pangendered

anonymous asked:

i have 2 questions, one, is it possible to be all genders at the same time? and two, how would i know if i am that? ive always thought i was a cis girl but after thinking about it for a bit im not even sure what would define me as a girl, and i like the idea of people calling me by any pronouns, not just 'she', so im a bit confused. thanks!

Okay so 1) no, it is not possible to be *all* genders. This is because some genders are restricted to a certain group of people. For example, only intersex people can be intergender and only native Americans can be two-spirit. However, if you feel like you’re all genders you can be, there’s the word “maxigender”!
Some people who feel that way also identify as pangender, but I’d be careful with that term, since “pan” means “all”, so “pangender” is heavily associated with cultural appropriation (because of the reasons I already named)

2) this is a difficult question, because gender is experienced differently by everyone! Maybe a maxigender person can answer this better?
The only advice I can give you is testing out different terms and see what feels most like you

Hope i could help :)


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Why do people make shit arguments against queer representation by saying things like, “The percentage of LGBTQ people in the population isn’t that high.” Well neither is the percentage of vampires, but we see plenty of them in our media don’t we?

a shoutout for those who aren't shouted out

shoutout to aromantic people
shoutout to bigender people
shoutout to demigender people
shoutout to pangender people
shoutout to polygender people
shoutout to intersex people
shoutout to polysexual people
shoutout to polyamorous people
shoutout to grey-asexual people
shoutout to greyromantic people
shoutout to lithromantic people
shoutout to quoiromantic people
shoutout to questioning people
shoutout to heteroflexible people
shoutout to homoflexible people
shoutout to people whose romantic orientation doesn’t line up with their sexual orientation
shoutout to lgbt+ poc
shoutout to lgbt+ muslims
shoutout to disabled lgbt+ people
shoutout to mentally-ill lgbt+ people

How to Feel more Feminine (for closeted Trans Girls)

· Part your hair
· Paint your nails with a clear coat of nail polish
· wear “Manly” Jewelery like a shark tooth necklace or a cross necklace (if you’re Religious) or a dog tag, or a mood ring
· wear panties under your Boxers or pants
· wear a cupless sports bra under your shirt
· wear slightly tinted chapstick
· wear eyeshadow that is a shade close to your skin tone
· paint your toenails & keep them hidden from unsupportive people under your socks

If You Can’t Say All Of This, Unfollow Me Now

Even if you’re Agender : I love you
Even if you’re Anongender : I love you
Even if you’re Bigender : I love you
Even if you’re Cisgender : I love you
Even if you’re Demigender : I love you
Even if you’re Genderfluid : I love you 
Even if you’re Gender Neutral : I love you
Even if you’re Non-Binary : I love you
Even if you’re Omnigender : I love you
Even if you’re Pangender : I love you
Even if you’re Transgender : I love you

If you are anything in-between or outside of the gender-identities mentioned: I love you

To all of the Trans Guys that have been misgendered today: you look handsome today

To all of the Trans Guys that haven’t started T yet: you are still handsome as fuck


To all of the Trans Guys that have to deal with Transphobia: Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits


To all of the Trans Guys that don’t want to go on T:
you’re still a real man no matter what anyone else says


To all of the Trans Guys that don’t want top and/or bottom surgery: You’re amazing the way you are


To all of the Trans Guys on their period right now: you’re strong never forget that


To all of the Trans Guys that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong


To all of the Trans Guys that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid


To all of the Trans Girls that have been misgendered today: you look pretty today


To all of the Trans Girls that haven’t started E yet: you’re still gorgeous as fuck


To all of the Trans Girls that have to deal with Transphobia: Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits


To all of the Trans Girls that don’t want to go on E: you’re still a real woman no matter what anyone else says


To all of the Trans girls that don’t want Top and/or Bottom surgery: you’re amazing the way you are


To all of the Trans Girls that have body hair: you are pretty


To all Trans Girls that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong


To all of the Trans Girls that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid


To all Non-Binary People that have been misgendered today: you look amazing today


To all Non-Binary People that haven’t started hormone therapy yet: you look great


To all Non-Binary People that have to deal with Transphobia:
Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits


To all Non-Binary People that don’t want to go on Hormone therapy:
you look fantastic


To all Non-Binary that don’t want top and/or bottom surgery: You’re amazing the way you are


To all Non-Binary people on their period right now: you’re strong never forget that


To all Non-Binary people with body hair: you’re amazing


To all Non-Binary people that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong


To all Non-Binary people that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid

To anyone who is questioning their romantic/sexual orientation and/or gender

Remember: Feelings first, labels later.

And if you decide to not label yourself or your label changes? That’s okay, too. Just keep feeling.

tips on being nb

here are some tips to ~properly~ being nonbinary, in step-by-step form!!!

step 1: are u nonbinary? if yes, move on to step 2!

step 2: that’s it. ur done. congrats, ur nonbinary & don’t need to change anything abt urself!!! now go out there & b urself, u beautiful, amazing person

  • Me, on a date: Yeah I'm pansexual so I'm attracted to all genders.
  • Date: Haha but there's only two genders so you mean you're bisexual.
  • Me, shoving breadsticks into my purse: Sorry but I need to go home like right now, immediately.

things that are a-okay:

-fitting the stereotypes of your gender!

things that are not a-okay:

-expecting everyone to fit the stereotypes of a gender!

-expecting everyone to reject the stereotypes of a gender!