overthinking is not good

anonymous asked:

how did you get over the anxiety of posting art online? cuz im drawing 13 rn but idk if i'll be able to force mysel to post it sgdgfh

this is probably gunna sound kinda cocky but i never had that anxiety. i was “the art kid” growing up like, everyone always told me my art was good, so as a kid the second i got the opportunity to start posting on deviantART i yoinked that shit up and started posting like everything. i mean ive had spurs since then where like, ill see smtn specific that gets me s o down on my art i dont post for a while, but uhh idk. its how i express myself and how i communicate and its like this is gunna sound lame but its validating to me as a person so inevitably i come back to it. which isnt a good answer but like maybe dont overthink it yknow, just get in there and keep learning and growing and some day youll be able to look back on your online archives and be like ‘look how far ive come’ and thats gunna be a great feeling dude.

female zodiac

aries:

  • argumentative and likes to be right
  • defensive
  • tells so many stories
  • self-confident
  • passionate

taurus:

  • BEAUTIFUL like always so pretty
  • reserved/shy at first
  • so fun when you get to know them
  • selfish
  • shit-talkers

gemini:

  • really easy to talk to 
  • likes to talk about themselves
  • cuties
  • can be shy or super outgoing
  • smart

cancer:

  • SENSITIVE
  • smiles a lot
  • has a quiet voice
  • lowkey crazy
  • overthinks everything

leo:

  • really pretty
  • thinks they’re too good 
  • so funny
  • really good sense of style
  • talks a lot of shit

virgo:

  • OVERTHINKING
  • bad at communication
  • wants everything to be perfect
  • such good listeners
  • really good friends

libra:

  • FLIRTY
  • loves to be loved
  • fashionable
  • cannot make a decision for the life of them
  • gets walked all over

scorpio:

  • low key
  • genuinely really cool
  • really fucking smart
  • CRAZY
  • can be either super clingy or super distant

sagittarius:

  • CANNOT BE WRONG
  • thinks they’re way deeper than they actually are
  • unique
  • so funny
  • just wants to be loved

capricorn:

  • good hygiene
  • high expectations
  • super determined 
  • cold
  • can be fun when they actually let loose

aquarius:

  • honest
  • loves to laugh and mess around
  • artsy
  • likes to be alone 
  • natural beauty

pisces:

  • emotional wreck
  • manipulative
  • pretty
  • really bad at relationships tbh
  • so smart

REMINDER:

Originally posted by myspaceglitter

Things the Types Need to Hear

ESFP: Look, I get it, you leave people in the dust because you know how crazy and all over the place your life can be and you’re also crazy scared to let somebody in just to have it end up with you accidentally leaving them and both of you getting hurt, but emotional intimacy and real depth in friendships are 100% worth it in the end and it’s the struggle and fight of a lifetime to keep them in your life, but it’s also the greatest gift and you can’t keep denying yourself that intimacy and friendship. 

ISFP: I know you have a lot of great desires and wonderful dreams and they might seem too far off and too crazy and too beautiful to come true, but you have them for a reason, and you gotta stop paralyzing yourself with fear and take that first step and throw yourself into the unknown, and that’s the scariest part, I know, but we both know you’re braver than you look, and that your passion can make it happen. 

ENFP: I know that the moment you hit an obstacle or two when you first start working towards that far off dream, it’s scary and it makes you want to crumble and run away to a new thing like you think you always do, but don’t! You’re miles more tenacious and capable than you give yourself credit for and you’ve got to discipline yourself and trust that your talents and optimism can and will propel you through whatever is keeping you from your goals. 

INFP: I know it’s hard to feel understood and it’s easy to let yourself become bitter by the ways of the world or whatever’s happening, but closing yourself off to others isn’t going to save you the pain. You have a natural capacity to understand others that’s hard for the other types to grasp and when you stop yourself from using that talent, or use it for selfish reasons, you’re doing yourself a massive injustice. 

ESTP: Listen, I totally get that the world is full of fun and interesting things and you want to experience them all, but you’ve got to remember that for a lot of the people that come along with you, they’re there to experience YOU as much as they’re there for the thing itself. Don’t let yourself forget that half the fun of anything is who you’re doing it with. 

ISTP: I know you generally don’t mean to yell or be rude when your irritated and that it’s really just a passing thing and you don’t generally care all that much, but just apologize to people after you’ve calmed down! Explain it to them and that you don’t mean it! Admit to yourself that you care enough about them to try to make amends, even when you’re just being a little crotchety; it means a lot to the feelers lol. 

ENTP: You’re a genuinely fun person to be around and you usually rack up a reputation for that, but just because you’re funny and witty and damn smart doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings and problems that need to be externalized, and trust me, the right people will be more than willing to talk about what’s really happening in your life one minute and go back to elaborate jokes the next without a problem. Don’t stunt your emotional growth for the sake of brevity. 

INTP: It’s okay to not know what to do in an emotional situation. Like, it’s genuinely okay. If somebody’s opening up to you, half the time your presence and you listening is 95% of what they need in that moment. Don’t avoid the situations just because it causes writer’s block emotionally. Emotional availability comes with experience. You’ll learn. Just, be your goofy self and the rest will come with time. 

ENFJ: You’ve got to realize that although holding yourself to such a high standard is noble and praiseworthy, that it sometimes eclipses your ability to be a good friend when that was the goal in the first place. You’re human and can’t do everything for your friends that you’d want to be able to do when they need help, and profusely apologizing and beating yourself up for it just shifts the focus off of helping your friend and turns it to you. Accept your humanity, and just do what you can. They appreciate the help, I promise. 

INFJ: I know you have a tendency to feel misunderstood and want people to show you that they love you and care about you, but you don’t get to say you’re fine AND disappear on people. Either say you’re not okay and pull back, or say you’re okay and stick around long enough for somebody to see through the BS. In my experience, y'all have a habit of making things a self-fulfilling prophecy, and that doesn’t do you any good! Be forward, be honest, and just be vulnerable; they care more than you convince yourself they do. 

ESFJ: I need to be straight with y'all. Learn how to talk about something other than your 4-5 current fixations. In my experience, N’s have a crazy hard time being close with you because you keep bringing the topic back to one of your current Favorite Things™, whether it be the semester abroad you just got back from or the first date that’s scheduled for two weeks from now. Expand your area of interest and you’ll find people will be much more authentic with you. 

ISFJ: You have this really amazing ability to notice the small things about people and that helps you show them you care about them in these really great and meaningful ways, but you can’t let yourself overthink the small things you notice about people. One of my good ISFJ friends started poking around trying to see if alcoholism ran in my family after noticing I’d been drinking wine a lot recently. You might have an intention to help, but overthinking/overanalyzing like that and trying to involve yourself in helping can hurt your friendships. 

ESTJ: Your presence is powerful and intense and that’s great at times, but you’ve got to let out your goofy fun side more, and hoe we’ve all seen it before, you’re a damn riot after a beer or two. People, in general, care more about fun than having every plan go right during the night/event. Be willing to be fun more, you’re so good at it. 

ISTJ: I know you get frustrated with yourself because you want to do new things and get out there and be a fun person, but the thing is, you’re so much better at being a responsible, caring person. Befriend the chaotic, crazy, lovable rascals and let them bring the fun to you (or more often than not, drag you kicking and screaming to where the fun is). 

ENTJ: Look, I’m an INTJ, so I know how hard this is to swallow, but showing you care about a person sometimes isn’t so much giving them solutions to their problems or trying to correct an issue; a lot of the other types literally just want you to listen and hear them out. And you gotta do that sometimes, babe. And shut your damn mouth while they’re telling you everything, okay? Just. Let them finish. 

INTJ: For the love of all that is holy, just cry already. Cry alone if you have to, or better yet, just go to the person you’d literally murder a thousand people for and freakin’ cry about all the crap you’ve been bottling up for the past two months and accept that you can have razor-sharp rationale and be a damn human at the same time. And just admit that you’re insecure about your relationship with that person because you care about them so much and you’re not the best at trusting people.

My opinion about the signs

Okay… I know this is not really my type of content but I always find these interesting to read so I thought I’ll post one myself.

Aries: you can count on them, don’t take things too seriously, get mad at small things, much fun to hang out with, somewhat egoistic, as soon as they find someone more interesting than you they will hang out with them (though, they will not forget about you)

Taurus: I always become extremly good friends with them, so relaxing to hang out with them, weird humour, very determined and stubborn, talk a loooot, in a relationship they need a lot of physical interaction, they make me feel like home, laughs about every little thing, cute laugh

Gemini: fun people to hang out with, their humour is so… unexpected like they say things you would have never thought about, tend to hide their serious feelings/emotions, take the side of the person they want to impress, think too much about how they can impress someone rather than just beeing themselves (even through their personality is way more charming)

Cancer: a little too sensitive for my taste, can get very annoying but they are too cute to be mad at, need a lot of protection, very giggly, great story-tellers (but they tend to tell you the same story over and over again), materialistic, put you first, loves from the bottom of their heart, pretty smart but dumb at the same time

Leo: warmhearted people, try to be funny and cool all the time (but fail eventually lol too cute), buys you a lot of gifts, attention-lovers, likes to meet new people, very vain when it comes to their appearance, very nervous when having tests/exams, naturally intelligent (unfortunately this doesn’t help them much in school), enjoys good food

Virgo: stress themselves way too much, overthink everything, usually very good in school, gets mad and stressed when things don’t work out as they thought they would, sort of a boring personality, they can talk sooooo much, very sensitive (!!!), tend to be too harsh on themselves, high expectations of themselves

Libra: naturally flirty af, cute smile, scared to be alone, talks most of the time about themselves, makes sure everybody is getting enough attention, very lazy, does things in the last minute, usually the one studying for a test/exam the lesson before, clumsy, needs protection, don’t like confrontations/fights, not good at making decisions or being on time

Scorpio: just like libras they talk a lot about themselves, get veeeeery obsessive over things and people, their staring is so intense that it makes me feel uncomfortable, cares a lot about their loved ones, scared to show feelings, makes very weird but cute compliments you would have never gotten from anybody else, sporty, try to flirt but that’s just a little… cringe-worthy lol

Sagittarius: now… these people are the absolut oppostie of me, always awkward when we hang out together, not the most loyal boyfriend/girlfriend/friend, always wearing top outfits, always looking good, cares a lot about their hair or in general their appearance, not the best in school, party every weekend, straightforward

Capricorn: makes sooo many cute compliments, I have this weird attraction towards them, extremly sexy, intelligent, can’t sit still, they are very weird people, humour consists of sarcasm and dad jokes and can be very dry, know way too well how to seduce people, not the best in expressing their feeling but they try, ABSOLUT SWEETHEARTS, gets shy when being complimented, very sensitive, never forget their mistakes and always regret them (no matter how small it was)

Aquarius: makes me feel like home at the very first meeting, either pretty chill or being pissed off at silly things, don’t like stubborn people, tendency to be very religious, very good friends, will do everything for and with you, works hard to reach their goals, plans everything weeks/months before

Pisces: I either like or can’t stand them, actually quite egoistic, not the best in using the right words, sensitive af 24/7, dark humour, cries a lot, scared to hurt someones feelings (even if they don’t like the person), avoids confrontations/fights by not saying what’s really on their mind, in a fight they will say the most hurtful things (and will regret them their whole life), using the victim-card way too often, most of the time smiling

some people make me feel so worthless, it hurts sometimes, I just wish to sleep for over a week without dealing with anything.

Last night I was thinking about Ford’s time in the portal (Mostly because of all of those new meta posts floating around) and something struck me.

We’ve never seen Ford’s legs.

Throughout the entire show, mostly after he’s rescued from the portal, we always see him wearing long pants. The only times that I thought could contradict this were when Ford was sleeping in TLMC, Ford’s DDAMD outfit, his ripped up clothes after the crash in DAMVTF, and maybe even something during weirdmageddon. (I’m not counting Speedo Ford. Thats not canon folks)

but

even in those

we never get a glimpse

OF WHAT’S UNDER HIS PANTS.

Why am I talking about this? I was thinking, there is no way in the multiverse that Stanford “Needs to be Rescued 142.86% of the Time” Pines could POSSIBLY get through the Portal with only scars (THAT WE DON’T EVEN GET TO SEE!!). Maybe, just maybe, underneath those pants he has a prosthetic leg? Maybe even Automail like from FMAB (He’s a dimension hopper, anything is possible! Literally)? Maybe he lost his leg for only a short period of time before having it healed or regrown with advanced healing techniques in another dimension? Or maybe he just has more embarrassing leg tattoos and he must hide them at all costs.

Either way, I thought that this might be a cool thought to have. Maybe I just gave somebody a new headcanon? Who knows! Maybe we’ll finally see those legs in the comic and this post was all for nothing. Maybe Ford just really likes wearing pants.

Sharing

Requested by @thing-you-do-with-that-thing​: A Misha x reader x Jensen in which the reader is Misha’s girlfriend, but has a thing for Jensen. Jensen returns the feelings, and they surprise the reader by telling her they’ve shared before.

Word Count: 2100ish

Warning: smut, threesome

A/N: Hope y’all enjoy! XOXO

Misha knows.

You tried to ignore it, and since you realized that wasn’t going to help, you’ve just been trying to hide it. But he knows.

You’ve been caught staring at Jensen one too many times, have laughed too loudly at his jokes, have let yourself text him about silly things in the middle of the night, and now Misha knows.

Keep reading

I’ve always been good at overthinking.
The machinery in my head is constantly turning and when I try to shut it off, the hot iron material burns my hands. So I let things continue and the sounds become louder. The same words repeat over and over again: ERROR, ERROR, ERROR. There is an error in my system and the hardware is malfunctioning, but I can’t stop. I can’t stop thinking and the oil from the machines is leaking. Soon enough, it will set fire to my head.

I’ve always been good at hiding.
Even my mother can’t find me sometimes. She’ll search for me in every room of our house, not realizing that I’m following in her shadow. I feel sorry for her, but she’s the one who taught me how to blend in. How to mold my edges and become someone else. How to be the perfect daughter, the one all her peers praise, but deep down don’t care about.

I’ve always been good at miscommunication.
My father doesn’t talk much, but sometimes I get the feeling that he’s speaking to me without words. His eyes always flicker so bright and the furrow that forms between his eyebrows is prominent. When he meets my gaze and his lips curl, I try not to flinch. It’s a smile you will never understand the meaning of. I learned from him best, how to make my silence feel like a thunderstorm, but he never taught me how to control it. I’ve wrecked places and left people homeless.

I’ve always been good at pretending.
My friends are the best audience any actor could ever ask for. They remember that it’s all a show and none of it is real. So when I bruise myself, the concept that I will forget and move on in an hour or so is something that is commonly understood. Nobody ever expects me to actually get hurt. Nobody ever expects a plot twist. I hope that the day I betray them, they don’t get too angry.

I’ve always been good at empathizing.  
Tell me your problems and I’ll make them my own. Tell me your imperfections and I’ll give you pieces of myself, if you want them. Tell me you’re lonely and I’ll be at your doorstep. God, I’ll crush my own heart between my palms if you asked me to. I’ll do anything to make anybody happy, even if it brings my own doom. I am a tragedy.

—  Some of us are written by Shakespeare 

culturalrebel  asked:

Hello I need to cry about Hiromu Takahashi

This is a safe space because I also need to cry about Hiromu Takahashi at least once on a given day.

  • Hiromu’s character work is great. He is a sweet beautiful boy who has a little stuffed kitty he carries with him, but he also has no trouble helping his friends win a match (ie cheating). He usually wins clean but he ain’t mad getting helped by his people either.
  • So Hiromu is one of the few wrestlers I can think of who displays blue-orange morality. Which is like… really hard to pull off? Especially as a wrestler? But at least for me, I don’t feel a dissonance or hypocrisy between the guy who cries when he loses, because he just wasn’t good enough, and that same guy being willing to stomp on his friend’s opponent when they’re already on the ground. His values lie somewhere other than the rest of ours.
  • Maybe it’s his devotion to LIJ? Maybe he’s just trying to seem unhinged? I don’t know. I’m very capable of seeing depth where there isn’t any. I think it’s the LIJ thing. The rest of his stablemates love and protect and accept him and if you’re someone who’s always been weird, you know the kind of devotion that inspires. 
  • Like, when Taguchi Japan was trying to recruit Sanada (what??? it happened, it was weird) after their last tag match, Hiromu was holding on to him as if begging him not to go anywhere. It was pretty clear that Sanada wasn’t seriously considering the offer in any way, but Hiromu was still not taking any chances. 
  • This is actually awesome because his character could easily be “loyally devoted LIJ soldier” but there’s a lot more to him than that! He has disagreements with them, even with Naito, to whom he’s especially devoted. And they fuck with him a little like any good older sibling should, but they love him and that’s very clear.
  • And then there’s KUSHIDA. He HATES Kushida. He hates Kushida MORE than he hates Dragon Lee, who took his mask from him back when he was in Mexico. Why? I don’t know. Maybe it’s because Kushida is his equal in most ways, including adorable sweetness. Kushida is the person who most often makes him feel that horrible sinking feeling of having failed. And he knows that’s not actually a character flaw of Kushida’s, which might make it even worse– he knows it’s just that they’re well-matched, but he just can’t stand that feeling of not being good enough. I love their rivalry.

Anyway Hiromu is the best and sweetest and i love him. Please feel free to cry to me about him at any time. That goes for everyone.

Masterpost On How To Improve Mental Health

Thought i would collect all the things I personally do to feel better about myself
I hope this at least helps some of you :)

•Stop overthinking
•Be kind and good things will happen
•Cry if you need to, you’ll feel better afterwards
•Cuddle with your pets or your friends pets
•Hug your friends
•Hug your parents
•Take some ‘me time’
•Take care of your body! Drink at least 1.5l a day! If you don’t like the taste of pure water, then mix it with some taste you like, but drink. Especially when it’s hot outside
•Appreciate yourself, you’re doing great!
•Walk around outside in the sun
•Sing to yourself
•Do what makes you happy!
•Smell flowers
•Eat what you like
•Buy gifts for yourself or just do so,ething nice for yourself!
•Use face masks if you like them, leave them on for longer if you feel you need to
•Dress how you like
•Use the makeup you like or none at all
•Don’t let anyone tell you what you can and can’t do
•Smile at yourself
•Smile at other people
•Love yourself
•Scream if you need to
•Go for a run
•Spend time with yourself
•Learn a new language
•Read
•Study, be a smartass
•Watch a movie
•Dance
•Spend time with people you love
•Remind yourself that you are not alone!
•Talk to people if you don’t feel good! Talking about what bothers you can make you feel better
•Go out
•Watch funny videos
•Party with friends
•Go to are lonely new place
•Learn something new
•Draw
•Meet new people
•Be thankful
•Lay in the sun
•Go for are swim
•Eat ice cream
•Dress well

Don’t judge your happiness. Don’t use it against yourself. 

It doesn’t matter if the thing that made you happy is “weird,” it doesn’t matter if it’s small, it doesn’t matter if you think it would be insignificant to other people. It doesn’t matter if you think you’re too old for it or if you are embarrassed by some part of it. 

Your brain will likely try and tell you that you really shouldn’t be happy, or that the fact you are happy about this thing shows there is something wrong with you. Do not listen to this bs! As long as it is ethical, embrace the good and don’t overthink it!