shout out to people who have really morally wrong intrusive thoughts! people who know those things are wrong and can’t stop thinking about them, people who are disgusted by themselves. you aren’t disgusting! those thoughts aren’t you and you can’t control them! it’s ok, you’re a good person.
you may have experiences as a gay person where someone says something really rude to you or asks you something invasive, but in a way that makes you wonder “is this person a homophobe or are they deeply closeted/confused” and obviously it could be the first but if it does later end up being the latter, know that it’s still okay to be uncomfortable with what they said and that it is completely unfair of people to project their sexuality issues onto you in really harmful ways
sometimes you need to accept that yes i may have been a little bit manipulative. yes i worded something in a specific way that would make my friend/fp/SO feel a bit guilty. yes i could have handled that situation in a much better way. yes i am wrong.
hello sorry to bother but bye babe has been nominated on show champion and if you have the time, please vote for it on idol champ and show our support for jongdae !! here is a quick tutorial on how to vote for it on mobile !