people probably won't like this one

Hey if we have ever talked one day and then never again or if we are mutuals and we never talked, there’s a lot of chance that 1) i am too awkward to even think about initiating the conversation 2) “they’re so cool i’ll probably bother them” 3) i overthinked everything and think you somehow hate me (see n°1)

I think what I love most about Laurent and Damen together is that they don’t lose themselves, they become more like themselves instead. They become more like the people they were supposed to be. just because they’ve finally found the person who loves and accepts and sees them for exactly who they are. 

The ongoing fight between gay and bi people over whether a certain historical figure was gay or bi is making me lose faith in all of you, seriously. There is no certain proof for either of these options as far as we know, can you not accept that?

  • ran: ok so who else in here knew about this? about conan's true identity?
  • heiji, sera, akai, that one guy who suspiciously looks like akai but certainly isn't, ai, agasa, that blond kid who is always with sera, probably amuro, kaito kid himself, lupin the third and his whole crew, akemi miyano from her grave, shinichi's parents, vermouth: *raises hands*
  • jodie, takagi, a whole lot of other people: well i mean i did suspect, it was kinda obvious and-
  • ran: *ready to murder*

Just felt like drawing some vent..

Hopefully I will get my shit back together heh.

Wish I wasn’t so fucking sensitive haha

See, this really makes me want to write a fic about Heiji being abused by his dad and like people a few people know but no one does anything because his dad is the freaking Police Chief and basically untouchable. After this incident (maybe later idk), Shinichi finally figures it out but he doesn’t know how to help especially since he’s currently like 6 years old.

I just totally appreciate

when someone reblogs one of my edits and tags it as “why not”. It Definitely doesn’t feel like a douche move to pull, like they are somehow reblogging it as a form of pity. Nope don’t get that feeling.  And of course I prefer that they choose to tag something like that instead of not tagging at all. Real sweet! Having the best morning.

anonymous asked:

Hey😆 I've been amused by your exchanges with all the anons but also a bit baffled. Your saying that all Robert wants is for Aaron to feel content and happy. I agree but one of the main things that's stopping him from feeling that currently is Robert endlessly lying to him. But it sounds to me like u don't want Robert to stop lying. Am I misinterpreting what your saying?

in an ideal world, robert would never lie to aaron and aaron would never have to worry that he was being deceived. only, this isn’t an ideal world, robert might be trying his hardest to be a better person but that doesn’t mean he can be honest at every turn (no one can, we all lie at times even to the people we love most… especially to the people we love most) and tbh, even if robert did magically become the most honest man in history, it wouldn’t actually solve any problems. aaron would still feel like robert was lying to him, would still worry he was being betrayed.

imo, robert isn’t ‘endlessly’ lying to aaron, in fact i’m genuinely quite surprised at how honest he’s been over the past few months, he’s surpassed my own expectations. he has told lies, but the majority of them have been because robert didn’t want aaron to be needlessly paranoid, he was trying to spare another argument which would naturally lead them back to the crux of the issue - aaron doesn’t trust robert. neither of them want to face that, it’s why they keep going round in circles, and it’s why it all came to a head before aaron beat up kasim. 

i suppose i can just understand why robert’s lied at times to aaron, i empathise with him in fact, and i think the situation is far more complex than the idea that if robert stops lying then that will magically make aaron happy.

okay let me tell you a thing about Bee from Bee and Puppycat. She is Chubby. I like her like that. I love that there is a character around my size who loves food and no one punishes her for it. In the show at least. Because the world is full of shitstains, a lot of the comments on YouTube were about how awful it was that she was not skinny. How terrible would it be for little girls to look up to a character these people did not personally want to fuck. But I could take that. I mean it’ll piss me off but I can take it. What r e a l l y bugs me is how many artists have to draw her skinny. And don’t tell me it’s “artistic choice”. Because Bee’s chubbiness is important. Because here’s a character I can look at and be like “yes here’s a character who looks like me. Who I can cosplay and imitate and maybe not feel like I have to constantly suck in my gut or track my food and diet.” And while 21 year old me can handle you turning a chubby character into what you think she should look like, 13 year old me – who hated her body so much she tried to forcibly tear herself from it – cannot. So please: don’t fatshame bee or draw her skinny, because there are little kids who deserve to have a character that makes them feel comfortable in their own bodies. Idk how coherent this all was but whatever. I needed to get this out

imagine that since war boys revere the Immortan so much there’s probably a few of them who are highkey rictus fans, are extremely gay for him, & jump at any chance to even make eye contact with him

unfortunately(?) for them rictus is probably one of those people who goes in looking like they’re about to high five you- but dab instead

I’ve been stewing all day thinking about this and I figured I would get my thoughts out. I’m sure there will be people that disagree with me and I’ll probably get a lot of hate for this, but I still feel like it needs to be said. If it it helps one person, then I did what I came here to do.

I’ve been seeing a lot of posts and replies and messages from people saying that Calvin is doing all of this because he loves/misses/regrets breaking up with Taylor and that he doesn’t know how to handle it/channel his emotion/cope/etc. I’ve seen others defending Calvin’s behavior, saying that Taylor started it/deserves it. Still, I’ve seen others cheering Calvin on for behaving the way he has over the past couple days (and weeks, arguably, if we are to include the instagram posts and twitter posts when Hiddleswift was first made public). While I understand wanting to defend your fave, there is a distinct line that should not be crossed and, in my opinion, it has been crossed in this situation ten times over.

What Calvin has done is not only rude, manipulative, and uncalled for, but absolutely emotionally abusive. He has taken a situation where Taylor has virtually said nothing on the matter, and turned it into a Taylor Swift bashing party. He has turned himself into the ultimate victim. 

With that said, I’m not being naive Taylor Swift fan, as I’m sure plenty of you are dying to accuse me of being.I’m aware that Taylor has flaws just like the rest of us. I’m sure she had her part in this break up and am in no way blaming Calvin for their relationship falling apart. However, I am blaming Calvin for his behavior after the fact. 

Let us start with the instagram comments. He felt the need to get his story out there without Taylor having said a thing. He claims she controlled the media, while the only confirmed media source we saw was People magazine when the break up was announced, which claimed it was mutual. He tweeted that it was as well, so we have no reason to believe that, at that point, the break up was not a mutual decision. They seemed friendly, as exemplified by the instagram like shortly after the announcement. As far as I can remember, there were no damaging articles written about him, other than opinion based articles from bullshit sources. Now, I’m not one to believe “a source close to Swift/Harris”, so I’m not going to drag in the numerous articles bashing Taylor that supposedly came from Harris’ camp. 

However, Calvin made it so that I didn’t have to. He spoke openly about his ongoing beef with Taylor. He made comments such as “I’m free”, making it seem as though she was controlling. He made comments about her being calculated. He made comments portraying her as manipulative. He painted himself as the victim in what he once claimed was a mutual decision. 

Moving on to recent twitter activity. After remaining silent on her split from Calvin, Taylor confirmed she had written “This Is What You Came For”. ALL that was confirmed was that she had written the song. She didn’t bash Calvin. She didn’t accuse him of forcing her to keep the secret. She simply came forward with the fact she had written it. While I can understand Calvin’s frustration, as he was apparently blindsided by her admission of this, what I cannot understand or excuse is the comments he made regarding Katy, her new relationship, and her character. 

Here is a man who knows this woman’s every insecurity. He knows what makes her tick. He knows what hurts her. He was in a relationship with her for fifteen months. He loved her as she loved him. And what does he do? He turns around and uses every insecurity he knows he can use against her. He attacks her character, he attacks her as a business woman. He makes out as though when she’s bored, she finds someone to drag down. He uses the fact that so many people dislike her because of a distorted view the media has placed upon her as serial dater, Regina George in sheep’s clothing to his advantage, knowing that if he says what people already think, he’ll only be “confirming” their beliefs. He knows that she can’t speak out against it, because it’ll only make the situation worse. He knows she’s already getting flack for her relationship and can’t defend herself without being told it’s fake. He knows how long she’s been fighting the reputation other’s have placed upon her. He attempts to guilt her for her new relationship, for moving on, as if she’s somehow done something wrong by being happy when he’s so miserable. 

Yet all I hear is that he’s upset. He’s sad. He’s having trouble moving on. He still loves her. And I’m here to tell you that that isn’t love. You don’t intentionally seek to harm someone you love, emotionally, in their career, in their love life, no matter how upset and hurt you are. You don’t attempt to destroy their image because your feelings are hurt. 

This man is 32 years old. STOP saying he doesn’t know any better. STOP saying he can’t help it. STOP making excuses for him. Feeling hurt, angry, sad, upset, jealous, etc.  Those are ALL valid feelings to feel during and after a break up, whether or not your ex has moved on. He is entitled to feel those things. It is his behavior which is inexcusable. It’s not romantic. It’s not cute. He knows how to behave like an adult. Being upset and hurt and still loving her are not valid excuses OR explanations for what he has done recently. STOP acting as though he is a child. He knows what he’s doing. He knows that it’s wrong. But because there is a HOARD of people standing in his corner saying things like “Poor man, he’s just so sad, he’s hurting. He doesn’t know how to handle his feelings. This is how he copes, let him cope the way he needs,” he is going to CONTINUE to act like this because these people are PERPETUATING  the belief that it is okay for a man, for ANYONE, to tear another human being down because their feelings are hurt. 

We have GOT to stop perpetuating the belief that this is normal break up behavior. This is NOT normal. This is NOT acceptable. This is ABUSIVE. This is HARMFUL. This is DAMAGING to every young person, every woman, who believes that someone who “loves” them will show them that by behaving in a destructive way, whether to themselves or to another person. It is NOT normal to try and garner the sympathies of others by using another person’s insecurities, relationships, past, etc against them. It is NOT normal to publicly humiliate someone else because your feelings are hurt. Do not let ANYONE tell you otherwise. It is manipulative and destructive behavior, and the fact that there are people willing to stand behind him and hashtag “TaylorSwiftIsDoneParty” while he all but ENCOURAGES it, yet tear a woman down for claiming credit on her work, the fact that SHE Is the one being called a snake while a grown ass man sits behind a keyboard and singlehandedly attempts to destroy her career because he is bitter and jealous and upset is what is wrong with this society. And if you continue to defend him, if you continue to stand behind a man who has shown nothing but animosity and pettiness since a break up over two months ago, you are part of the problem. 

I drew another picture
It is asexuality awareness this whole week so please Be Aware! And maybe beware, in case an asexual near you might be dying all your cakes purple (or something like that)
You can maybe meet one who wears a black ring like mine, except usually on a right hand (middle finger) instead of round a neck!

Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil.
—  James 4:13-16, Boasting About Tomorrow

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“Finally, I was starting to think no one would show up.” Sybil breathed out in relief as she stood up. She had been sitting for barely an hour in the yard, but was already bored out of her mind. “What’s with people these days sleeping their lives away? There’s no fun in that.”

i just figured out a win-win situation for the whole tag :)

1) james nominates shelli and clay

2) shelli wins the veto

3) james puts up austin as the replacement

everyone will be happy because sixth sense will lose a number, austin won’t make jury, shelli will have no reason to expose becky, shelli is still a huge target because of her comp wins, vanessa is safe (that one is for myself + the other 4 people that like her), and steve+john go by another week unscathed

Danielle Campbell appears to have the lowest billing of the regular cast members on the Originals - a low-buzz show on the CW. No shame to her everyone has to work.  But I think it’s a good sign that no-one more high profile was prepared to stunt with Louis. That could just be because he’s supposed to have got someone pregnant - but it’s probably because he’s coming out.

silverwings104  asked:

Damn I've sent you quite a few of these LOL hope you don't mind "^-^ Using the sexual response cycle, what do you think Fushimi's resolution phase would be like? If you don't know what it is, tl;dr after an orgasm the person will be brought to a very vulnerable state and people's resolution phases can be drastically different, some will have a sense of euphoria, some will be brought to tears (or close to), panic attacks etc. + assuming sarumi how would Yata react? Thanks <3 you and this blog

The first time they have sex I could see Fushimi leaning more into the panic attack stage, because he’s in a vulnerable enough state that he can’t really keep all those usual walls in place that he uses to protect himself normally, like for once he’s actually feeling all these emotions and even though they’re largely good emotions he just has no idea how to handle them. Particularly going with the ‘dorky virgins’ headcanon, it’s the first time Fushimi’s ever let himself be touched by someone like this and Yata’s being all loving and intimate with him and Fushimi just can’t even quite deal with this sudden rush of feelings, like he’s happy and he’s nervous and he doesn’t know how he’s supposed to react in this kind of situation and all that piles up on him all at once in the aftermath. So Yata meanwhile is probably more in the ‘sense of euphoria’ state, he’s all content and snuggling and suddenly he realizes that Fushimi apparently can’t quite breathe. Fushimi probably kinda pushes Yata away as he sits up and tries to just even out his breathing. Yata’s all worried and wanting to know what’s wrong and Fushimi just shakes his head and stumbles out of bed towards the bathroom. Yata follows him and ends up sitting there for a while on the floor rubbing Fushimi’s back and trying to calm him down. Afterward Yata’s probably all confused, like what was that about, and Fushimi tries to avoid answering. Eventually he manages to somewhat awkwardly explain that, basically, he loves Yata and doesn’t know what the fuck he’s supposed to do about it and Yata’s like you know that’s not something to be worried about right. Yata’s extra careful the next time they have sex though, especially afterward because he doesn’t want Fushimi to spiral into another panic attack. Eventually once Fushimi’s accepted his feelings a bit more and gotten more comfortable being with Yata I think he’d be maybe a bit clingy in the aftermath, like he just curls around Yata and won’t let go and Yata always just rolls his eyes a bit and smiles as he tries to get used to sleeping with his boyfriend cuddling him like a stuffed toy for the next hour or so.