All those posts against Octavia and Ilian are so fake I can’t even finish reading them till the end. Let’s admit for once that those “she needs to wait” “she needs time to overcome” “isn’t it too early for another relationship” only comes when it’s YOUR ship that has sunk or when this new ship stands between your ship’s way. And there is no period of time equal for everyone to overcome loss??? People overcome loss and pain differently? And the right time for one might be wrong for another? And it’s a tv show for fucks sake we can’t wait ages for a character to overcome because a season has limits and we want new ideas? I’m already getting bored how much writers make Clarke struggle because she still mourns for her ex I want Bellarke we all do actually and it’s bloody time they start action but Octavia and Ilian needed to happen. I knew that since they first glanced at each other and there is nothing wrong with that. They both have the right to live their lives to the fullest especially when they don’t even know how much is there left for them to survive. So just I don’t know stop being judges okay enjoy the show and realize that those characters are people struggling to live? They need to love and feel pain and all? It’s human it’s real and it doesn’t always have to be too right or realistic or exactly the way you want it to be.