2. Laughing about rape.
3. Being happy that a person/character got raped.
4. Blaming the victim for being raped.
5. BLAMING THE VICTIM.
This is not a fun plot twist. It is not a thing for non OQ-shippers to get excited about. It is not something to further another ship. It is not good storytelling (unless they acknowledge that it is rape and they deal with the implications there, which we all know they won’t). It is fucking disgusting, and if you’re not outraged, that is rape culture and that is a problem.
Just because a rape victim is a man does not mean he is not a victim.
Let me repeat that: JUST BECAUSE A RAPE VICTIM IS A MAN DOES NOT MEAN HE IS NOT A VICTIM.