people are upset enough as it is

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LMAOOOOO IDK WHEN PEOPLE STARTED ASKING ME FOR ADVICE TBH– I EXPECTED ART ADVICE, BUT THINGS STARTED TO ESCALATE TOWARDS RELATIONSHIPS. !!! But of course!!! Just hearing something so upsetting like that just flips a switch within me. It’s so upsetting to hear, and I don’t think I can do much, but at the same time I’m glad that people are comfortable enough to entrust me with these types of things?? Even though I’m certainly not qualified. But it’s good to talk it out, if not anything, even if it’s with a  complete stranger. I just think it’s funny that either people come to me for advice, or they wanna spill their sexual fantasies they have about my ocs to me LMAOOOO I… love my followers because they make things so interesting. BUT LOOL THANK YOU I LOVE YOU <333

Okay. (Rant)

Today I wanted to watch a bunch of animation memes.
When I looked up “Animation meme” on Youtube, all I got were those “Animation meme cringe compilation”.

These videos have been on my mind lightly, and i’ve finally had enough.
Most of these videos are made by young kids, for FUN. If you’ve made one of these, and your excuse was “Oh, it’s just for laughs” That does NOT matter.

You take someone’s work without asking and call it garbage. What if the kid who made the animation finds out that their work got put in a cringe comp? They would get upset, and discouraged from doing anymore animations, and at worst case scenarios, people go to their channels and harass them.

They are YOUNG KIDS.
They are HAVING FUN.
I don’t care if it’s self insert with Sans or something, they. are. having. fun.

Plus, them animating at such a young age will give them more experience and skill. Sure, you may think it looks bad know, but who knows! Maybe those kids will go on to make the next Gravity Falls!
But not if they are discouraged and give up on animating, because they are too scared of being harassed and made fun of.
The only way it would be bad is if they are like 10 or under and making straight up porn.
But if they are just having fun, even if that means self insert of oc x canon, in the end they are kids doing what they love.


anonymous asked:

im not that familiar with jo and nate, so why is it a big deal if jo loves nate more than nate loves jo? (i know its in a rpf way but i was just curious ^^)

It’s just sad in the way it’s sad whenever one person loves someone who doesn’t love them back as much. And because Jo’s had a harder time fitting in than Nate after their junior days. Nate got called up right away after he was drafted, and Jo was sent back to juniors for an extra year. In my headcanons, he’ll always be sensitive to the sting of rejection, and there’s a part of him that fears he’s not good enough. Add in his previously messy relationship with the Lightning, all of hockey media turning on him (once their golden child), people calling him worthless and a bust. Jo’s an emotional guy, stubborn and hot-headed and tends to react very strongly when upset.

Meanwhile Nate hasn’t had exactly an easy time of it in Denver, but it’s clear that he’s the Avalanche’s sweetheart. He’s loved on his team, he wasn’t rejected and sent back to Halifax for more conditioning, he wasn’t so unhappy he requested a trade.

Halifax was a time in Jo’s life when he was very happy, when the hockey world adored him, everyone talked about his bright future and how good he was going to be. He was playing amazing hockey, he fit in well, he had his best friend and soulmate and the person he loves most in the world by his side. It makes sense he’d cling to that happiness. And it stings when he’s sent back to Halifax and Nate isn’t, when Nate’s happy in Denver and doing well and everything Jo touches turns to ash. And if Nate doesn’t love Jo as much as Jo loves him, well, it hurts. But it also makes sense. Jo’s always been a bit of a failure, hasn’t he?

(Btw if you ever want to know more about Jo and Nate, here’s a bit of info)

anonymous asked:

I dunno, when steven said everything about rose that was upsetting him i was loving it but then i ended up let down because barely anything felt resolved. But that's just me. I think the people are split between feeling like enough or not enough was resolved and that influences how much they enjoyed the episode.

Very good point, and keep in mind, my appreciation of the episode will evaporate if this episode was the resolution to this. I’m expecting this to just be the beginning.

Its like, people are theoretically fine with protests, (Lord knows we go on and on about the fucking Boston Tea Party enough, and pay at least some lip service to MLK) until they think that it might actually negatively impact them in some way.


That’s the point.

Protests aren’t there to be convenient and comforting. 

If you aren’t part of the protest, it’s supposed to make you uncomfortable. It’s supposed to make you upset. It’s supposed to make you notice shit that you otherwise ignore. 

so i played skyrim tonight, and i thought i’d tell an important story about my journeys:

i was mostly wandering around minding my own business when i came upon whiterun stables and guys - listen. i found the most beautiful perfect horse i’d ever seen. majestic, beautiful, immaculate. i had to have him. so i figured - hey, i took long enough getting here, it’s the middle of the night, no one’s gonna see if i take this horse, right?

this was my first mistake.

so i hop on the horse. i press the big glaring red STEAL button and get my ass on the horse. perfect. 50 bounty from whiterun - well, no plan is ever perfect. and we start walking along - and who runs up to me, but a whiterun guard. “you have committed crimes against skyrim and her people” - he’s very upset. well holy shit! i didn’t think anyone saw me, but you know what, good sir, here, i’ll pay the fine -

“we’ll take your stolen goods, and - “

no. this simply won’t do. i come out of the keep, scheming. i must acquire my horse again.

so i go back to the stables, steal the horse again. it’s the same horse, of course it is, because he’s flawless and gallant and waited for me.

but then - again - the guard, crimes against skyrim and her people - well you know what sir, a cat-man’s pride for his perfect and beautiful horse is not a crime. so i hop off my perfect horse, and get my Destruction ready. i’m going to give this guard what-for. of course, in the process, i accumulate 1000 bounty from whiterun.

well, fuck. this, probably, could be considered mistake number two. i get on the horse again. +50 bounty from whiterun, but in the face of killing that guard, honestly, who’s going to notice one stolen horse? i press the big red STEAL button again.

“alright, RED STEEL,” i tell the horse, “from now on, you and i are fugitives.”

RED STEEL, noble and awe-inspiring steed, and i walk for a very, very, very long time. we can never go back. but - you guys, i found out something else about RED STEEL that made it all worth it:

well, of course. he can fly. my incredible, unkillable, righteous RED STEEL.

look at him, as majestic and all-powerful and graceful as i always knew him to be.

so - did i commit crimes against skyrim and her people? yes. yes, i did. but in doing so, i made an unforgettable friend, and a powerful ally. so was it worth it?

i’ll let you be the judge.

Shout out to all the people who struggle late at night to sleep while dealing with their nightmares, flashbacks, panic attacks, hallucinations, insomnia, a body that is convinced sleep should only happen in the morning, or when they’re almost asleep and their brain suddenly comes up with a surprise convincing reason that they need to be Anxious and upset right now. That shit is tough to deal with and you don’t get enough credit for hanging in there.

it breaks my heart how like 99% of people with trauma feel like their trauma wasn’t bad enough and they shouldn’t include themselves in spaces for those who’ve survived trauma. i mean i feel that way all the time. 7.2 billion people could assure me my experiences are legit traumatic, wouldn’t rly help, i’ll just continue to say i’m fine and making a big deal out of mildly upsetting events.

it makes me sad to see people dismissing jumin’s affection in the valentine’s day dlc just because he buys so many gifts. 

not everyone expresses their love solely through words or cuddles. sometimes people enjoy picking out items that they think others might like, and enjoy giving gifts as it’s their way of showing how much they care. gifts are not inherently bad, and not inherently a sign that your love is fake or inadequate. 

some people don’t like receiving gifts, and that’s okay! it’s also okay to give gifts if it’s a way to express your love and make others happy! 

disliking jumin’s valentine’s day ending is not the problem. disliking it because you think gifts automatically diminish his feelings is kinda missing the point. 

anonymous asked:

i really like your blog but i was kinda disappointed to see that stuff about ace people... they're part of the community regardless of whether or not they're discriminated... and also tbh there are a lot of sexualities that simply don't get as much hate because they're not well known... as for ace people - I literally had a teacher tell my class this week that "being asexual or aromantic - those people are sick, you can't be those things and be healthy... it's an illness"... decide what you will

oh my god. Look. Okay, this is all I’m going to say on the matter:

being anything and everything outside of a cis heterosexual person is not like a free pass to the lgbt community. okay, I am an Ace person, I am ace. I am asexual. and people talking about aph*bia on here KILL ME, because at the end of the day being ace does not mean you’re lgbt. someone saying that- doesn’t mean they hate ace people?? It doesn’t! why is that so upsetting to hear? being straight ace doesn’t mean you’re lgbt, it means you’re straight ace, Why are straight ace people so Desperate to call themselves specifically LGBT??, like whats wrong with calling yourself straight ace?, 

I don’t care if you’re disappointed to see it on my blog, unfollow my blog, because I stand by this. Being straight ace doesn’t make you lgbt. And if someone who is lgbt tells someone who is straight ace that being straight ace doesn’t make them lgbt then honestly why should that bother them in the first place like?? Doesn’t mean you’re not ace? Doesn’t mean you haven’t possibly faced your own forms of exclusion as someone who is ace?? It just means you aren’t lgbt??? Why are these people so desperate to call themselves lgbt??

listen to me. being asexual IS valid. It is different and I am ace myself, I know that in being ace a person can be faced with various forms of exclusion and even manners of oppression in regards to that but that relates specifically to being asexual and it does not make someone lgbt.

the post I reblogged highlighted the fact that being asexual has never been punishable by law anywhere in the world at any given time. and that’s just true. that’s a true statement. there’s nothing wrong with wanting your identity to be accepted and understood and validated and recognized for what it is. but maybe let’s stop trying to identify it as something that it’s not??

Avoid boys who show violent and manipulative tendencies 2k17

Yelling: why is he trying to intimidate/scare you? That’s not healthy ?

Insults/cursing: he unabashedly calls people sluts/bitches. He says things that degrade women. He puts you down and makes you feel you’re not good enough. He embarrasses u in public.

Manipulation: he tries to distance you from friends & family. He tries to control your every action. He’s often checking up on you suspiciously. You get anxious because of him. You cry or get upset often because of him.

Violent red flags:
- punching objects or walls
- drug use
- pressures you into sex or sexual acts
- lies / dishonesty (he will keep lying!)
-extreme jealousy & suspicion toward u
-anger / temper
- insults other women

Gaslighting: making u think your opinions are wrong/ causing you to doubt your own perception & credibility

Literally leave your abusive boyfriend 2017-infinity & forever

wait wAIT people are actually thinking that Archie shouldn’t cry? NO OKAY STRAIGHT UP - not enough boys/men are shown in life/tv/movies that FEELING/EMOTIONS ARE ALLOWED TO BE SHOWN. Guys cry in real life, Archie is FIFTEEN and he’s dealing with things most adults couldn’t even get through. PROPS TO THE WRITERS FOR WRITING THAT AND SHOWING IT. I am so proud of Archie for expressing how upset he is, not only at his heartbreak, but how little he thinks of himself. Protect Archie 2k17. 

Big girl appreciation day February 19th- 20th 2016

Big girl appreciation day February 19th- 20th 2016 Soooo you guys Bgad was extremely successful. I been lowkey busy recently but ive known for awhile know that the 19th and 20th were the perfect days for the next one. What way to celebrate your body than a few days after valentines day! Im so excited to see all the cute photos and themes you guys think of! This is gonna be real cute.

Bgad will be seasonal. So well have some time between to prepare to get out best photos ready for these amazing days! Last time a lot of people couldn’t participate and that upsets me cuz yall are all so beautiful. So I cant stress enough how important it is to boost this and mark it on your calendars. A LOT of people didn’t even know about it until the day of. We can get this circulating better so more women can participate.

So Boost this you guys let everyone know whats up!!! .

I’ve seen a lot of folks kinda upset over Hanzo not getting any special skins or items for yet another event, and I think I know why? I could be wrong, but maybe the developers don’t want to go out on a limb and give him anything because they think it’s not worth it. As in, they see so many people complaining about having Hanzo’s on their team, or people just not picking up Hanzo enough, and figure they shouldn’t bother giving him anything.

This also reminds me of a comment made by the developers a while back. I think Jeff Kaplan mentioned it (but I could be wrong) and he basically said if they keep adding more and more characters, they might “retire” certain characters who aren’t played enough. They won’t kill them off in lore or anything like that, but you won’t be able to play them anymore in order to make room for new characters. I think they might’ve scrapped this idea, but you never know if it’ll be something they reconsider in the future.

So if you want Hanzo to receive more skins and not possibly be put on the chopping block, consider the following:

  • Try your hand at playing him every now and again. If he’s not your cup of tea, that’s cool, but trying him out in Quick Play once in a while won’t hurt either.
  • Spread some positivity online about his character in-game. If you happen to be on the forums, maybe make a couple posts telling the developers you want more Hanzo content and tell them you enjoy playing Hanzo (even if that’s not the case).
  • Don’t get angry with people on your team who choose Hanzo. Plain and simple: try going easy on your teammates. Being more supportive of their Hanzo choice means more folks will feel comfortable choosing him. And if you see someone getting on your teammate about going Hanzo, try coming to their defense if you feel comfortable doing so.

I’m not saying Hanzo is at risk of getting cut or that we won’t see new items for him in the future, but just to be on the safe side, show him some more love and tell your friends to do the same!

{PART 17} Who Are You? // Im Jaebum

Originally posted by sugaglos

Pairing: Jaebum x Reader (ft. Jackson & Jinyoung)

Genre: Angst, slight fluff

Summary; Jackson gives you some much needed advice, despite torturing himself in the process; while Jinyoung finds himself mirroring those actions to Jaebum.

PLEASE READ: This chapter contains scenes that some people may find upsetting. Reader discretion is advised.

Please note that this series contains mentions of road/car accidents, amnesia and cheating.

I update this series every Sunday between 9pm-10pm (U.K Time)

{Part 1} // {Part 16} {Part 17} {Part 18}

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Whoever did this should be really fucking ashamed of themselves. Yuuri Katsuki was NOT based off of Yuzuru Hanyu and never was right from the beginning.
Whoever did this is making the whole Fandom look bad and this entirely pisses me off to no end. I’m pretty fucking sure this would upset Yuzuru to see that this was done. He’s not a fictional character. He’s a real figure skating genius who just skated the Grand Prix final… THE REAL ONE… This past weekend!! I have been informed that the wiki page has been fixed but even still… it was left up long enough for me to see it meaning hundreds of thousand people have seen it.

a lot of people, including myself, are very upset and emotional right now. even shearing a tear for jay and her family. and i just wanted to say that you’re not weird or intrusive for crying, or caring, or being emotional about the death of a stranger. johanna was included in the (excuse the cheesy line here) family that we call the fandom and clearly touched upon our lives by not only giving us louis but being a gorgeous women on the inside and out that we were lucky enough to whiteness. as a new generation of fandoms we were able to whiteness the family dynamic more than ever, which is also probably the reason most of us have raw emotion right now, because we are aware of the fact that in her passing there are 7 children now without a mother because of a cruel, horrible condition. we know how shitty that is and we truly feel for the entire family. so it’s okay to be upset.

obviously, it’s totally not my place to say but i imagine that all the family would be grateful for the support, thoughts, and prayers you guys are sending out right now. remember to be respectful, and considerate in this time. hug your loved ones a little tighter tonight. donate if you can to any of the charities and drives that people are setting up in her memory.

anonymous asked:

Hey, I'd recommend not using the term "a-spec" in relation to ace/aros. A-spec is a term inherently used with the autistic community and they're rather upset and offended by this adoption by a community that has no legitimate claim to it, it's rather crass in all honesty. Hope you take this into consideration.

@tara-hates-maps @autismserenity

…..Many autistic people have said that it did not come from them, and in fact, it came from the automotive industry, so if anyone were to be mad, it would be them. “On the spectrum” is autistic language. “A-spec” is for aces and aros. Funny enough, someone searched the tag, and the only use of “a-spec” someone could find for autism was about a month ago. While ace people have been using it for…years. 5ish. 

Short answer: How many other people did you send this to? No.


This video explores the similarities and differences between two of Miyazaki’s most well known works: Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind and Princess Mononoke. How are they similar? How are they different? What can we learn from that?

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i love the fact that when isak thought he might be at cause for the way even was feeling, sonja told him that it wasn’t his fault, that it was because even was bipolar. because that state of depression he was in is not just the equivalent of having your feelings hurt by someone or by a situation, it’s not just being sad or bummed about something. sonja reminded isak (and the viewers) that the way even was feeling was the result of his illness, an illness he can’t just try to get over and move on from like you would try to get over or move on from a situation that hurt your feelings. and it was so important to be reminded of that because i know too many people have this misconception about mental illnesses and depression in particular that you can just feel better if you try. because they associate it with the feeling you get when a situation upsets you and if you just try hard enough, you’ll eventually get over it. but that’s not how it works, it’s not just something you can rise above. so, yeah, i think it was a really good thing that sonja said that to isak