people are bad influences

i’ve already seen a few people already criticise junhong for his tattoo or disregard it as ‘yongguk’s influence,’ and it’s been pretty upsetting to see how some are treating him. none of us know the significance of ‘relation in time’ to junhong. he is someone who truly lives for art, and the piece is obviously really meaningful to him - why else would he get it permanently on his skin? if you don’t agree with his tattoo, keep it to yourself. his body is his own, and he can do whatever he wants with it without approval from others.

“Fiction isn’t reality! / It’s just fiction”

Buddy, pal… Ayn Rand’s novel Atlas Shrugged is considered the 2nd most influential book in American History after the Bible itself, which makes it the Most influential Fiction book. Every fiscally Conservative politician has read it and lives by Rand’s objectivism. But it’s ~just fiction~ which is why Speaker of the House Paul Ryan’s entire ethos is based almost entirely in Ayn Rand’s philosophy

For context, Ayn Rand believed that Selfishness was a virtue and Empathy was by extension a vice and a form of parasitism. Putting the needs of others above your own needs was the highest form of evil her philosophy. She once described a serial killer as a “Superman” because “other people do not exist to him, nor should they.”

Now back to Paul Ryan, the man behind the gutting of the ACA, he, a conservative, says that the conservative morality is laid out in Atlas Shrugged, and he’s not the only one who believes this. Rush Limbaugh, Michelle Bachmann, Ron and Rand Paul, and basically every major Libertarian politician all cite Ayn Rand as an influence (and it’s probably why Ron Paul named his son Randall).

The entire objectivist morality is that the government is an anathema to the Individual, which is sacred.

Individuals, especially rich, selfish individuals = good
Government = bad

Sound familiar?

But sure,,,,,, fiction is fiction so it doesn’t affect the way people think,,,,,,, people can tell the difference,,,,,,,, ,,, fiction and reality are totally separate and one doesn’t influence the other,,,,,,,,,,,, obvi

i know lots of people get all hot and heavy for the ‘rebel/bad influence who goes after the goody goody/nerd to corrupt them’ but what about the reverse? what if the rebel was the one minding their own business when the goody goody suddenly started approaching them, asking them out, trying to get to know them. constant pestering and cute little quips that leave the rebel flustered (and a little flattered but don’t tell the goody goody shhh).

just picture it. initially people think the rebel is the one giving the goody goody a hard time but instead the rebel’s trying to avoid getting seen with the other a lot bc no you’re too pure and sweet you’re gonna ruin my punk rock image sTOP. but the goody goody just doesn’t care about image or labels they just know that they want the rebel and dammit they’re gonna get the rebel.

Why do people always assume Prompto was a bad influence on Noctis? Maybe it was the other way around? Maybe Noctis was the one who wanted to stay out late or go to the arcade. If he didn’t go home, he didn’t have to take the responsibilities he didn’t want in the first place. Maybe he just wanted to be a normal high school boy doing normal high school boy things and here comes this sunshine child who just wants to be friends with Noctis and treats him like an actual normal high school boy. Not saying Prompto is entirely innocent himself but come on guys, look at that sunshine child. He just wants Noctis to be happy. You can’t tell me he didn’t easily give in to Noctis’s rebellious whims.

bad influence sentence starters.

’ come on, it’s no big deal. ’
’ can you throw caution to the wind just this once. ’
’ why do you hang around people who are a bad influence? ’
’ my parents think you’re a bad influence on me. ’
’ it’s not going to kill you to do it this one time. ’
’ don’t worry, i never get caught. ’
’ it’s not like they’re going to catch us. ’
’ are you in or are you out? haven’t got all day. ’
’ you distract them and i’ll run inside real quick. ’
’ if we get caught just tell them i forced you too. ’
’ it’s not rocket science, just sneak out when they go to sleep. ’
’ come on, it’s not like it’ll be the end of the world. ’
’ it’s not sneaking out if they never find out. ’
’ i’m sorry, remind me of what a guilty conscience is again? ’
’ it’s okay to break the rules sometimes. ’
’ you can’t die from bending the rules a little. ’
’ they’ll never find out because neither of us will tell, right? ’
’ i won’t tell if you don’t tell. ’
’ are you going to snitch me out if we get caught? ’
’ are you going to come with me or not? ’
’ it’s not that hard to tell a little lie. ’
’ don’t worry, i got it covered. ’
’ stop being such a big chicken all the time. ’
’ you seriously need to do this stuff more. ’
’ this is not being a criminal, we’re just having fun. ’
’ i’m not under the influence, okay? i can drive. ’
’ it’s just a one time thing, how bad can it be? ’
’ it’s not like you have to do it every day. ’
’ they will not find out, i promise. ’
’ no one will know because we’ll do it at night. ’
’ it’s not like anyone can actually get hurt. ’
’ you’re going like that? you clearly over think too much. ’
’ it’s just some stupid party, calm down. ’
’ if you don’t come then who’s going to make i don’t do anything stupid? ’
’ you are such a party pooper sometimes. ’
’ stop being a sissy and just do it already. ’
’ stop being a crybaby, just do it. ’
’ i’ll do it with you, come on. ’
’ okay, on the count of three, you ready? ’
’ it’s not like you’re stepping out to commit murder! ’
’ stop thinking so much and just do. ’
’ why don’t ever wanna do something with me? ’
’ it’s not illegal, just come on. ’
’ you have to prove your not a chicken. ’
’ you never want to do anything, why not? ’
’ come on, we’re going to play chicken on the road. ’
’ it’s a harmless prank, can you just chill. ’
’ nothing wrong can happen with a prank. ’
’ just tell your parents you’re coming to my house for the night. ’
’ it’s not that hard to lie to your parents. i do it all the time. ’
’ one day, you’ll realize, it’s not that bad. ’
’ you cannot go and tattletale this time. ’
’ just so you know, no one likes a tattletale. ’
’ are you actually crying right now? i can’t tell. ’
’ seriously, man up already and do it! ’
’ for the record, nothing i do is actually illegal. ’
’ come on, it’s going to be so much fun. ’
Why does Prompto get portrayed like he's a bad boy figure?

I haven’t been able to figure this one out. I see people treat him like the “bad influence” type or “up to no good.” He isn’t either of these. He started off as a sweet, loner kid who kept to himself. Had zero confidence in himself. Had a soft spot for animals. He tried to connect with Noctis early on but didn’t go as planned. Got into shape and finally had the confidence to approach the prince and make friends with him (which by the way we all know Noctis was searching for this too as he used to wait for Prompto to show up again. And recognized him as teenagers). They hung out at arcades and shared food with each other. I don’t buy that Prompto would entice Noctis to go gaming over studies as Noctis was top of his class and Noctis probably wanted a brain break and it was his idea to go to the arcade. And if my best friend was royalty I might ask that exams be outlawed too. That’s as much as we get from Brotherhood. In the game we see he’s a jokester and laid back but nothing that screams bad boy. Even the whole skirt chaser bit…He has a crush in Cindy and momentarily wonders about Aranea but that ended quickly. Honestly I think that was about him wanting to be liked….Again his confidence issues. It’s possible he didn’t do well with girls in high school. He probably was awkward and clumsy around them and may have second guessed whether a girl was trying to use him to get to Noctis and again taking a stab at his confidence. So where is the bad boy coming from because I don’t see it??

Originally posted by ffxvsnow

If your friends are stopping you from getting close to Allah, they’re not for you. Real friends want the best of both worlds for you. Please terminate your friendship with people who have bad influence on you. Their bad character will rub off on you and you will be smeared due to their tarnished reputation in this world and in akhirat! Pleas take this seriously!

Parenting (Writing Prompts)

This is a second set of writing prompts on the topic of parenting (prompts about babies can be found here); this one for this request:

do you have any prompts for parenting? the couple i’m writing about is two guys with one kid, if that helps. thank you!
(i’m the one who asked for parenting prompts) i forgot to add, the kid is twelve but mature for it’s age and nonbinary

  1. The child need homework help with something neither of their parents understands.
  2. The child brings home a new friend.
  3. The parents have to face people accusing them of being a bad influence on the kid.
  4. Or they keep getting asked whether their child is a boy or a girl whenever they’re shopping for something.
  5. Or told by a stranger that something they are buying is meant for a gender other than what the stranger assumes the child to be.
  6. The child gets in trouble at school.
  7. The child is sick and the parents take turns taking care for them.
  8. The kid tries to surprise their parents.
  9. The parents try to help the kid find a new hobby.
  10. How does the kid feel about the possibility of having a sibling?
  11. The family goes on a vacation.
  12. One of the parents needs to choose between their work and the child’s science fair (or something similar).
  13. The family goes grocery shopping together.
  14. The kid wants to talk to their parents about their future education.
  15. The family has planned a trip but something gets in the way.

Not a fan of that post that was like *can you iMAgINe if the polygon boys were ~problematic????? Like. Haven’t we gone through enough instances of idealizing individuals to know that we are almost always going to be disappointed? Isn’t it a bad idea to set a precedent for real people with influence that they couldn’t possibly do anything bad? There’s nothing wrong with liking their stuff just don’t act like your faves could never do anything wrong. This is how serious issues can arise and people can feel uncomfortable coming forward

Being a Female Slytherin and Dating Hermione Would Include...

- you making the first move

- always sticking up for her around other slytherins

- holding hands when walking each other to class

- studying together

- reading each others favorite books

- always trying to convince her to skip class with you (she never would, much to your disappointment)

- people would assume you were a bad influence on her, but in reality Hermione would be too headstrong to follow in your deviant footsteps 

- instead, she would be a good influence on you, and dating her would result in your grades improving and a decrease in bad behavior

- you wouldn’t care at all about any teasing you received for dating someone in your rival house

- Hermione would be a little more sensitive but you’d always comfort her and assure her that your different houses didn’t matter

- you would probably end up hanging out with more gryffindors than slytherins, and would become friends with Harry and Ron (even if they were a little wary of you at first)

- The word “mudblood” would instantly make you angry and Hermione would have to hold you back from anyone who said it

- even though you knew she could stand up for herself you’d be protective, and she would find it cute rather than patronizing 

if you were to go (into the woods) today

Fluff Friday: November 25 “Tea Party”

Because I fell in love with smol!Kakashi and doesn’t-know-how-she-became-a-babysitter!Sakura, and wanted to write more about them. Also, Tsunade was supposed to have a bit part, but then I went and had feelings about her all over. Tsunade is just the best, okay?

Wherein Sakura signs a bunch of stuff, Sai’s attempts at real life as guided by books end badly (again), and Sakura’s bed has somehow become the place for cuddles and midnight promises.

(I’m apparently incapable of writing sheer fluff, so this does veer vaguely into angst, because shinobi.)

@beyondthemoor (hey! tumblr’s tagging system suddenly decided you exist!)


“And now,” Tsunade-shishō continues, shoving the completed forms for Kakashi’s custody to the side, “let’s talk finances.”

Sakura does her best not to blanch, because her most esteemed Hokage-sama gets just a little bit touchy when people bring up, refer to, or allude vaguely in the direction of her many gambling debts and terrible credit score, and somehow, village finances and mission pay negotiations manage to almost always skirt too close to that line, even though the only thing they particularly have in common is money. The memories of six desks meeting their end at the touch of a single finger and of two windows shattered in the wake of shinobi Tsunade-shishō has sent flying through them make for excellent incentive for Sakura to approach this more carefully than a surgery for restructuring a shattered limb or one of Gai-sensei’s obstacle courses.

“Right, finances,” Sakura says with an impressive lack of squeaking. She doesn’t dare show fear.

Tsunade-shishō can smell it on you.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

So, I hope this doesn't seem weird but I wanted some advice on something. Lately, I've been practicing gif making and I think I have a good handle on it and I want to post them but I'm sort of afraid to. I wanted to make some gifs for the Flash but every time I go into the tags for either Iris or Caitlin (both of which I want to gif the most) they get so much hate and the people who don't like them tend to say hurtful things to those that do. (1)

I guess what I’m trying to ask is, is it worth it to get into a fandom even though I might get hate for it? Idk, it’s just I’ve never been able to handle negativity that well but I also don’t want it to hinder me from making things I like. 

There are positive Snowest blogs out there and positive people. Please, don’t let the bad side of the fandom influence your passion for it. Don’t let hate win. Caitlin and Iris are both beautiful, smart, badass and we need them to stand up for each other, if not in canon where it’s like an event, at least in fanon!

anonymous asked:

Kakashi head canons on how he would deal with a teenage daughter. Please?

  • Kakashi would be a very protective father. he would always want to know where his daughter is, and would especially wish to know who she is spending her time with. He would be quite anxious about the idea of her hanging around with people who may be a bad influence on her.
  • He would worry about his daughter a lot. If he knew she could handle herself, he would try to calm down and not be so overbearing, but he would still feel the urge to check up on her rather frequently.
  • Kakashi would love to embarrass his daughter. He would do and say ridiculous things in front of her when she’s with her friends, and he would chuckle at any eye rolls or groans that he would receive from her.
  • He would be utterly terrified that his daughter would begin dating someone. He would want to deter her from gaining a potential significant other, but if he ever were to make her upset through doing this, he would step back and try to accept the person she likes, although it would be pretty difficult for him.
  • Kakashi would treat his daughter a lot - he would take her out to her favourite restaurant frequently, or randomly gift her with a book or a new set of kunai. This would probably break his bank, but he wouldn’t be able to resist from the look on her face.
  • He would keep his daughter well away from Icha Icha and would make sure the books are always well away from her curious eyes.

-Admin Will

Mystery Followers

Soooo I have this bad habit of blocking people after assuming they’ve blocked me first, thinking that could help them not see the content of my blog anymore if they really don’t want to the moment Tumblr warps me into that page of nowhere and telling me that the blog doesn’t exist when I know for sure it still does.

But then, I just noticed a few messages in my other blog which also got influenced by my bad habit with people hiding in the anonymous icon while asking me if I blocked them, and I’m like “Maddafckah, how the heck do I know who you are when you’re gray and only wearing shades?”

I’m really confused about how Tumblr works, and what’s going on. I’m trying to help their dashboard here in a more no hard feelings way, but then I end up with people sending me sad messages (that makes me feel guilty for trying to help) about how they can’t see my posts anymore in my other blog that is full of me torturing Craig Tucker’s heart (since he had a backstory that started happy with Tweek in the story, but it shattered) which is surprising to me. Most people want their OTP together, yet here I am with a high chance of showing my love for this ship reversed. I’ve been trying to be a little nicer to him at the moment by drawing him with Tweek instead of making him feel more miserable, though. <3

Don’t misunderstand. I love Creek. It’s my OTP. ._. I just have a weird way of showing my love for my OTP. I just find it so cute when the atmosphere around them is so… miserable. Ohohoho~ I’m sick right now, though. Been coughing a lot for weeks, so I end up puking out more fluffy Creek when I should be doodling more depressing stuff between those two.

QQ Who are these sad anonymous people and how do I fix their sadness?!

Also, I’m a little twisted in the head, been talking to lots of psychologists too since I’m hella weird so I don’t really recommend following me.

Take Me To Church

From this request: Lucifer x reader based on the song “Take me to church by Hozier” ?

Here’s the song

*Lucifer-centric

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Lucifer was always considered a ‘bad influence’. People were scared of him, angels frowned upon him.

But you… you were different.

You had that slight darkness that was usually socially acceptable. You weren’t afraid to speak your mind. You weren’t afraid to admit that you found blood and gore and psychological torture entertaining. You weren’t afraid to point out your weaknesses and the weaknesses of others (sometimes in the whole of the human race). You weren’t afraid to let a soft giggle slip out at a funeral in the midst of remembering a dirty joke.

Lucifer loved all of that.

It was strange. When he was next to you… it was almost like Heaven.

One night, you were watching Lucifer from across the room. A devilish smile was on your face.

“What are you thinking?” Lucifer asked.

“Something sinful.”

“Do share.”

You took a few steps towards Lucifer. “Not here.”

“Where, sweetheart?”

“Take me to church.”

Lucifer cocked a brow at you. Eleven pm was no time for worship.

But perhaps that’s what you were wanting.

With a snap of his fingers, the two of you were transported off to the local church. The two of you stood in the huge, darkened sanctuary. The full moon outside was streaming through the giant stained-glass window, lighting up the altar.

“Well, now we’re at church,” Lucifer said. “Now what?”

He watched as you walked around the altar, your fingers trailing over the top. You hopped up on top of it, your eyes trailing over Lucifer. “Well, we’re in a place of worship…”

Lucifer walked over, situating himself in between your legs. “You naughty little minx.” His face hovered a few centimeters from yours.

Your hands gripped Lucifer’s shirt as you laid back onto the altar, pulling him over you. “Tell me your sins.”

Lucifer’s mouth began to pepper kisses onto your neck, his fingers working the buttons on your blouse. “Well, lust is definitely a big one.” He kissed his way down your torso. Your fingers looped into his hair. “Wrath, mainly against my brothers. Envy, when other men talk to you.” Lucifer’s fingers worked at the button on your jeans, pulling the garment down your legs, his mouth following. “Gluttony… I can never get enough of you.” Your panties were pulled down your legs. “Pride, knowing that you’re mine and that I’m the only one who can make you feel like this.”

You gasped as his fingers met your core, an electric shock flooding through you.

Lucifer’s face hovered over yours, moonlight playing on one side of his face. His fingers continued to work among your folds, driving you insane. “Do you forgive me?”

“Sins can’t be absolved just like that,” you said, breathily. Your hips rose, trying to get more contact with Lucifer. “You have to work for your forgiveness.”

“Well, I think you’re just as big of a sinner as I am,” Lucifer said, withdrawing his hand. “What do you say we work together to cleanse ourselves?”

You moaned, intelligible responses having left you.

Lucifer’s clothes disappeared and he was on top of you, skin on skin, mouth on mouth. He continued to tease you with his hands and his cock, drawing out mewls and whimpers that rang throughout the high-ceilinged room.

Finally, the two of you connected, two fleshes becoming one, two spirits conjoining. You wrapped yourself around Lucifer, whispering sweet praises to him.

When the two of you were finished, Lucifer laid on top of you, your skin still sizzling at the contact.

He pressed a kiss to your lips. “Your sins are forgiven, child.”

You smiled up at him, trying to catch your breath. “Amen.”

Lucifer looked down. “There’s going to be a stain on this nice altar cloth now.”

“We’ll just flip it over. No one will ever know.”

Lucifer chuckled. “God, I love you.”

“Ancestor Liberation must be done” Hak Ja Han 2015

Speech given by Hak Ja Han on the 1000th day after the death of Sun Myung Moon.

Every UC member has to pay tens of thousands of dollars. Why?

Many other people in countries all around the world, who are not members of the Unification Church, offer ancestor liberation for free, or for small fees. It is sometimes called “spirit release”.

No one has explained what is done with the money that the UC collects from doing ancestor liberation. All the money should be accounted for – and reports made available to UC contributors.

Do ancestors need liberating? How does it actually help them? How much do people who have left this world influence the living – for good or bad? Perhaps we should just remember our ancestors/loved ones/friends with forgiveness and love. That may be all that is needed to banish any fears that we may have.

“Apology marriages” made by Japanese UC members to Korean men.

Japanese 20-year-old woman recruited by the UC, and then sold to an older Korean farmer in an “apology marriage”.

“The Angels and Absolute Good Spirits have left Cheongpyeong” says Hyo-nam Kim / DaeMo Nim

Hak Ja Han’s mother, Soon-ae Hong, was a convicted killer – an 18-year old died from her heavy ansu!

Wish Papers: Make a wish, write it down, give it to the UC with your money. They will burn the papers in a ceremony…

CIVIL WAR SPOILER

The hypocrisy in the Marvel fandom runs fucking deep apparently. A woman goes to Tony and blames him for the death of her son and y'all are cheering her on saying Tony is the bad guy, yet Bucky (under mind control) kills Tony’s parents and everyone is cooing over him and acting like he’s totally innocent. Tony was trying to SAVE people and Bucky was under the influence of a bad person–the things they did should be considered equal since there was nothing else to be done, if not more righteous in Tony’s case.

It’s funny how this movie was all about Tony turning away from the person he was in AoU (a person who created Ultron without seeking permission from a higher power) and Steve wanting the agency that Tony acted upon in AoU, yet everyone is STILL anti-Tony and pro-Steve