My mom is overprotective and anime/cosplay hater.
When I was 15 she stopped to give me permission to go to anime cons. I didn’t go for almost 3 years until one day i decided to lie to her, but it is always a problem and sometimes whrn i am in danger to get caugh i have to aprologize to my friends bc i won’t go this time.
I am pissed, i am tired of her atitude, i will be 19 in a week and I cant stand this anymore, when i wanna talk about the topic she won’t listen, she always think she’s right. She won’t think that if i became a liar is bc of her fault. She always gets nervous or agressive when i say something about it.
I tried once to ask kindly for permission and she screamed “ABSOLUTELY NO WAY I WILL EVER LET YOU GO TO THAT PLACE FULL OF CREEPS”
My mom doesn’t think I’m a creep, because she doesn’t know me.
I don’t have very much friends that like that kind of thing in person… i feel like i could have met a lot of awesome people and have a lot of fun if my mom had just let me by myself.
She also has never let me be independent in some other things normal people is and i was so pissed of that i told her i was tired of that but she keeps incisting (i dont know if i wrote it right tbh).
Today i was planning of going to a con by myself in a bus but my sister who support me (so my dad) told me that she want to go with me. She (sister) told me she could take me but apparently mom wants to go anyways. I will do everything i can to go to there. Not bc i am dying to go to that con but I am tired of depending of her.
To be honest i have the feeling about my mother finding out about my plans but as i said I AM FUCKING TIRED I will go no matter what, i don’t care anymore about what she thinks but i am scared, she is so obcessed she could do ANYTHING to prevent me from going, it doesn’t matter if she has to yell at me in public or pull me by the arm, etc etc. Wish me luck.