I hope you don’t mind if this is public (let me know)
but yeah… there is… even the creepy idolization and the fact most are just wannabes. BEING a sugar baby isn’t like being a pick up art but the community is basically the same, like ok, I know it’s NO WHERE on the same level but I’ve seen girls legit brag about scamming a guy out of 5k and then he’s mad he wants more when she didn’t tell him she wanted a platonic relationship? and then she called him salt? like with toxic sb’s it’s scamming and with PUA’s it’s nonconsent (no where on the same level but both involve depersonalizing the person) there’s a difference between having an SD/client/customer that’s absolute shit and secretly hating him (or in club environments having to “get into the zone” like the guys consented at the door basically to be hustled by all means possible) because you need the money and depersonalizing ALL of them. like I said, I know some work environments are shitty and they don’t ACT like 3 dimensional human beings but not all are.
oh AND PUA feel the need to brag about “field reports” and “lay reports” while sugar babies HAVE to post pictures of everything they get and all the money they get and idk it’s kinda tacky and yr gonna get outed faster that way. it’s just so like LOOK AT ME I NEED APPROVAL there’s a difference between “wow i worked hard and am proud of this” then “WOW look at how wglamorous/awesome I am” like shit leighalanna is proud of her tupperware, it’s some nice shit, but that’s not gonna get 10k notes so no one cares!!! Im proud of you girl!!! LOL