Suggesting that disabled people are “too expensive” to live is patently bigoted.
Suggesting that it’s fine for parents/potential parents to only want abled kids is patently bigoted.
Framing disabled kids as too expensive and too much work is ableist and disgusting.
Is this how you talk about the needs of abled kids? As being “too much work” and “too expensive” and “a burden”? The needs and lives of disabled kids are not less valid than those of abled kids.