people need to stop being shitty

anonymous asked:

No, it's fine to criticize white people as individuals when they do shitty things, and even certain subsections that also do shitty thing i.e. Republicans . But you speak about them like they're a collective group working towards some common goal. That the mere act of them being white is tantamount to creating a net minus in the world. As if they don't have individuals lives, with their own goals, but rather as a cancer, corrupting the world. 1/2

There’s always been this joke going around about how white people put an unrealistic expectation on Islamists by saying they need to tell others to stop using the Quran to justify violence. And I agree with this entirely, it’s completely unrealistic expectation. However, there are many white people who fight for those less fortunate than them, but they’re also powerless when put against this century old system. Should we just say fuck them? They’re not doing enough. 2/2

white people as a group benefit from whiteness. muslims as a group do NOT benefit from extremism and we are in fact hurt by it, so thanks for the false equivalencies.

why the hell do you expect me to put emotional energy i already have a limited supply of into holding white people’s hands and cooing softly that it’s okay, i know they’re not one of the bad ones, and give them an out when it comes to examining their own prejudice?

you’re a lot less anti-racist than you think you are if you don’t understand this simple concept: people of color can hate white people if they want to! i can express frustration and distress and resentment towards groups that have destroyed or been complicit in the destruction of everything i care about.

maybe go outside if you want messages about how great and wonderful whiteness is.

Problems with the Witchblr Community

There are some serious fucking problems occurring on this website, like:

  1. Peoples’ grimoires are way too artistic. Like seriously you all need to tag that shit like “hey this may trigger you because this Van Gogh beautifully-crafted art style might blind you and gush your morality with its beauty and cause your perspective of your own grimoire/BOS to wilt like a flower on fire”. I don’t take the time to even update my BOS, never mind decorate it with these gorgeous illustrations.
  2. The quality of pictures are way too high. I don’t know where people are getting all these professional cameras. Like I take pictures with my phone or shitty Samsung and post them, and I know I wouldn’t even reblog that shit, the quality is way too low. This results in a standard of high quality Instagram-worthy pictures that is too high for me to keep up with, y’all need to lower your photography skills.
  3. Peoples’ altars are too perfectly positioned in the sunlight, like bathing in the holiness of the sun or moon and washing any of vestige of mortality away from that spot. This kinda weaves into the photography complaint but basically, y’all stop being so artsy.
  4. Digital sigils are too easily and perfectly displayed. I don’t know how people make those sigils, it’s like an elusive angelic society that just sprinkles down talent and useful spells like falling stars. Seriously y’all need to post a how-to on that shit because I don’t have a tablet and just take pictures of hand-drawn sigils, but even those who post their hand-drawn sigils draw them incredibly better than I draw my sigils. 
  5. The witches on this site are way too creative. They’re all thinking of tips and techniques I never thought of before, and it makes everyone else feel dumb because they didn’t think of them first.
  6. Pretty much every witch on this site seems to have a green thumb. They say taking care of plants doesn’t require a green thumb, but I beg to differ because pretty much every plant I own dies. Like I don’t know if it’s because I’m a death witch and am literally radiating death energy, but I can’t keep plants alive for my own life. Green witches gotta share their real secrets, HOW are you keeping your plants alive.
  7. Then there are some problems like elitism, transphobia, homophobia, racism, nazism, blatant disrespect for peoples’ religions and cultures, the hatred with which we argue, and the fear that I’m always being scrutinized and that no matter what I say extreme SJWs will cherry-pick the things I say and misconstrue my argument into something i never said in the first place so i might as well just not even say my opinion on anything which i’m doing right now so i’ll just shut up and continue the joke
  8. The spooky and ethereal Witch Aesthetic™ is too on point. All the hanging herbs and lit candles and smoke from incense are too entrancing and immediately calm my mood and cause me to daydream about the eloquence of the witchy aesthetic. It’s too romanticized. It causes me to enjoy my own craft too much, and I reblog too many of them. We need to cut those down by a bunch.

Just had to get that off my chest.

  • Book!Jace: Arrogant, giant jerk, Superiority Complex(TM), no real character development, barely even remembers he has a parabatai. Has potential with his backstory but is reduced to the Hot Guy (TM) and is there to fuel a shitty incest-fantasy.
  • Show!Jace: Soft, gentle, doesn't want to hurt anyone. His parabatai bond with Alec is actually explored, he cares for the people he loves, immediately stops being romantic towards Clary once he thinks she's his sister. Actually has a character and a storyline that shows how his abuse has affected him without being a giant asshole. Needs a nap, multiple blankets, and a big hug.

Zelda in BotW is an amazing character. If I had to make a list of the 10 best characters in the LoZ games, I have a hard time imagining she wouldn’t be on it. And nearly everything I’ve seen from other people who have played the game has been bursting with positivity and appreciation for this Zelda. 

However, I’m unfortunately not surprised to have eventually run across someone calling her “a miserable cunt” and a “shitty little shit bag” who is “demoralizing [Link] into oblivion” with over 100 people liking/reblogging their post. 

There are a couple of things to say in response to this. For starts, Jesus christ calm down. It’s wild to me how ready people are to hate characters for almost anything (and it overwhelmingly happens with female characters–jeez I wonder why). And second, did we even play the same game? Because you know what the WORST we ever saw Zelda acting towards Link was? 

That’s… that’s it. She told him she didn’t need an escort and shouted at him to stop following her. And this wasn’t just the worst that Zelda ever acted towards Link. It was also the ONLY time we saw her shouting at him or being mean to him. Was it rude/crummy/something Link didn’t deserve? Totally. Was it her being ~a miserable shitty little shit bag cunt that fucking destroyed Link’s sense of self worth~? Hell no. How the hell do you extrapolate THAT MUCH out of such a small scene? 

Just to help paint a larger, and more negative picture of Zelda, let’s talk about another memory. In the first memory, which was of Zelda preforming the ceremony to appoint Link as her knight, Zelda was acting very clearly depressed during the whole thing. That would have conveyed to Link how unhappy Zelda was with him being her knight, which would have surely made Link feel shitty. So there, that’s something else people who hate this Zelda can point to. But you know what? If you want to analyze things like this, Link also made Zelda feel shitty. Oh, sure, we all know that Link made Zelda feel shitty because of her own insecurities about being a failure of a royal princess while Link had successfully become the master of the Master Sword. But Link’s own behavior also made Zelda feel shitty. We saw in the third memory that Zelda would try to talk normally with Link. Talking casually and cheerfully about making adjustments to one of the Divine Beasts because that’s what she was passionate about! But Link… would never say anything back in response. He was silent. He was her appointed knight, but he wouldn’t even talk to her when she tried to talk to him. In fact, at that point Link had NEVER spoken to Zelda, as she expressed in her diary 

Imagine if their situations were reversed, and we saw Link talking to Zelda and Zelda refusing to respond to him and just staring at him with a blank expression–and then Link wrote in his diary about how stressful that was for him and how it made him feel like she thought he was a failure and hated him. The people who hate BotW Zelda would be jumping on that as an example of what a bitch Zelda was to Link. Even though when Link did it to Zelda, there’s no problem whatsoever apparently. Link was just a smol little precious angel that was cowering beneath Zelda’s “toxic belittling and dominance,” as one person described it. 

(And real quick… you know who was ACTUALLY “belittling” and “demoralizing” Link? Fucking Revali. You know, the guy who would walk right up to Link and go on a giant, passive aggressive and mockery-filled rant at Link about how he’s better than Link and Link doesn’t deserve the expectations that others have of him. I still think Revali is a solid character because it’s good to have a diverse cast with varied personalities and different relationship dynamics with each other. But for crying out loud, how is anyone going to hate on Zelda for how she acted towards Link early on when Revali was there being a straight up dick with 0 tragic character motivation behind him to make us sympathetic to why he acted like such a wad?) 

Of course I don’t believe that Link deserves any hate for being silent around Zelda for so long. Just like how I don’t believe that Zelda deserves any hate for the way she acted towards and felt about Link in the early memories. They were two youths who had the weight of the world placed upon their shoulders. Link’s ability to express himself was crushed by the weight of the expectations and judging eyes of everyone around him. Zelda lost her mother, was denied expressions of love from her father, was terrified that she was a failure who would doom the world to destruction because of her inability to access her powers, and was was stuck with a successful, brilliant knight who she assumed hated her and had no way of being told otherwise because HE WOULDN’T EVEN TALK TO HER. 

But despite all that the two became close. Link saved Zelda’s life. Zelda reevaluated how she thought of him and even apologized for her past behavior 

Zelda made an effort and kept talking to him, trying to get him to open up to her. And eventually he did, and she was able to learn the reason why he wouldn’t talk to her, or anyone, in the past. They traveled together. She examined his wounds after battle. They went out to collect specimens in the fields together. Zelda tried to get Link to lick a frog in the name of science. Link taught Zelda how to bond with her horse. They saw their home fall to Calamity Ganon and learned of the deaths of their family and friends. Their world collapsed. They fled. They defended each others’ lives, each saving the other. Zelda spent 100 years suffering alone to contain the abomination that destroyed their land while Link recovered from the injuries he gained protecting her. They fought together again. They freed Hyrule from 100 years of darkness and set out once again to rebuild their kingdom together. 

But yeah. Zelda was such a cunt, right? 

I mean, you can’t please everyone. That’s just to be expected. People are different. People have different attitudes and values, and like and enjoy different things, so there’s no piece of media that everyone will have the same thoughts and feelings on. It’s like how on the Nintendo eShop, BotW for the Wii U has 4719 five star reviews… and 21 one star reviews. You can’t please everyone. But again, jesus christ some people are just ready to violently hate Zelda for having extremely well developed character flaws and a rocky start to her relationship with Link that was the result of both of their individual issues clashing and preventing them from connecting and understanding each other even though they both felt nearly the exact same way. And even if you want to insist that everything bad about their early relationship was 100% Zelda’s fault alone, I wonder how Zelda could possibly make up for it… maybe putting in the effort to develop a very positive relationship with Link, saving his life just as he had saved hers, and spending 100 years in Ganon Jail would be enough to make up for it? 

…nah. You’ve got to imprison yourself for at least TWO HUNDRED years to make up for telling someone to stop following you one time. Totally. 

Mean Astrology: The Moon Signs

~Trigger Warning~

These came out a little…. meaner than anticipated. It’s downright cruel and will feel personal, though I promise you it’s not, but remember to TAKE IT LIGHTLY and if you can’t do that, think of it as something to avoid/learn from.

Aries: Your default setting is angry, it’s toxic and dangerous and no; that’s not as hot as you think it is. You’re selfish and uncaring even with the people you love. You lie when you get bored so you don’t have to deal with anyone else’s feelings. You are an undeveloped child who has to grow up and realize you hurt people and then expect them to forgive you because you’re a wounded child.

Taurus: You shut everyone out, don’t let them know. But then you expect them to bend over backwards for you; they’re not mind-readers! You complain about everyone being selfish and how no one ever “cares about ME” but whenever someone tries you act like you’re completely fine! You’re a hypocrite and you need to change your own fucking ways for once. 

Gemini: Just because you don’t understand how to process your emotions doesn’t mean everyone else does, you suppress your feelings until it comes out in a tirade and you throw it all at people close. You’re smart, and you cut with your tongue. You see through people, see their most sensitive weaknesses and you will throw it all back at them when emotions rise, no matter what they mean to you. You need to learn you can’t take back what you say no matter what you do. 

Cancer: Fuckboy. You’re so basic, you think you’re so thoughtful and kind-hearted but the truth is you are so self-absorbed in your own shit and unable to perform emotional labor for anyone else, that you forget that saying you’re kind and understanding and being kind and understanding are two very different things. 

Leo: You are like the stereotypical toxic masculinity-form of emotional stability. Like you don’t have to act like a suburban dad who doesn’t know how to act when their daughter cries so you just don’t deal with it, it’s okay to cry and be soft. And to purposefully ignore other peoples’ hurt just because it’s easier not to deal with it? It’s downright shitty. 

Virgo: You are the first one there whenever anyone needs you, and you always do your best as you always need to be relied on, but emotions aren’t logical. Not everyone feels better by breaking down their emotions and realizing how nonsensical they are. People don’t need to hear they don’t make sense, they probably already know. You need to accept that not everything is logical, and it’s almost never the solution in matters of the heart. Also, stop being so goddamn hard on yourself it gets old.

Libra: You are a case of “the grass is always greener” you are never satisfied with what you have, what you feel. You throw away friends once you feel you’ve found better ones to prioritize but you aren’t honest with them, you pretend you’re still all in but you don’t do anything but let them drift away. You cheat but you will never understand you’re not becoming a more accomplished person by throwing away genuine though imperfect people. People aren’t corporate ladders. 

Scorpio: You are a mess of trust issues and insecurities but you’re so obsessed with control you don’t let yourself work it out, you don’t share it. You eat up emotions all around you but try to never feel your own. It’s barbaric and stupid. You let it culminate into self hate and anger, and you have a hard time forgiving although you would never share that out loud, you lie to people instead. 

Sagittarius: You are an emotional rollercoaster, while your default outward expression is of peace and philosophical understanding, when the goings get tough you go from 0 to 100 way too fast, with any and all emotions. You need to realize that just because you feel things like a flamethrower, it doesn’t mean other people don’t feel the world on their shoulders too. You just go through it faster and don’t always share until it comes out antagonistically. 

Capricorn: We get it, you feel like you had to grow up fast, be tough; never let anything take you down.But sometimes you have to realize that being tough is a two-edged sword; yes you feel stronger, but that means you don’t always let people in, don’t always act vulnerable and soft. You can’t dissociate from your loved ones when the goings get tough, you have to take down your walls; not be angry or simply not there.

Aquarius: You can’t just not process emotions and state that you’re a beacon of true mental health, it doesn’t work that way. And just because other peoples’ emotions make you “uncomfortable”, doesn’t mean you get to walk away from them. It’s uncomfortable because you beat that shit down so fast that you never realize its value or necessity and you do it to others just as much as you do it to yourself. Let feelings happen, you can’t deal with it by being up in arms.

Pisces: You manipulative assholes, you are not as wise as you think you are. You use other people’s emotions as toys until you get bored with them then press the self-destruct button and assume the role of the victim to make everyone feel bad for you, even though you’re to blame. You’re good with your tongue but you’re not smart enough to pull your games off. And if you keep them up? You will be alone just as you secretly fear.

You all need to know

Hey folks, I hope you’re doing well! Today 30th April is my bday and I wanted to share some important thoughts with you all. Things I want you to know. Feel free to skip this tho, I’m just being grateful and deeply sincere here <3

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I really think that the author doesn’t make the book, your imagination does. Just because JK Rowling says that Hagrid’s a Gryffindor, or Sirius is straight, doesn’t mean that Sirius couldn’t have kissed half the men in London and, hell, if you want it to be that way, Hagrid could be a Ravenclaw. So don’t get upset because you think she was wrong, she’s right in her own version, but some people need to learn to make their own, and stop being shitty about it.

Garish Room #28 [2017 ver. member A to Z case of Reita] part 1

- Actor (favorite actor / actress, own acting ability)

Reita: She’s not an actress, but I like Miranda Kerr (laughs). Since she’s the only one who I follow in my instagram, I think it was a crux for fans. And about me, for example, in a video, although there is required acting skills, for me it is completely unthinkable. Many years ago we discussed to stop acting by ourselves. If this is a photoset, then this is self-evident, but if to imagine yourself in a role…I’m quite a bad actor. At the time we created the video [MAD MARBLE HELL VISION], they told me “Get smeared in blood, making something like moans". And I answered: “No, could you take a little pity on me?” (laughs). It’s so embarrassing. But if my partner was an actress, then I would have thought about it (laughs).

- Baby (when you behave like a child)

Reita: When I can’t find things, I’m very angry. I am known for having such a character that I never get upset, but at such situations I can’t be helped. Even searching in the drawer, at first I quickly view everything, but if I can not find, then I throw out all the contents from it. Although I actually lose things easily, I created such a public image, as if I don’t lose them, but it seems that here (in this article) it will be destroyed (laughs). Well, basically, I’m in the places where there are no messy boxes.

- Christmas (memories of christmas)

Reita: This is a story I didn’t tell on the radio. When I was about 6 years old, my parents divorced and for next Christmas I wanted a pretty big rhinoceros “ZOIDS”, so I was looking forward with great anticipation to go to buy it with my mother. But, since it’s been a very short time since the divorce, and besides, my mother was buisy at work, she could not go with me to buy it, because she worked even on Christmas Day. But since I wanted to go buy it together, I said that everything is fine, even if we buy it next day, so, the essence was that I was looking forward to the fact that we’ll go buy it together. But then on the very Christmas Day ZOIDS was delivered to us by the courier. In the usual situation, at that moment, in theory, I should be very happy, but I was too much expecting the fact that we will go together to buy it, and I, calling my mother, who was at the time in the workplace, too vigorously expressed my discontent …This is the memory for which I want to insanely apologize. It was just unforgivable.

- Danger (it was dangerous!)

Reita: Maybe when I had an operation on my throat. I was in such a condition that I was given a blood transfusion, and now I’m already well, but at that time, it seems, it was quite dangerous.

- Emergency (things you think you need to do now, as soon as possible)

Reita: Do sport. For about 2 months my wrists ached, which I damaged by stretching ligaments, so I could not train muscles at all. And then, after an injection, two days later everything began to heal. And from there, I ran into the gym. Trying to be careful in the diet, I didn’t eat anything but white rice, therefore, in order to catch up the time lost so far, already today I want to quickly train. However, since the story of muscle training will not be well received by the public, let’s dwell on this (laughs).

- Fashion (preferences in style)

Reita: I have no special preferences, but it will suffice to say that these are spacious clothes. Almost everyone wears tight-fitting things, but I directly envy their equanimity in this matter. In comparison with the old times, in terms of accessories, I can not wear anything other than the necessary minimum, things that I liked. As for color I hate that I wear only black, gray and white shades, and I would really like to fix it. Actually, I would like that such color, as green, would suit to me, for example (laughs).

- Ghibli (Ghibli’s favorite works)

Reita: “Spirited Away” or “Princess Mononoke” … At the same time, it was also such that I didn’t watch anything except “My Neighbor Totoro”. Since in the first part of “Spirited Away” I eat onigiri, they seem super delicious to me. Probably, I like such ambience.

- Health (what do you pay special attention in the field of health)

Reita: I gave up carbohydrates. However, due to the heavy workload recently, the level of sugar in my blood dropped and there was some really sticky sweat. At that time, of course, I used a little sugar. But basically, I eat vegetables and meat, and tofu … Well, since I pretty much follow what I eat, I’m a little annoying people around.

- Immorality (about treasons, which became a hot topic in 2016)

Reita: Aaaah about this… treason is not good. In this case it is difficult to get approval, isn’t it? (laughs). It seems that people who commit treason absolutely don’t care at all, right? This is constantly shown on TV, isn’t it?  So I started to wonder “what is it?”. And I stopped watching TV, So more than a year, strictly speaking, I don’t have an antenna connected. As for people, I guess, that this is the very thing which feeds the dirty (vulgar) part of human beings. So in reality, they just become shitty creatures (laughs)

- Junk (unnecessary things at home)

Reita: If from the point of view of other people, then it’s probably going to be dumbbells or something like that, isn’t it (laughs). I threw away all the things that I didn’t need, but now in my room there is still a broken speaker for stereo.

- Kimi no Na Wa (the film “Your name”)

Reita: I didn’t watch it, but I was surprised that it sells so well! Even if, for example, good adults will watch it, they will still be interested, won’t they? I think that I would like to watch it one day, but precisely because of the fact that it sells so well, my punk soul lacks the desire to watch it (laughs).

- Love (the importance that love occupies in your life)

Reita: I think that if I wasn’t in the band, the most part would be occupied by THIS (love), isn’t it? But when you’re in a band, the band is more important to you than anything else, so to neglect the group and be completely absorbed in this feeling, this hasn’t happened to me yet. In my life, the presence of love is not so great. Fortunately, I never got upset because of this (laughs).

- Moving (сonditions for moving)

Reita: The hallway should be spacious. Landscape, when I open the front door, should create a feeling, as if I open the door wide to the side. When I return home, would like to feel free in sentimental way. If it’s Tokyo, then it will be quite difficult, right?

- No (work that you would not like to receive by being a member of the Gazette)

Reita: For example, to get into a bath with hot water or something? (laughs) In fact, the work about which I’d have thought that I don’t want to do it, until this moment I just didn’t do anything like that.

translated from japanese to russian by shimizu_ran.vk for the_gazette_quotes.vk

translated from russian to english by me

as always thx for reading and sorry for mistakes ^^

all of y’all with your kj apa discourse are exhausting, wanting to excuse his behavior because of his age. like…. y’all, he ain’t a baby. he’s an adult. if it was a mistake, own up to it. if it wasn’t, learn from the shit you’ve done, recognize where you’re wrong, and apologize for what happened. 

i, too, think that people deserve a chance to grow and learn from stuff in the past, but that doesn’t mean that everyone and their mothers should be making excuses for shitty behavior, especially saying that he can’t take responsibility for what he did because “he’s only 19, he doesn’t know any better.” bullshit. yes he does. 

being under the public eye as he is, he needs to realize that there are repercussions for his actions, whether intentional or not. blocking and deleting comments isn’t taking responsibility - it’s making matters worse. so stop trying to hold his hand and tell him it’s ok and brush it under the rug when it isn’t. let him own up to his mistake and learn from it.

anonymous asked:

aah what a good day to remember that keith is 16 and visualizing him in sexual situations, especially with an adult, is disgusting and also illegal wow breathe that fresh air

Ah, what a day to see people like you still think fictional characters = real people.

But okay I’ll bite I’m in a fantastic mood. All the sheith and shaladin ships made my day so now I’ll share my happiness with you whether you like it or not.

So you still believe Shiro is over 20+? First off, it’s your HC so you do you idc but you’re trying to force me to see it YOUR way? Huh, you don’t care that I don’t agree and sent a hate mail to showcase your intolerance of my opinions in MY blog? Whoa so petty of you like chill man go take a break or something before you hurt yourself with your shitty self-entitlement issues.

And wow, I guess Dreamworks and VLD’s official statements about “5 teenagers” are wrong in ALL of their SOURCES. Whoa I wonder why they don’t ever talk about or even acknowledge that disgusting cringy video ya’ll worship like the Lord itself. Hmm~?

Now throwing your shitty logic back at you.

If fictional characters = real people. Then I cannot believe how disgusting YOU are for visually sexualizing Keith (who you think is 16) a poor UNDERAGE minor with another UNDERAGE minor like Lance or Hunk or Pidge in obscene SEXUAL BEHAVIOR.

“B-But it’s okay because th-they are around th-the same age!” You cry out as you try to justify your double standards between your (deem to be) “good” ship versus my (you think is) “bad” ship.

Wow you legit just implied you like underage porn with underage kids like fucking gross that’s illegal too btw wtf gtfo you voyeuristic pedo. THINK OF THE FUCKING CHILDREN YOU PRICK HOW DARE YOU DO THIS TO KEITH HE’S ONLY 16 WTF YOU LIKE SEEING HIM GETTING VIOLATED BY ANOTHER 16 OR WORSE 17 YEAR OLD? THOSE ARE KIDS YOU’RE LOOKING AT GROSS!1!1

See that? Now I sounded just like you–good thing I don’t believe a single lick of your shitty bullshit or care about fictional characters in sexual or other types of situations since fictional characters =/= real people. No real person is being forced into a relationship with another real person. It’s just 2+ fictional fake people getting together in a fake universe in a fake storyline. If you can’t handle that then you need help or parent-lock your pc to stop you from seeing anything fictional online.

I ship whatever I want. And I love shipping Shiro with nearly every single character in Voltron so I’ll keep doing that thanks. I never cared about height/weight/age/race/etc of characters–just their personality and color schemes in comparison to other characters. Nor am I shallow or petty to attack other shippers over their opinions or HCs in their tags or blogs like you.

The reason why I don’t care is also simple: it’s because I personally do not let fiction AFFECT my sense of reality too drastically or warp it dramatically like you. That’s why I know how to tell the difference between the fiction I consume from the reality I live in.

Now when will you?

Because I’m still waiting for you antis to go attack Disney for showing little kids all the UNDERAGE Princesses getting into relationships and even marrying ADULT PRINCES in their movies like it’s totally okay. (And here’s the thing: it IS okay because it’s all FICTIONAL holy shit Disney knows the difference too!)

So why don’t you scurry on off and pretend your ship isn’t problematic in your shitty logic while I enjoy my ships that I know aren’t problematic in canon OR fanon. Because sending hate to shippers only proves how insecure you are in your ship and how petty and jealous you are about mine.

And it shows you fool so please keep sending more proof that my ships are just as fantastic like the decent shippers that ship them are–for we constantly are debunking your bs while still creating new fanart/fanfics to celebrate our ships.

Whoa can you imagine though? You’re chilling and in a great mood when suddenly an anti sends you hate in your ask like as if their opinion is the word of God and you are to obey and listen to them no questions asked–forget your own opinions and HCs while you’re at it.

Yeah right as if I ever will, especially to an anti, you are a shitty person and your opinion that you are trying to shove in my face is now shitty too.

Now begone from my blog and go pretend I didn’t just kick your arse–denial and immaturity seem to be the only things you’re good at so get to it.

Ah, sweet fresh air after the burn I gave you~

Originally posted by singylessie

Wait are there,,,seriously people who are saying Mike Faist doesn’t deserve to have a tony nomination???? 

"Autism doesn't need a cure"

So basically, what you’re saying is because you personally don’t want a cure for autism, all scientific research should be stopped. Scientists should stop looking for effective autism treatments and potential cures because YOU don’t want one.

It seems like people use this argument in politics all the time. Homophobes used it to delegitimize gay marriage because they personally thought homosexuality was bad. So therefore, gay marriage should have been illegal all across the country. While I’ll probably get flack for comparing an autism cure to gay marriage, it’s the same logic.

I understand if you don’t want to be cured yourself. My parents and I have discussed whether I wanted to be cured, and it’s definitely a personal thing for each person. Many higher functioning people don’t have many problems and are okay with having autism.

However, if you understood anything about autism, it is a SPECTRUM DISORDER. While everyone with autism has a communication and social delay, the level of severity varies. Many children and adults with autism can’t speak. They harm themselves and others during meltdowns. Some have seizures as a comorbid symptom - I know a 13 year old boy who DIED from one. And they won’t be able to go to college and live on their own. Don’t you think they deserve the chance to reach their full potential?

But since you don’t want a cure, those people shouldn’t be cured? They want to be able to speak. Why do you think they have meltdowns - they get overwhelmed. I guarantee you all of them don’t want to deal with this on a daily basis. I’ve been there before.

Before all of you call me an ableist cunt or an Aspie elitist or whatever (I have high functioning autism, not Aspergers), let me tell you guys a story. I was diagnosed with autism when I was two years old. My parents both have medical backgrounds and had noticed something was off even when I was 9 months old (I would flap my hands whenever I became overstimulated). When they addressed their concerns to my old pediatrician, he shrugged them off. But I got a diagnosis in 2001.

I had lost my ability to speak, and I appeared to be regressing. My parents told me that I would bite them because I couldn’t communicate. I even smeared poop in my bedroom one time (that’s common in autistic children). But my parents hired therapists for me that would come over on a daily basis. The first couple of therapists were shitty, but new ones were hired. I’m friends with a couple of them now. :)

If my parents thought “my daughter doesn’t need treatment, it’s part of her identity”, I WOULD NOT BE WRITING THIS POST NOW. I could not simply “suppress my autistic traits” as someone in the autistic tag said high functioning people were doing. Life would be 100x worse for me.

Stop comparing autism to being an ethnic minority or being LGBT. With the exception of being trans, the only problems you have in those cases is social intolerance. Even if everyone was totally accepting of autism, you’d still have problems. You’d still have meltdowns and communication troubles.

Obviously, you wouldn’t be forced into a cure if you objected to it. No one is lining up every single autistic person in the world and curing them. It’s not a Nazi extermination (and people who claim that are offensive to actual genocide victims).

When most people think of a cure, they’re thinking of eliminating the negative symptoms that come with autism. It isn’t killing everyone on the autism spectrum. I’m guessing a cure won’t happen for a while though (it would be great if I could see it in my lifetime).

My main point is this: You don’t want an autism cure? Great! No one’s telling you that you MUST be cured. But don’t be selfish and deny that chance for millions who do.

I want to start off by saying that I absolutely love Aberforth. I think he’s often overlooked and definitely needs more love, and I’m so glad that there are others that feel the same way. I get happy when I see posts dedicated to how Aberforth needs more appreciation. However, there are way too many Aberforth appreciation posts that have to go and ruin it by shitting on his brother. “Aberforth is a much better person then that lying old manipulating sister killer can ever hope to be!”

Cease and desist. Albus was the main one at fault but that duel was not entirely his fault, stop acting like it is. And wow, so because Albus was a shitty teenager he was just born evil. Okay, sounds legit. It was an accident, people. As for Aberforth being a better person than Albus, in a lot of ways he is. Especially compared to his devotion to his sister and his ability to love and connect with people more deeply than his older sibling who is more distant and calculating. You don’t have to tear a character down to build up an already good one, and an Aberforth (or any character) appreciation post is always suddenly ruined by a poster who can’t resist getting their jabs in against Albus (or any other character). You can appreciate Aberforth without attacking Albus, when you do that you make it not about your love for him and all about how much his brother sucks. Almost using him to prove a point that Albus is the worst person ever, and both of these brothers totally deserve better, so stop.

I long for the day that transsexualism is no longer regarded as a political “identity” of any kind, and is just treated like other medical conditions. That day literally cannot come soon enough. I am so tired of people acting like it’s okay to treat transsexualism differently from other conditions. And they do, they treat it like it’s not a medical condition in the first place. But if transsexualism is not a medical condition, thus having a biological, tangible basis, what is it? Body modification? Dress-up? Role play? How could it ever be justified without explaining it biologically? I’m tired of the “gender is a social construct” line of thought but I’m also tired of a lot of the people who claim to oppose it. Because gender being innate and unchanging suddenly goes out the window when transsexuals ‘choose’ to identify as the opposite sex. It’s a very stupid thing and I’ve seen it again and again.

Bottom line is this: Gender is innate. For all people on planet Earth. Everyone. It doesn’t matter whether the person’s brain and body match up at all, gender cannot be changed. For anyone. It’s why I think it’s so dumb that trans peopke are suddenly “choosing” to identify as the opposite sex to these people. As if anyone ever chose to identify with the sex they were born as. It’s the same line of thinking that brought us the “being gay is a choice” nonsense. No one chooses their gender, sex, or orientation. I don’t know why that’s hard to understand for some people. I think it’s because these normal people think that trannsexuals are those who “identified” as their birth sex then decided to change it later on. I can’t imagine them seeing it any other way, if they actually think it can be a choice. I also feel like always being associated with LGB it gets lumped in with unrelated ideas. Actually, I feel like being with LGB is the biggest reason it hasn’t been seen as a medical condition.

Honestly, I just want transsexualism to stop being a political thing altogether. It shitty enough to live with the condition, I don’t also need uninformed assholes telling me and people like me that we chose to be like this.

*sigh*

The worst thing is I’m pretty sure this is the same person who read the first chapter and complained it was a modern AU.

No, I still don’t care if this type of fic isn’t your thing. Not my problem. Read something else.

Also hilariously those tropes at the end are literally stuff I would never write.

But seriously: My fic doesn’t have to cater to your particular interest. Nothing this reviewer complained about is inherently bad. Just stuff they don’t like. Which doesn’t matter to me. Entitled little shitheads.

I expect way too much from people and Im fed up with myself because of it. I get disappointed easily, I just feel shitty and expect people still needing my presence but that’s not how it works. People feel shitty too and they don’t want to deal with my shit. I don’t know, my expectations are just way too high. Man i don’t want them to feel bad and I somehow always feel like it’s my fault when I push them away. But i cant deal with it, with the feeling that they might sometimes prefer to be alone instead of being with me because I get too clingy and I stop feeling like that myself and that’s just too dangerous. Im too much of everything and people get fed up and then they need a break from me. Well, Im sure you can relate. Abandonment issues right. So I push them away. It never ends well when I like someone too much. That’s okay. That’s how it always goes. Good, good. Fuck everything

The only way to convince Gil not to be a dad is if you romance him and ask him not to. He clearly wants kids, and he’ll only put that on hold if it means he might lose Ryder. Jill may give him a nudge in the direction she knows he wants, but Gil being a dad is what Gil wants.

Somehow people see that and immediately jump to saying he doesn’t know what he wants, and he’s being forced into having kids by Jill, and that he’ll regret it and honestly…. that’s fucking dodgy as hell. 

Let’s face it if Gil was straight there wouldn’t be anyone saying he was confused or forced into it. I’m not saying you have to want kids, I’m just saying Gil clearly does and you need to stop being shitty about it.

Harb Boibled Ebbs

or 5 Times Jack Pretended to be Allistic, and One Time He Didn’t
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Jack is five and sitting on the couch next to his maman, the room filled with other Pens WAGs and their children of varying ages. The Pens are facing the Caps tonight for their first Stanley Cup match and Alicia is hosting. All the other children are playing with each other, but not Jack. They don’t like him, but Jack doesn’t like them either, so he sits with his maman instead of huddling with the other boys who are all playing Power Rangers.

He’s tired but still keyed up from the meltdown he had in therapy. “It’s normal,” the therapist had told his maman. “There’s going to be a lot of meltdowns in the first few months.” There’s dull pain in his arms from where’d he’d clawed at them with his own hands, and the ghost of his therapist restraining him with her arms sits just under his skin like an itch he can’t get rid of.

The game on TV succumbs to background noise as the boys roughhouse and the WAGs chat (and occasionally yell at the game), and beneath it all is the radio in the kitchen that Alicia forgot to turn off when the game started. The other kids seem to thrive in the noisy environment, but Jack’s head just hurts, so he presses his palms hard against his ears, trying to muffle the noise that won’t stop. He’s rocking back and forth in his seat and he almost starts to feel calmer, less likely to explode, when maman creases her forehead and raises an eyebrow at him.

He pulls his hands away and sits on them instead.

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  • Inclusionist: you guys need to stop doing this thing, it's shitty and hurtful
  • Half of exclusionists: none of us ever do that? That would be bad if it was happening but it isn't so :/
  • The other half: no we don't need to stop, here's why the thing is totally okay and fine lmao quit being so sensitive

imagine being so grossly obsessed over a character that you created 2 blogs to harass people with, while being racist as hell and dragging down characters of color that are from completely different story lines.

bonus: the rest of your shitty defense squad stays silent when they usually spam the anti tag