pd shut up

someone once told me that “obsession isn’t the same thing as love” and tbh it shook me up and i still think about it because… do i even love??? or am i just obsessed with everything that i’m passionate about? because w bpd, when i love something, i become obsessed with it, so for someone to tell me that those two aren’t interchangeable really messed me up

People without PD’s: The key to a healthy relationship is honesty!! be open and communicate with ur partner!!!

Someone with a PD: *is open and honest to their partner, talks about their feelings*

People without PD’s: ABUSIVE!!!! MANIPULATIVE!!! BAD!!!! HORRIBLE PERSON!!!!!! UR ABUSIVE!!!!!

Favorite person: sorry I kinda disappeared there for a while, I was busy

Me: haha its okay I only panicked for about twenty minutes before dissociating for the entire four hours you were gone :))

Fp/depended: yeah I went out and got my permit today and went shopping and bought a brand new dress with my friends but I’m heading off to voice lessons right now so I’ll talk to you later, just wanted to send a quick text to say I love you!!

Me, translating it for myself: yeah I went out and had a bunch of fun without you with friends I love way more than you, and now I’m going to go do another thing that isn’t spending time with you because I secretly hate you and wish you were dead. I just wanted to send you a text and slap you in the face with how much I hate you!!