otp:-romione

sometimes i think about the early days of ron and hermione’s marriage, after the honeymoon period but before hugo and rose. i just can’t imagine that that period would have been particularly pretty, ron realizing that hermione isn’t the kind of person who is going to take care of him and coddle him the way that his mum did. hermione, while she has deep respect for everything everything molly weasley has ever done and does, isn’t particularly inclined to busy herself with housework and cooking, and hermione is a passable cook but ron misses his mum’s cooking, you know? he misses the fact that his laundry and stuff was always just clean and folded for him. and hermione, her mind is academic. she wants to achieve great things by helping others who can’t help themselves. molly was the master of her home, that’s where she drew her power. but that’s just not the case for hermione.

so i wonder if maybe a couple years into their marriage hermione momentarily regretted her choice in marrying ron, someone who wanted a home like the one he grew up in, who wanted kids down the line, who, despite the fact that he’s known hermione as a badass independent witch who gets him out of trouble almost all the time, is not his mother and never will be. i would think that the first years after their marriage was a bit of a learning curve for him. 

and i imagine that hermione was a bit reticent to start a family. she, after all, was an only child, and as much as she had probably sometimes wished for the companionship of a sibling, seems to have gotten on quite well without the distraction of one (or several). but ron probably couldn’t imagine a childhood without siblings. it was probably a point of contention, something they should have probably talked about before getting married, but i bet they probably didn’t. 

but eventually rose is born, and with hermione nothing happens by accident. rose was planned, the pregnancy probably micromanaged, if she could, hermione probably would have been her own midwife. 

so that means at some point ron and hermione probably have a conversation that begins with ron saying something careless and flippant and a little insulting, and hermione says something along the lines of ‘my uterus, my rules’ and then they kind of have it out, hermione telling him she’s not molly, and that she neither has the time nor the inclination to birth and raise seven kids, unless he can find a potion that will grow him a uterus so he can gestate their children. 

but ron, instead of saying something mean like he would have when he was younger, probably just says something that’s unintentionally but incredibly sweet. he just wants to be a dad, but more importantly, he says, is that he thinks she’d be a great mum, and that he only wants kids if she’ll be their mother. and that’s when the tide turns in ron’s favor.

but hermoine still caps the kid count at two.

anonymous asked:

I don't think Ron went with Hermione when she went to Australia. I think he figured she wanted to be alone when she was reunited with her parents.

I can see where you’re coming from, but I personally disagree. Ron knew how hard it was for Hermione to wipe her parents memories and he even comforted her when she got upset about it at the Burrow when she was telling Ron and Harry about it, and he wanted to be there for emotional support. Was there a night after she was reunited with her parents and modified their memories where it was her and her parents spending time together while Ron did his own thing? Probably. But I can’t imagine Ron not going to Australia with Hermione. The way I picture it, is Hermione telling him when she’s going to leave and him telling her that he wants to go with her, and Hermione telling him that of course she wants him with her, but he shouldn’t feel obligated and that if he needs to stay home to be with his family, then he should. To which he probably responded, “Hermione, I’m coming with you.” I also can’t imagine either one of them wanting to be without the other at that point in time, especially after everything they had just endured over the past year or so.

Ron Weasley offered the stranger sitting next to him on the train half his sandwich, even though it was all he had.

Ron Weasley sacrificed himself for the good of Harry and Hermione at age eleven, because even then he thought they were more important than he was, and the ones worth saving.

Ron Weasley was Harry Potter’s first friend, and the first thing Harry ever had resembling a family. 

Ron Weasley lived in a cramped house, and wore hand me down robes, and he didn’t even think twice about offering his room and food and family to Harry every break, he offered him every thing he could and gave him everything he had.

Ron Weasley took care of Harry Potter and Hermione Granger when they were too busy taking care of the rest of the world to worry about themselves. 

Ron Weasley stood on broken bones when he was thirteen years old, to tell a man infamous for murder that if he planned on killing his best mate, he would have to go through him first.

Ron Weasley was the person Harry would miss most in the world.

Ron Weasley was a pureblood wizard who, from a very young age, devoted his life to abolishing blood status, even if he didn’t quite understand his own privilege. 

Ron Weasley’s greatest fears and insecurities were tied up in his two best friends seeing him the way he saw himself. They were tied up in the idea, imbedded deeply in Ron Weasley, that he was somehow inferior.  

Ron Weasley gave Dobby his own clothes and socks to be buried in, because he understood how important it would have been to him.

Ron Weasley thought about saving the house elves when everyone else forgot. 

If you don’t love Ron Weasley, The Boy Who Cared, I don’t know what books you read but they weren’t the same ones I did.

the number one argument i hear being used against romione is ‘they’re not intellectually compatible and hermione wouldn’t be satisfied with ron’s mediocrity’ like ?????????? what books have you read????? where are you getting these ideas?????? why are you dismissing someone’s intelligence just because it’s shown in a different way??????? why are you acting like the only way to be intelligent is academically??????? why?????

like there are so many different ways to be intelligent, just because it’s not shown in an academic sense doesn’t mean it doesn’t count. please stop.

  • Ginny Weasley who lost her best friend in the world when he went to Hogwarts, and waited a year to join him, only to find she had been replaced by Harry Potter and the smart girl who smiled at Ron like he confused her a little bit.
  • Ginny Weasley who went through her first year alone except for her diary, which was a comfort at first and a horrific terror next.
  • Ginny Weasley who went through horrible unspeakable things when she was eleven and nobody noticed.
  • Ginny Weasley who carried a Horcrux for almost a year and managed to keep her head above the water despite the odds being stacked against her.
  • Ginny Weasley who shouldered past this and was kind to people she thought deserved kindness and sharp tongued with a ready wand to people she thought didn’t. 
  • Ginny Weasley who had a chance to go to the Yule Ball with her hero and childhood crush, and went with Neville instead, because she saw the great in him before anybody else did, and wanted him to know he was worth it.
  • Ginny Weasley who defended Luna and liked her for the things that others didn’t.
  • Ginny Weasley who joined the D.A and fought even though she was a child, because it was the childrens war to fight.
  • Ginny Weasley who punched a fifth year Ravenclaw in the jaw when he started talking about Harry being a fraud, because she might be over him, but somebody needed to defend the boy who was trying to defend everybody else.
  • Ginny Weasley who loves all her brothers, but especially Fred and George, who make her laugh until she can’t breathe and take her seriously.
  • Ginny Weasley who loves having Hermione come and stay over the summer, because it’s like having a sister, and god, she wants a sister so bad.
  • Ginny Weasley who moved past her crush on Harry Potter and dated other boys while getting to know Harry and becoming his friend.
  • Ginny Weasley who was amazing at Quidditch and a total jock, and Harry might have been the captain, but she knew quite a bit more about strategy then he did.
  • Ginny Weasley who teaches him how to coach a team and get the players where they needed to be, and know where the other players  are during a game while staying aware of the snitch.
  • Ginny Weasley who led the D.A in Harry’s absence with Neville by her side, because they might not have been chosen ones but they could choose their own paths and they chose fighting in the resistance.
  • Ginny Weasley who took the lashings and the burnt hands and horrible, horrible pain over telling where her brother and her friends were.
  • Ginny Weasley who took care of the other kids, Slytherin or Hufflepuff or Ravenclaw, because suddenly houses didn’t matter anymore, when the Carrows were in charge.
  • Ginny Weasley who wasn’t about to let Harry Potter to fight his war alone.
  • Ginny Weasley who built him an army out of half starved, bruised students.
  • Ginny Weasley who built an army for her brothers, and for Sirius Black and for Tonks who deserved to have a baby in a world without Voldemort. For her mother who didn’t get that, and for the little girl who wrote on the walls in blood and doesn’t remember her first year of school.
  • Ginny Weasley who fights in the Final Battle and keeps fighting after Harry dies, because she knows him, and she sees something of him in everyone fighting and she is so furious, with these people who took her funny, lost, boy and snapped him in half, and she fights harder because he looks so fragile in Hagrids arms.
  • Ginny Weasley who felt the hollow aching loss of Fred in her chest for the rest of her life. 
  • Ginny Weasley who loves Quidditch and cries the happy-kind-of-tears for the first time after Fred dies when she finds out she made the Holy Head Harpies.
  • Ginny Weasley who falls back in love with Harry Potter. This time because he is broken and stitched back together in all the same ways she is, and they match in all the broken ways. 
  • Ginny Weasley who falls back in love with Harry Potter because they go together in all the good ways too, like how he makes her laugh in the mornings and the way she absent mindedly slides his glasses up his nose when they fall crooked.

Every time Harry was at Quidditch practice, learning shit with Dumbledore, learning shit with Snape, in detention, in the infirmary, held up by something to do with his fame, etc. Ron and Hermione were together. What do you think they were doing for 6 years in that time other than getting to know each other?

Hermione doesn’t seem to have any other friends besides the boys, and even though Ron could hang out with the boys from rest of the Gryffindor class of ‘98 (Seamus, Dean, Neville, etc.), whenever Harry resurfaces from where he’s been and seeks them out to tell them what he’s been up to, they’re almost always together waiting for him. y'all think they spent 6 years sitting in silence??

weasley-wheezy

Harry had not heard the others coming through the darkness. Bill was wearing a traveling cloak, Fleur a large white apron, from the pocket of which protruded a bottle of what Harry recognized to be Skele-Gro. Hermione was wrapped in a borrowed dressing gown, pale and unsteady on her feet; Ron put an arm around her when she reached him.

In all honesty though, Harry and Hermione would not have lasted long enough to even think about defeating Voldemort without Ron Weasley there. 

Like, Hermione would disappear in the library for whole days and Ron would probably go in search for her and all but drag her to dinner because “You have to eat ‘Mione. Don’t forget to eat.” 

Ron spending his Winter Holidays with Harry instead of with his own family, because Harry needed him more. 

Ron giving Hermione a Weasley sweater because It’s colder out here than I thought it would be and the twins would tease him, while he insisted it wasn’t like that.

And Harry was constantly getting in scuffles with the Slytherins, so Ron, who’s Mum taught all her children household spells, would fix Harry up in their dorm room, so ‘Mione wouldn’t see and get angry. 

Hermione would catch the flu and Ron would take her to Madam Pomfrey, and lecture her gently on how if colds went untreated they could get worse, while Hermione rolls her eyes and she only has the sniffles Ron, it’s not the plague. Please find your chill.

When Harry would start to break,  Ron would get him blankets and sit up by the fire all night,  while Harry pretended nothing was wrong, despite the fact that he was literally always in mortal peril and his emotional state was always frayed.

Ron Weasley kept Harry Potter and Hermione Granger sane and fed and alive. 

Can we just talk about Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Chapter 19: “The Silver Doe”?

Can we just talk about how one of Ron’s biggest fears was not being loved as much as his siblings and his best friend?

Can we just talk about how Ron was totally convinced that Harry and Hermione were together and got along just fine without him?

Can we just talk about how Ron cried after he smashed the locket that was showing him his biggest fears, which included seeing Hermione with Harry?

Can we just talk about how Harry talked him through it and assured him that he loved Hermione like a sister and nothing more?

Can we just talk about the fact that Harry told Ron that after he left, Hermione cried all the time and barely spoke at all?

The Silver Doe is such an important chapter and the movie did not do justice to it.

signs as hp movie moments
  • aries:harry rescuing draco in the fiendfyre scene
  • taurus:sirius and remus reuniting in the shrieking shack
  • gemini:dumbledore "calmly" asking harry if he put his name in the goblet of fire
  • cancer:sirius promising harry a new home with him
  • leo:draco being "attacked" by buckbeak
  • virgo:the golden trio having a discussion over the common room and hermione mentions ron having the emotional range of a teaspoon
  • libra:harry after he "dies" and wakes up at king's cross
  • scorpio:the prince's tale
  • sagittarius:harry's first visit at diagon alley
  • capricorn:professor mcgonagall finally using the spell she always wanted to use
  • aquarius:the entire scene dedicated to weasley's wizard wheezes shop
  • pisces:ron and hermione finally kissing