from religion, it comes from fear

One thing I don’t understand is when people thing straight people or cis people should die or everyone is actually somewhere on the “gender spectrum” or everyone is a little gay…

Homosexuality is not normal. It is not a mental disorder, it is not a choice, but no, there is not real biological reason for there to be homosexuals. The vast majority of the population is straight. Humans were created to reproduce and make more humans. Homosexuality obviously does not allow that. I am not in any way saying we need to change people who are homosexuals, we should love and support them like we do everyone else, but trying to make it “the norm” simply doesn’t make sense.

Being transgender also doesn’t make sense. To be on a gender spectrum would imply there are more than two genders, which sadly, there are not. Even genders constructed by people on here all revolve around the two sexes. Gender and sex are supposed to be very closely linked, and in most cases, basically the same thing. I feel that in my mind, I am a guy, and my body does not match my brain, so I want to change my body. That’s not supposed to happen. Only about 0.3% percent of the population experiences the same thing, so yeah, it makes sense for people to question when someone says that the entire population is somewhere on an imaginary gender spectrum. I was supposed to be a woman who was supposed to find a man to do the dirty with and shoot out more humans from my cooch, but instead I’m a man who cannot reproduce, and I’m attracted to women.

I get that maybe lgbt people may feel underappreciated or unsupported, but trying to fit everyone into it is not going to help, it’s just gonna make things weird.

anonymous asked:

This mentality of "you heard the irrelevants, now get ready for Harry Styles, the real artist of the band" is the most disgusting thing ever, the reason why he has the nastiest fans and why people have a hard time swallowing the solo harry pill. I love him as an artist and I think he deserves to do great (obviously better than the others, since he has a proper team and years of solo pushing) but maaaaan, obvious agenda is obvious sometimes.

I know, media are disgusting for a lot of reasons, the way they paint Harry compared to the rest of them despite Harry still has to release something is doing more damages than good. They could have way more people being fans of this if they controlled this speculation and this narrative of Harry vs the others. Not everyone will be able to ignore this constant ‘he’s better than them, they were just doing random songs, Harry is the deal’ attitude if they don’t change it before the release and during the actual promo. 


kirigakure saizo x mc (unnamed)

a/n: another request this is so amazing i’m so unbelievably grateful!! i could seriously cry right now, i love every one of you so much. this one is for @lexiiferr from this list and requested number 14

A life like his is nothing but mundane.

Of course, people are unpredictable, but his own life will pass like the seasons. The ninja of Iga live and die for the same reasons, and he has known his end since his very beginning.

And, yet, somewhere along the way, he found hitches in his life’s plans.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

hello~ You are a very sensible person and I wanted to tell you something that is bothering me a lot these days, now that youngjae is much more handsome (considering what several people have been saying) new stans have appeared for him and this is very annoying because Before hardly anyone paid much attention to him. 😓 i am disgusted

Hello dear,

Oh, don’t feel that way dear. Don’t you feel happy seeing many fans are started to pay attention to our Youngjae and appreciate him? I know it might be difficult for some Youngjae’s fans especially those who have been with him since the very beginning but I think as a fan we should be happy that more and more people are started appreciating Youngjae and acknowledge him in GOT7 after noticing him getting handsome these days though I always think Youngjae is handsome since debut. I said this many times before, that the reason why I started this tumblr was because to help spread Youngjae’s love to everyone so that people will start to pay attention and appreciate his presence and eventually love him as much as I do. You know, when I first started this blog three years ago there were only a few people followed my blog but now my followers are growing each day and that’s because of Choi Youngjae and that makes me really happy.  Before this, I often searched about Youngjae on tumblr & twitter but there were so few mentions about him. It got me really sad because these people love GOT7 but they didn’t pay attention to Youngjae. Honestly, I cried when I saw some fans were saying bad things about Youngjae and back then almost none mentions about protecting him. I’m sure Youngjae knew that he was the least favorite member among GOT7 but he was still happy with the love shown by some fans to him. I still remembered Youngjae said he knew he was ugly in a radio and he always didn’t acknowledge when Nichkhun choose as the visual because he knew he didn’t handsome like the other members that fans love so much. Still, he was happy. You know, after three years I see a lot of changes when it comes to the love showed to Choi Youngjae. Every comeback, I saw many people started to pay attention to him and appreciate him because that the most important thing for me ‘appreacition to Youngjae’. Many fans started to realize that our Youngjae is indeed beautiful not only on the outside but also the inside. He started to gain more fans and he often received praise on his looks & his talents from them. Now, we can see many fans are protecting Youngjae whenever people started saying bad things about him by calling themselves Youngjae protecting squad and honestly I’m really happy. Before I always thought I would fight for our Youngjae alone but now many fans wanted to fight for Youngjae together. I know sometimes it’s hard to accept but maybe you can try to accept it slowly especially when seeing our Youngjae’s happy face when he knows many people are started cheering, appreciated, giving him attention & showing their loves towards him. Don’t feel disgusted dear as we need each other to march on and show our love for our sunshine, Youngjae. I think the beauty of being fans is though we don’t know each other but we are united in hearts and spirits because of one person, Choi Youngjae. I love all my fellow Choi Youngjae fans and I’m deeply thankful for all of you for all the supports and love you gave to Youngjae which I lacked off. I’m just thankful really.

So, I hope I can help change the way you feel dear. I have to stop writing because I can’t stop crying when remembering all those three years. Anyway, Youngjae’s stans fighting. I love you  ❤

Originally posted by defwang

Just because someone empathizes with Oswald doesn’t mean they hate Ed. 

I love both characters equally and I also recognize that they both have flaws & reasons for doing what they did. Neither of them are perfect. Neither are completely justified in their actions. Neither are completely wrong either. 

That’s what makes them so complex. 

Oswald didn’t deserve to be shot by Ed, but Isabella didn’t deserve to be hit by a train either. 

Edward abso-fucking-lutely never deserved all of the abuse and bullying he’s faced throughout his life by people who were supposed to love and protect him. (It can be argued that this pain and abuse helped to make him who he is)

Everyone is in pain. Everyone has fucked up. This is Gotham.

Regarding College AU questions:

I get super stoked to answer questions for it, please ask anything any time! I love to talk about this ‘verse with people! :)

BUT sometimes I don’t answer for 2 reasons: 

1. I’ve already answered the question multiple times (ex. What’s the endgame ship? It’s Mc/Hanzo. )

2. The answer is coming up in future updates and I don’t want to completely spoil it. 

Usually if the asker is off anon I can let them know there’s more info in the future, but when it’s on anon I don’t want to keep clogging people’s dashboards up with a million posts saying “check back later” since there’s no private answering there. So if you’ve asked me something and I never got back to you, I’m really sorry! I’m not trying to be rude, I just don’t have a means of telling you I’m working on something similar to what you’re asking. All I can say for now is thanks for being patient with me!

Also, thank you to everyone who’s sent me such sweet and kind messages, they make me so happy and get me excited to work on stuff. I really appreciate them so much, and I hope everyone who’s sent them has a really good day!

anonymous asked:

He had nothing to promote the past 15 months? And if there was a reason to thank the fans, he ALWAYS did. It was solely band stuff. He didn't thank people for liking AMM or the Dunkirk trailer. He didn't even went to any events, he had no spotlight on him created by him. we don't even know how his promo will be, cause all he did was posting white pics?! He is ALWAYS so lovely to everyone. And SC / IG stories etc, that's not him (I think he'll show more of himself once he is out & more himself)

I completely agree with you x

I notice from @ser-house-of-stone that I am also on BJDrecastpositive’s “evil anti list”
I see all my efforts to be as polite and clear as possible are not appreciated by the pro-IP theft set. I honestly try to be as polite and discussion-oriented as possible so I’m slightly miffed that I’m listed as someone who harasses and bullies people. Though my saying recasting is wrong and harmful is probably considered “bullying” to them since I also see most of my friends on there who are lovely, kind and reasonable people.
I hope that also blocks my other blogs because I don’t want anyone who follows and beleives that blog anywhere near my work!


A collection of mini comics I’m too lazy to color! Clic the images for stuff to read!

1) “hi baby” is something you can actually say to him in an episode! He normally will laugh, but I thought if it was Leaf telling him that he would just. Not be prepared. Also Leaf totally saw Nevra say that to a lot of people (and wink) and thought it was a normal way to say hello!

2) Chrome being angry for whatever reason and Leaf trying to help. They did hear something about petting heads but at the same time Leaf don’t always pay attention to what people are saying so they’re not sure anymore. But hey, it worked! Again, because Chrome wasn’t prepared for Leaf doing that, not that he’s usually ok with people petting him. BUT IT’S LEAF SO.

3 ) Based on the last ep I played. Was like “wow” when he said that cause wanting to help/be useful is everything for Leaf! And couldn’t believe for a second tat they had something so important in common. Also they’re both looked down for being young, push aside, mocked, ALL THE FUN STUFF!

Listen, I love tumblr but I hate how 80% of the people on here like to pretend they’re super woke and know everything about everything just because they read some biased text post with incorrect facts. A good majority of y'all are just bitter, toxic people looking for the smallest reasons to hate things.


I’ve been tagged by the absolutely beautiful and stunning Nikki @thejamesoldier to do this challenge, so here we go! Thank you, babe! <3

I love myself (haha, ok) because:

1. I want to be there for everyone

2. I can make people be happy through my writing and art

3. I can make an impact on people’s lives just by existing

4. People say that I can give excellent advice

5. I dream and believe and for some reason, that works with me

Anyway, I tag (always optional): @buckyslion, @buckys-fossil, @commvnderdamerons, @poe-also-bucky, @thenightmarebeforebucky, @imhereforbvcky, @tired-alpaca, @crappy-camel and anyone else who feels like doing this!

How do I begin? I feel like I’ve always been poly, but I don’t know how to approach the topic with people I flirt with. Is it something I drop at the beginning to get something going, or something I bring up after the goings gotten started? I’m in a difficult situation trying to begin polyamory as a single cisgendered male. Or am I? Any advice I can glean to get the ball rolling? I read the ethical slut, great book, btw. Thanks for being you! And all the work you do!

First, thank you for your lovely compliments, and kudos for doing your homework and stepping into this journey informed! You are right that cis men trying to date multiple people may be up against some mistrust or skepticism - not your fault, but your reputation has been marred by a bunch of other skeezy cis men out there peeing in the dating pool.

The best bet is to have polyamory on the table from the start - that’s one reason I like online dating, because I can filter for people who are also listed as non-monogamous and I can bring it up and check-in about it before putting in the effort of going on a date. But if you’re flirting with someone in person, it’s harder. My personal rule is to bring it up on the first or second date and always before sex happens. Some people will back out on you! That’s okay. Learn to be gracious and honest.

Also, be smart about how you communicate the fact that this will be your first polyamorous relationship, or that you’re new to practicing polyamory. I, and many other polyamorous people, are very weary of acting as “training wheels” for people exploring polyamory. There is a lot of emotional labor that goes into walking someone through their first ride on the roller coaster of polyamorous feels, so be conscious of that. Don’t lie about being more experienced than you are; but don’t treat anyone like they’re obligated to be your polyamorous mentor. Ask for help when you need it, be honest and open, but don’t depend on anyone else to help you process or learn. 

it’s tough to think about how different i am from how i was… i guess i was like that in my old life for a lot of reasons, and im like this in my new one for a lot of reasons too! i think there’s parts of me i miss and parts of me im glad i have now. i wish i could still be angry like i was, firey and unapologetic, but im glad i know how to show kindness and gentleness to the people i love… character development i guess!

anonymous asked:

That kind of double standard, people getting mad about Harry taking out any reference to 1d in his Twitter bio when Liam and Niall did the same ages ago, shows that it doesn't matter the circumstance, some fans are always going to find fault with harry. That's why I can't be bothered by the negativity, it's so irrational and reactionary, but Harry has way more support and love out there than hate and that's what we should be focusing on. Easier to drown out the nasties that way 😂

It really is. And the honest truth is just that, as much as they complain about people hyping Harry up so much, or whining that he’s overrated, the only reason they’re bothered by Harry going solo more than they are with any of the other three is that they’ve place the entire weight of the band on his back. Ironically, they’re doing exactly what they blame other fans for doing; holding Harry at a different level, placing more importance on his place in the band than the other three. It’s hilarious, really. I hope they have fun with that because if they’re mad now, it’s only going to get worse for them.

sorry to all the people who just followed me for art i haven’t been in a real….artsy mood as of late lmao. im constantly tired because of reasons other than this mass effect discourse and im just. idk. tired. need to sleep.

also hell yes i will block people over this discourse and i will feel no shame or remorse doing it. it will save me the energy lmao love yall and sorry again

anonymous asked:

Positive opinion: I love DR3 and have very few complaints with it. It's probably second place in the series for me behind DR1. It's actually one of the reasons I fell for the fandom.

I’m glad that there are still people out there who love DR3. I have been complaining about it alot today because yeh problems. But I did really enjoy it. Especially watching it week after week and the two episodes a week was a very good experience. Also good memes