people need to be careful

Daily reminder

Please don’t hurt yourself today. But also know that if you do slip up and give in to the urge, that doesn’t mean you failed or that you are never going to recover. Recovery is hard, very hard, it takes time and energy, constantly. Just promise me this, if you fall you will get back up and try again tomorrow and keep trying until the day comes when you look back and realize how far you have come.

You don’t deserve pain. You don’t deserve to feel this way. It is not your fault. You are not alone. If you need help reach out people care and want to help you.

You don’t deserve pain.

Please don’t hurt yourself.

Please don’t give up.

New moon

There’s blood on the carpet.

A song I sing yet did not write.

No frames on the mantel.

No treasure in life.

The tide turns as the new moon arrives.

November and the pull lessens,

yet I’m drawn out from either side.

Upon us is a changing time.

Dead zones and drowning sea birds.

Poisoned by the might.

Humanity ploughs on, ripping root and land.

The pulling will stop when the last one is out.

When the melting point passes that which we can withstand.

Then and only then will the people comprehend,

that the planet need not ignorance but a caring, trusted friend.

when did “people aged 30 and older in fandom spaces need to be careful in their interactions because many fandoms are dominated by teenagers and things can get uncomfortable” became “women over 30 should stay the fuck out of tumblr”?

There is a distinct difference between caring for someone and carrying someone.

Know the difference.

You are allowed to let people down when they are too heavy.

You are not a bad person because you have limits.
Freezing mum died alone 'wrapped in coat at home after benefits were stopped'
Elaine Morrall, who suffered from an eating disorder and mental health problems, was discovered dead at her home in Runcorn, Cheshire, earlier this month
By Lucy Clarke-Billings

“Elaine was deemed not ill enough for ESA [Employment and Support Allowance]. Had her benefits stopped numerous times, which in turn stopped her housing benefit.

“No income but expected to be able to pay full rent. Was told being in intensive care was not sufficient reason for failing to attend a universal credit interview.

“I went to the job centre to inform them that she couldn’t attend. But benefits stopped again.

“Uncaring housing taking her to court. She’s due to go to court on Monday. Is being dead now enough reason? Is that what’s had to happen to prove she was ill?

“How many people have got to die before this government realises they are killing vulnerable people??

The Government knows but doesn’t care. Which is why they need to go. 


max taking care of and being soft with anne (◡‿◡✿)


Sometimes you just have to scribble some boys

Let me tell about Unrequited Love. Equatable to a death sentence, although that may be optimal. You will never experience a pain like Unrequited Love. It’s being invisible to the one person you want to see you. It’s dropping everything to convince that person you are worthy, they should love you, they should need you. You forget about the people who actually care about you, abandoning them to chase this wild half thought out dream of yours, because you are selfish. And in being selfish, you start to ignore the people who want to be with you, romantically, pragmatically, or platonically. And so you create more Unrequiteds, who chase you and not other people, and those other people become Unrequiteds, and then they have Unrequiteds. And this chain of Unrequited, it never stops. Never. And maybe someday, you stop and ask yourself if this person you’ve been chasing for years is really worth it. Maybe if they don’t love you now, they never will. And that hurts. More then it should. And you’re tired. So tired. So you leave. You disappear. And maybe that person you were chasing, they notice. They notice you’re gone, and they break a little, because they had depend to you without realizing it. But it’s too late. That’s the thing about Unrequited, when it’s finally requited, if it ever will be, it’s too late.

So… here’s a little idea I’ve been toying with lately. As you guys already know, my computer got infected and hacked due to downloading some CC that was behind links. I lost my Netflix account to hackers and seriously risked losing my PayPal account, too. Needless to say, I won’t be touching an link (or other similar service) with a 10-foot pole from now on.

However, here’s the thing: I don’t know about you, but I have a feeling that finding cc that is not hidden behind a paywall or an link lately is becoming harder and harder.

And this is why I’d like to start an “Ad-free Creators United” project, a database/cc finds blog to make it easier for everyone to find creations that are NOT hidden behind an or Patreon link. To do this, however, I’ll need the help of a few fellow simmers, aka… YOU!

What are you looking for?
TS2, TS3 and TS4 players who are willing to help me hunt down FREE custom content for sims games and help me keep the cc finds blog updated.

What does “free” content mean?
Any cc creation that is NOT hidden behind an, or Patreon link.

Will this be something like Paysites Must Be Destroyed?
Nope. The blog will be solely dedicated to promoting creations that are shared for free (with no or Patreon links) by their original creators. Basically, it’ll be just a cc finds blog for free creations. No re-uploading of pay content.

How do I participate?
Send me an ask or a message if you’re willing to help me with the finds blog. Please, only send me your message if you’re ACTUALLY willing to work on this. If you don’t have enough time and/or are unsure on whether you can work on the blog itself, you are encouraged to reblog this post and spread the word around.

Fine, I want to take part to this. How many people do you need?
For now, I’ll need:

  • 2 persons to take care of TS2 cc finds;
  • 1 person to take care of TS3 cc finds (I’ll be the other person :D);
  • 2 persons to take care of TS4 cc finds;

Last but not least…

Are you a creator who doesn’t use Get your name added to the database!
If you’re a creator and you’re sharing your creations for free, please reblog this post and fill in the following form:

  • Creator name: [your name]
  • Blog url: [the blog where you share your sims creations]
  • Games you create for: [a list of the sims game/s you create cc for]
  • What you create: [CAS, furniture, objects, retextures, mods, traits, retextures, recolors, mesh conversions, new meshes? List anything you usually create for here]

We keep getting these lectures about always being compassionate towards patients who are absolute dickheads, but when will society get the lecture that maybe they shouldn’t be assholes to the medical staff?