shout out to people who have really morally wrong intrusive thoughts! people who know those things are wrong and can’t stop thinking about them, people who are disgusted by themselves. you aren’t disgusting! those thoughts aren’t you and you can’t control them! it’s ok, you’re a good person.
sometimes you need to accept that yes i may have been a little bit manipulative. yes i worded something in a specific way that would make my friend/fp/SO feel a bit guilty. yes i could have handled that situation in a much better way. yes i am wrong.
“The issue isn’t whether he loved you, it’s how much. Too much. Love can be a poison.” And then he was gone.”
This is probably the only Rhysand quote that I really….dislike.
I mean I get what he’s saying. But I just…don’t really think someone loves you if it becomes a poison. I mean love can hurt, yes, but I just…don’t consider Tamlin’s treatment of Feyre to be “too much” love. I consider his actions to be selfish. And I think it’s impossible to truly love someone if you only think about yourself…like Tamlin does. I mean I think that Tamlin THINKS he loves Feyre but I’m not sure if I…really believe it. Like love is more than just the personal conviction that you love someone. Like… I don’t think this issue with Tamlin is too much love, or even the wrong type of love. I think it’s that his personal definition of love and how he expresses his “love” is….shitty, and abusive….and not actually love. I mean you don’t love someone if you lock them in a house. He thinks he loves Feyre and is protecting her but…it’s coming from a selfish desire to control her…and i just…don’t think that real love has much selfishness in it.
I guess I’m just really nit picky and Im sure Rhys would agree that Tamlin didn’t love Feyre but I don’t like Tamlin’s actions being described as any type of love because…real love is not abusive.
@paralleladragons designed really cute Jackson/Cruz kids and. Got damn it they were cute. I want to be the godmother of this banana boy and black licorice n lemon baby. They gave me blessing 2 draw them which is basically the same thing….
So far i finished Natasha and I’ll try and draw Henry tomorrow! I went an humanized her as I tend to do and. shoot…she turned out cute i dont know what to do with myself. I kinda made her darker bc my human Jackie boy is darker skinned :O I hope that its okay aaa..
Talking about the complaints of fat shaming in Yuri no Ice made me curious to know how people are treating “Kiss him, not me”: an anime where the lead girl was fat but becomes desirable after starving herself for a week, turning slim and thus pretty in the boys eyes