out magazing

“I found myself in a pattern of being attracted to people who were somehow unavailable, and what I realized was that I was protecting myself because I equate the idea of connection and love with trauma and death. I had to do a lot of work on the couch to really get to a place where I was able to show up to a relationship with someone who was actually capable of being in one— and that took a lot of trial and error. And I’m still working on all that stuff—that will never stop. But I definitely want kids…I want to share.” - Zachary Quinto