paranoid futures

WARNING SIGNS
  • <p> Emotional manipulation is about control. The goal is to gain power over the situation, over you. Manipulation is accomplished through toxic tactics, behaviors, actions and attitudes.
  • Toxic people are controlling, insecure and self-serving.
  • TRUST YOUR GUT
  • (Your feelings are valid. If someone makes you feel uneasy that is reason enough to avoid them.)
  • Over talking, barely listening
  • (If someone controls the conversation and/or doesnt really listen to you, be wary.)
  • Charming, too good to be true
  • (coming as everything you want, agreeing too easily, too perfect.)
  • Overbearing, too many compliments
  • (Preoccupied with a trait, story of yours. An unusual level of flattery.)
  • Asking too personal questions
  • (Wanting you to share personal details. Becoming irritated even jokingly when you refuse.)
  • Expensive, over the top gifts
  • (Unwarranted lavish gifts, trips)
  • Must be right, must “win” the discussion, argument
  • (everything’s a debate)
  • Refuses to apologize
  • (Seems insincere, can’t apologize or excuses bad behavior, blame-shifts. If they spill their drink, it’s the waiter fault for putting it too close to their arm.)
  • Passive aggressive
  • (Eyes rolls, silent treatment, criticisms disguised as comments, stubbornness, intentional mistakes, disregarding time)
  • Drama Queen, Drama King
  • (They are always in the midst of some turmoil that’s usually someone elses fault.)
  • Negativity, Complaining
  • (They complain, find fault in basically anything. Especially if you suspect they’re already upset.)
  • Saying one thing but doing another
  • (Words don’t match their actions. Say they never lie but lie to a stranger)
  • Lyings even the small ones
  • (Omitting information, changing stories, twisting the truth)
  • Grandiose stories
  • (Something feels off. Trying to hard to impress you or others.)
  • Tales of woe
  • (Campaigning for your sympathy or pity)
  • Badmouthing Ex’s
  • (Talking negatively about anyone is a bad sign. Healthy people don’t vent to strangers)
  • Sharing way too much too early on
  • (Telling you stories or details that seem too personal and may make you uncomfortable)
  • Gossipping
  • (People gossip to make themselves feel/look better. They tear others down to lift themselves up. Sooner or later they’ll do it to you too.)
  • Disrespectful, disloyal
  • (Excusing bad behavior like cheating, lying is a small jump to mistreating you.)
  • Talks down to service people, strangers (watch how they treat people who can do nothing for them)
  • Hero mentality
  • (Always the savior, always right, people are lucky to have them)
  • Victim Mentality
  • (Someone else is to blame for their problems; ex, family, friends, strangers, boss and coworkers)
  • Feeling drained after spending time together
  • (The people closest to you should lift you higher. Not deplete you.)
  • Constant Attention/Reassurance
  • (needs validation to feel good. Becomes upset without reassurance)
  • Insecure
  • (Easily upset or angry. Overreactions to perceived slights, injustices or normally minor issues)
  • Little to no boundaries
  • (Invades your space, occupies too much of your time)
  • Too Eager to please
  • (Willing to sacrifice own needs for your wants)
  • Offering advice or opinions, Pointing out insecurites,
  • (Healthy people don’t give unwanted advice or opinions.)
  • History of toxic relationships or failed jobs
  • (Especially if they are never at fault. It was the other person.)
  • Jumping into the relationship
  • (Saying your their best friend, soulmate to early on. Using social media to prove their relationship. Oversharing photos and posts about you. Inside jokes and texts are needed to validate  They may share texts with others to brag or as proof.)
  • Validation, cares too much of other opinions.
  • (Needs to be seen as “good” by others)
  • Put downs, sarcasm, judging
  • (Using sarcasm in place of a real conversation. Putting down you or others.)
  • Expects you to be grateful
  • (Gets upset if you are not as grateful or as impresses as they think you should be.)
  • Makes you feel like you owe them
  • Controlled by their past
  • (If their business failed you shouldn’t start a business. Their past dictates everyone’s future.)
  • Paranoid
  • (Is sure others dislike them or are out to hurt them)
  • Self-centered
  • (Confidence inspires others. Conceited people are unhappy with another’s success and good fortune. They believe that it is owed to them)
  • Jealousy
  • (Makes comments about others. Doesnt like to be upstaged. Feels threatened by others happiness.)
  • Inattention
  • (Selectively ignoring you, paying too much attention to their phone, talking to others instead of you.)
  • If you find yourself making excuses for anothers bad behavior (behavior you would not tolerate from yourself or others) that’s a warning sign.
  • Healthy individuals are respectful, loyal and honest people who value integrity and humility. 
  • Toxic people divert responsibility, blame others, refuse to apologize  and are insincere. 
  • They disregard others boundaries, feelings, wants and needs for their own.
  • If you are disrespected, mistreated, used or abuse you have every right to stand up for yourself.
  • If someone becomes upset or angry at your boundaries then that’s where their respect for you ends. 
  • Remember you are the company you keep. You will bring out your own toxic behaviors if you surround yourself with toxic people.
  • (If you lie with a dog, don’t be surprised when you get fleas.)
  • Emotional manipulation is emotional abuse. 
  • Do not justify or excuse hurtful or harmful behavior and actions.
  • Save yourself the trouble, walk away. Trust your gut and find someone who treats you right.
  • Let it be. Let people live their lives.
  • You can’t save, change or help another person who disrespects you or others, who sees no issue in their actions, who doesn’t want to change.</p>
Bago ka mabaliw sa pagiging paranoid kakaisip ng NEGATIBO sa relationship niyo in the future, na “IIWAN KA NIYA” o “IPAGPAPALIT KA SA IBA” o “MAGSASAWA DIN SIYA”. Pwede ba, ISIPIN MO MUNA YUNG NOW! I-enjoy mo, i-cherish at i-take advantage mo yung time na meron ka, yung moment na kasama siya. I-work out mo yung possibilities para hindi mangyari ang kinatatakutan mo, be the wisest, the most creative, exciting and loving one para sa kanya. Remember, YOU ATTRACT AND DO THE THINGS THAT YOU ALWAYS THINK AND BREW ON.
A Potential Threat
  • King and Metal Bat Run into Saitama and the Mini Genos' at Mouse Sushi, and he's still a tad bit paranoid of future suitors for Nii.
  • -Mini Genos' are happily eating as the grown ups talk.-
  • Metal Bat: Hey dude, quit giving kids the evil eye like that. He probably wasn't looking at Nii.
  • Saitama: Can't help it. I get this sinking feeling they might be when I'm not looking.
  • King: It sure seems out of character for you to be so anxious about this, Saitama-shi.
  • Saitama: Well blame that on Metal Bat for planting it in my head.[-stops Roku from trying to use his flame thrower to shoot the plates off the conveyor belt-]
  • Metal Bat: Oi, I said to watch out for him, I didn't say turn into a paranoid Mother Hen.
  • Saitama: Argh, this is so stupid.
  • -They eventually finish up and leave.-
  • King: Anyway, Saitama-shi, I think perhaps you're being too critical of those who will chase after Nii. Usually it's the other way around.
  • Saitama: Huh? What do you mean?
  • King: Well, for example in this anime I once saw, the dad had always assumed that he had to keep guys away from his daughter because she'd eventually fall for one of them. But in reality she'd been dating a guy that "she" was going after.
  • Metal Bat: Hey, that makes sense. I'm always paranoid of the day my Sis will run into that shitty Amai Mask guy cause I know she's a huge fan of his; which is why I sometimes white lie to her about finding time to arrange a luncheon between them.
  • Saitama: So what are you saying? That I should watch out for the one Nii likes instead of wasting my time with the small fry?
  • King: Yup. Though honestly you're probably safe since Nii's still too young to develop a fondness for anyone in such a way.
  • Metal Bat: Yeah, he's still a brat. Plenty of time for you to prepare.
  • Saitama: Guess you guys are right...
  • -Are just about to cross the intersection when Mumen Rider
  • stops at their corner.-
  • Mumen: Hey guys.
  • Metal Bat/King/Saitama: Yo./Afternoon, Mumen-kun./Hey.
  • -Notices Nii holding Saitama's hand and smiles.-
  • Mumen: I like your dress, Nii. It's cute on you.
  • -Drives off as the light changes as he waves to them. Nii beams as he pats his dress after the compliment, watching and waving to Mumen.-
  • Metal Bat/King/Saitama: .....;;;;;
  • -Saitama as he cracks his knuckles-
  • Saitama: Heh heh heh, so you've decided to betray me in that way, eh Mumen...?
  • King: S-Saitama-shi, calm down. You're expression is scaring the kids a bit. [-except for Nii who is still happy about Mumen's compliment-]
  • Metal Bat: (So he likes older guys, eh? Though I doubt he even noticed...)

bamonsoulmates  asked:

Gabi, we are all worried that they go with Bonenzo to replace Bamon !!! Cause let's face it Enzo is a bit like Damon and CD said there will be hate before love. Remind you of something? Oh yes, Bamon !!! Plus MM just said in an interview that Bonenzo is pretty solid. I don't know what to thing ! I'm so fucked up ! It seems the writers wil screw us all over again ! I can't be excited as yopu are for Bonenzo because of this ! Gabi, what do you think ???

Okay, so I’m just going to tackle this in a really long post. WOOT, here I go:

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